Girls why do you find Asian guys attractive?

[Anonymous]

I would like to know.

[SomebodyToldMeh]

Okay, firstly, I find it silly that most Asian men who ask this are directing it a white girls, but don't ever say it. So, if that's the case, just put it in there..

The reason I find Asians attractive is because they look gentle, but more like a gentle lion than a little mouse. They're, in general, proud, but don't flaunt it. THAT'S the sweetest/sexiest thing that can be thought of.

I also like the eyes. Asian eyes are the prettiest, or handsome.. est.., style I've ever seen.

The third thing I like is the hair. Even if it's a bit untamed, the fact that it's such a deep, rich color and so silky just drives me crazy! Lol. I think it's so lovely. Whether it's in spikes or just 'natural', I love it!

I've only been with one short guy out of around 17, but, even though he was a jerk afterwords, I can't deny he was the funniest guy I've been with. He always joked about his size and my size. It just made me more comfertable. Note, the guy was about 4'6 and I a foot taller.



I've also seen this penis thing.. Honestly? It doesn't seem bad at all. I have a fear of sex all together, but I KNOW I'd rather be with some one 'small' but willing to please than cocky and 'hung'. For some reason, 'hung' guys are really shallow and ignorant and are more willing to just do it 'do it', but a 'smaller' guy won't use you. Or, atleast, he'll do it in a kind way. I.E, won't make fun of you afterwords.

I like the fact that they know what their place is. Like, they aren't even sexist about it. An Asian man, well some atleast, seem like the better husband. I've rarely heard domestic violence/cheaters stories from the Asian/Non-Asian women. Many, even if they're outgoing, are reletively calm and collected. Being shy is really adorible to me, too. I generally like to spoil the guy.. Like, take care of him and junk, and a blush here or there has GOT the be the sweetest thing I can see from a man.



Hm, what else haven't I touched on this? OH! The skinny-ness!

Personally, I like it. Muscles scare me. A slim guy is just so.. Oh, I don't even know what it is about them.. It's just so nice to see them or get a hug from them! They just look so damn gentle~ *e-swoon* Like, not Bambi gentle.. Just.. Strong-gentle.

And, lastly.. The 'nerd' thing. Now, boys, think, would you rather be with a brain dead girl or an educated one like yourself?

It's the same thing for *normal* girls. If a guy's smart, I know they'll be less fights in the relationship. I also know he won't be a lazy piece of sh*t. Atleast you don't have this crappy 'fat, loud, rude' stereotype that us black chicks get. Mainly from the black guys that can't shut up. (btw, I'm the quietest, non-slutty-ies girl in my school and I'm 125lbs. I'm also almost 5'7 xD)

I know that, by this point, I've strayed from the topic, but there's tons of reasons why I like Asian guys. By the way, I hope you're not that same freak from YouTube, Lock.. I really do.

STM~

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[SomebodyToldMeh]

*at

*trait, not style

*comfortable, not comfertable

*..To do it just to do it, not for feelings..

*or an educated PERSON..Not 'one like yourself'.

Hope it helps,

Love and Pickle Sandwitches,

STM~!

[Star_Lord]

You must be kidding me, by the way did you mean all the Asian guys? No matter which country?

[empneo]

My ethnicity is Asian as well; I'd have to concur that the reason I am attracted to Asian males at my high school is because I absolutely treasure the respectful culture we have. Anything I value in my significant other, would be respect, consideration, honor, intellect, and kindness. Honestly, I'm 100% team good guys. Bad guys don't even get my attention, the only thing is I'm definitely assertive in any situation other than a relationship. I expect the guy to make the first move.

