How do you know when a woman legitimately cares about you?

[Ellohymn]

Guys... How do you know when a woman legitimately cares about you. Not about your future, wealth, looks, sexual abilities or any other materialistic sh*t... How do you know when/if she actually cares about YOU?

[Anonymous]

I regret that this is asked so much on this site, and in public. When a woman legitimately cares about you, she cares about your happiness, your well-being, your personal growth. She cares about what makes you happy, what makes you sad, what inspires you, what you dig, what you hate, what you value, and what you believe in. She could care less about worldly possessions. You could be driving a tricked out truck or an old station wagon you get as a hand-me-down. You could be a master at sex or an uneducated virgin. You could be a "baller" with money or you could be currently homeless. You could have the american dream with a good job set up, or be a starving artist. You could be a casanova or an awkward teenager. You could be the best looking man or be considered "unattractive" by society or yourself (when you shouldn't). But none of that matters. All she cares about is helping you to be the best you can be, helping you achieve your dreams, helping you strive for the best, and only the best. She cares about making you happy. Doing little things to cheer you up. Helping and advising you to be the person you want to be. She'll be interested in you. Want to spend time with you. Make you feel special. And be willing to lay everything on the line for you. You two could be homeless living down by the river in a van. But as long as you find happiness in each other and your lives, why does the world have the right to judge you two? Don't get caught up in where the world says where you need to be in life, according to your age, move at your own speed. And I suppose you will only know if she truly does by questioning her. But it should already be obvious by how she acts around you. How you two move. When you move, she moves. But if it isn't obvious, then she either doesn't care, or doesn't show emotion well.

[xxwhisperzxx]

well, if she dates you and you're ugly, no god at sex, poor, not expactations for your futur...than she defintly like you..

xD

you can never really know about those things. asking is no good, she wouldn't tell you obviosly (you can still try though),

but if you feel she really loves you for who you are, if your guts tel you that, if you're really sure, than you're probably right.

some girls are having a hard time figuring out if they like the guy because he's him or bacause of his ooks, money, fame ect... themselves,

hope this helps

[rockmom]

if she cares for you, she will care about your future, your health, your friends, family. shell take an interest in what you like and want and shell want to learn all she can about you. shell want to spend as much time with you as she can and do little things for you to make you feel special.

[Tom20]

I think its through those subtle actions in response to your own feels. If her reactions reflect yours you will just know. I can give you a personal example.

I was feeling rather low one day, which do the record is remarkably rare I'm a very happy, up beat person. She came over and saw I wasn't in the best of moods and put her arms around me and just hugged me. There was just so much care and affection in that hug that I never for a moment after that question if she really loved me.