Freckles on arms?

[Anonymous]

Are freckles on guys and on their arms ugly? I have faded ones on my face and some are starting to cluster on my arms. no one's noticed yet but I'm bummed out. are they ugly on arms?

[cun7n1nja]

Not at all! I have some too. I have them across my nose and cheeks, and I have some on my arms. I like them and I think they're cute, on myself and on others. Most girls won't think twice about your freckles, if they even notice them at all.

[Asker]

Thanks! :]

[cun7n1nja]

No problem! Try not to be so self-conscious about it. =] Everyone is their own worst critic.

[Asker]

I suppose that's true, I just get down about things recently, I don't know why. :/

[cun7n1nja]

I'm sorry. I know how you feel though. I've been kind of down on myself lately too about stupid things that don't even matter in reality, haha.

[Asker]

Sorry I took so long to respond this time haha, but yeah it can be a real hamper on your mood. :/

[Lawraah]

Course they're not ugly! Its a part of who you are!

Millions of people have lots of freckles here, there and everywhere!

Try not to worry about it..IF anyone does mention them to be ugly then they're..well crazy really!

=]

[Asker]

Thanks! :]

[Annette83]

No! I have never heard any girl I know criticize a guy's freckles. Some even think they're cute. If, by "cluster" you mean they are changing, you should get them checked by your doctor.

[Asker]

I don't mean cluster in that sense I suppose, they're just starting to form all over my arm. I don't know maybe I'm just now noticing them and I never really cared about my freckles since I was like 8 when kids teased people for freckles, but suddenly I just find myself bummed out about it. I wouldn't mind if they were just on my face I guess. I don't know recently stuff like this has made me feel like I don't deserve a relationship. it sounds dumb I know.

[Asker]

Be completely honest please by the way I just wanna know for sure.

[Annette83]

Well everyone has a preference about what they find attractive. Maybe there are girls out there who prefer guys without freckles. But don't let it bother you because there are girls who only like guys with black hair or blue eyes or dark skin or who surf. I really do not think that the freckles will hurt your chances. I have them and I never thought about them before. Like I said, some people even have a thing for them. Everyone got teased about something when they were 8!

[Annette83]

By the way, if they have suddenly started forming on your arm, please do go and get a doctor to check them. Like I said, I'm freckled and this is something I'm careful about. Changes in freckles can = skin cancer. It is pretty common among freckled, fair-skinned people. It can be caught and fixed if it is found early. I know I sound like your mum, sorry, but this is really important. The thing to watch out for is if any freckles grow or change color or develop clusters.

[gleamgirl]

It is not ugly at all, personally I find freckles more attractive. You have no need to worry about them and no one will judge you because of them.

[Asker]

Thanks! :]

[gleamgirl]

Haha, your welcome! Plus, your not alone, my arms have freckles and no one has ever said anything to me.

[Asker]

It's just a personal gripe I have I guess. they bother me that I have em, but I'm attracted to girls who have freckles. it's weird haha

[gleamgirl]

If you are attracted to girls with freckles, then they will be attracted to you. :-)

[Anonymous]

If a girl doesn't like you because you have freckles on your arms then she's not even worth it. Freckles aren't that big off deal. A lot of girls will think freckles are cute.

[Asker]

Thanks! :]

[peachyme101]

Are you serious haha :). Freckles are so cute on guys. Be happy with them.

[Asker]

Thankss. :]

[Camilus]

You need to stop being so emo and start acting like a dude. You are depressed because you have some freckles on your arms?...are you serious?

[Asker]

I've gone through sh*t a lot worse then this. I mean a LOT! but I get down about the little things, and when you think about it, unlike things that have happened to me, this will physically stay with me my whole life. I'm thinking subjectively of course.

[Cool-Relax]

If I asked you if my boobs are big enough, would you tell me to stop being emo? Or is it more acceptable for a girl to be insecure about her body?

[Asker]

Yeah Camilus, not to start a war or anything, but you're basically saying guys shouldn't have feelings.

[ALWAYSclassy]

It's not ugly

[swordsdragonsanddiet]

thanks everyone for the encouragement! :]