I think things have changed between my guy friend and me. We used to be a lot more casual around each other and hug every day. Lately things seem awkward between us and we still talk and text a lot, but when it's just us talking it seems like there is stuff we both want to say but don't for whatever reason. We joke around a lot but we also have silly fights about things like if we hurt each other's feelings somehow and there's way more apologizing ( like 100% more) than with my other guy friends. We've made each other cry before, which definitely doesn't happen with me and my other friends. He seems genuinely concerned if I say I'm mad at him and he takes time to explain or make it right.
Now instead of friendly hugs our touching is sort of sneaky, like we reach out and quickly touch each other or brush past each other and put our hands on each other's hips. Yesterday we sort of awkwardly squeezed hands really tightly while walking by each other. It seems like if we're in the same room we have to sit or stand as close as possible to each other.
I touch him a lot when we talk and if I need by him I make sure to put my hand on his chest or arms. It seems like we are literally always reaching our hands toward each other. When we sit together our legs and feet are always touching and he never moves away.
We also share food/drinks a lot and he's spoon fed me and put chocolates right in my mouth. He's also started talking about sex a lot to me and when he knows I can hear him. He's asked me what stuff I've done and about things I might like to do, but he never says he wants to do anything specifically with me, which confuses me. But he does suggest stuff like me sitting on his lap or he wants me to be his pillow. I catch him looking at my boobs a lot. He brings up stuff I've admitted to and jokes about it, like me giving head, again just in general, not like how bout you blow me or anything creepy.
I'm too shy to just ask him unless I'm sure he's into me.
Now instead of friendly hugs our touching is sort of sneaky, like we reach out and quickly touch each other or brush past each other and put our hands on each other's hips. Yesterday we sort of awkwardly squeezed hands really tightly while walking by each other. It seems like if we're in the same room we have to sit or stand as close as possible to each other.
I touch him a lot when we talk and if I need by him I make sure to put my hand on his chest or arms. It seems like we are literally always reaching our hands toward each other. When we sit together our legs and feet are always touching and he never moves away.
We also share food/drinks a lot and he's spoon fed me and put chocolates right in my mouth. He's also started talking about sex a lot to me and when he knows I can hear him. He's asked me what stuff I've done and about things I might like to do, but he never says he wants to do anything specifically with me, which confuses me. But he does suggest stuff like me sitting on his lap or he wants me to be his pillow. I catch him looking at my boobs a lot. He brings up stuff I've admitted to and jokes about it, like me giving head, again just in general, not like how bout you blow me or anything creepy.
I'm too shy to just ask him unless I'm sure he's into me.
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