My crush is grieving right now and he won't be back in school for a couple of days, and I was wondering if I should just go up and hug him?

[Anonymous]

This may be creepy to you but I would honestly want someone to show me some love.ps.his uncle just died

[chinkgirly]

That would be creepy, but it would be less creepy if you said,"Do you need a hug?" and then if he says yes, hug him. If he says no, then don't. He might need some alone time.

[Asker]

Honestly the worst thing to do when your grieving is to be alone. You need someone to carry you through. Thanks for the advice though.

[chinkgirly]

Well, I'm always alone when I'm grieving. I never tell anyone when I am too... I honestly just don't like it when people see the weak side of me. But when people seem sad, that's what I do and they usually say yes.

[Asker]

You should really talk to someone when your feeling like that. Trust me, I used to do that (and sometimes still do) and I'm still working on it. Someone had to bang this in my head. It's really not healthy. So if you need somebody to talk to hmu.

[chinkgirly]

Ok. Thanks for that.

[jswag]

When my grandma died in March, I was actually kinda hoping some girl would do that to me. Losing a loved one is tough and hugs would make it better. So yeah go hug him.

[Asker]

Aww...I wish I would've known you. I wouldn't have mind giving you a million hugs.

[biggie90]

Hug him and give him your shoulder if he has to cry.

[Asker]

I'll do that.