[Anonymous]

I don't know, really. I guess it's because they're foreign and they don't act like the assbutts we've got here in America. Let's face it, how often to do you see an unattractive American male? Okay, now how often do you see an unattractive Asian male? There's a while lot of space between those two. Asian guys are just hot, okay? They just draw us in like that. The face, the posture... bro, the HAIR. Have you seen the hair? It's beautiful. Some Asians are jerks, too. Not like American type jerk, the jerk that pretends to be the nice guy then hits you with that BAM! I'm a jerk! No, I'm talking the kind of jerk you already know about. As soon as you see them, they have been labeled as a jerk. That kind of jerk plays with you, they make you laugh. I guess that's appealing as well... or maybe that's just me. Asian men are sweet too, you know. They care about us women and it's really hard to find guys who do anymore. Girls are all about interracial dating/marriage nowadays. If there's a white woman whohas a chance to snag a black man, she had better get to it. If there's a light skinned black woman who has the chance to snag a hot Asian, you had better believe I'm gonna take that chance.

[QooLipBite]

Thanks

[AikidoChick1986]

I can't help but think that a good many white girls have a fetish for Asian men more than a genuine attraction. My basis for belief is the overabundance of anime and manga in our American culture. They see the images and the publicity and make generalizations... which is no different than what any of you are doing about white men, black men, or a man of any ethnic culture.

Not all Asian men are cute, sweet, or shy. Not all black men are muscular, hung or artistic. Not all white guys are jerks, "small", or whatever... Do you see my point?

What should attract you to someone is their personality and how they treat you as a person... Not their race or ethnic background.

[Lockjawx27]

I'm not a girl, but I couldn't help but answer this. American girls, INCLUDING ASIAN GIRLS, are not generally attracted to Asian guys.

Asian guys are at the bottom of the totem pole because of 2 reasons:

1) They got labeled with the worst stereotype possible for a guy: small p*nis

2) Generally speaking they are skinny, short, nerdy, shy, etc.

I've thought about it long and hard. No one has it worst than the native English speaking heterosexual Asian male in the US. No one, not even blacks or arabs

White guys, of course, ar eon the top of the totem pole

But none of these lying skanks will tell you that truth. They will all deny deny deny it. Meanwhile in real life, they don't give Asian guys the time of day. Sorry, I've seen it a thousand times.

Its an American woman issue by the way, I suggest moving form the country if you truly want to be desired

[Asker]

Wow your answer is the complete opposite to the girls'. I wonder if it's the denial thing, because if girls mostly find Asian guys attractive then why there more Asian guys with white girls? And it's not like I haven't tried, but you only need to read girls body language to know they're not interested even before I open my mouth.

American thing? Does that mean if I lived in say, Europe I would have a better chance?

[Lockjawx27]

Yes, its like I said, girls will tell you that they are attracted to an asian guy or would date one, but in reality, they do not. I've never seen a white girl with an asian guy, ever in my life unless it was on TV.

You've got to remember that when you ask girls these kinds of questions, they deny deny deny and lie to make themselves seem not superficial. But they are.

I would suggest the Phillipines or Thailand.They are 3rd world countries, yes, but the women are less stuck up and very pretty

[daniellealicia]

I missed that stereotype tho it may be true and not all asian guys are nerdy shy etc. I mean its like every culture all the nerds I've ever seen are white honestly not offensively. I just disagree with your reason. I mean they aren't out there like other men tho. that may make them come of as shy.

[SomebodyToldMeh]

I like how you've never met any of us, yet you feel obligated to act as if you do. I hate you people that always blame EVERYTHING on American women. Hell, I bet you blame DEATH on us if you could get away with it. Calm the f*** down, stop being an ass and take a breather. I'm not, will not and shall never be a liar/skank or anything of the sort. Don't you ever insult me or people that you don't know. It makes you seem like a f***tard. Have a good day. :P

[AsianPimpStatus]

You just suck with women..

[johnniboi29]

Sorry but I am asian but not showing off I got a big p*nis for my age sorry because girls even said it and plus okayy I agree with shy but I'm not skinny and I am not nerdy and not all the asians are nerdy depends on what country you are from and I am not showing off just saying and yes we are polite and nice to girls and that is the whole reason why white girls like asian boys

[ApatheticApology]

I actually adore most of the asian guys I've seen. I mean. They're funny, sweet, and the shyness, it's to die for. Not every asian guy is shy though, I know that for a fact. And who cares about the mans size? When they're old, being hung will look gross when they can't get it up anymore, plus EVERY asian man can't be small :/ it's not possible.

I hate most white guys, and have NEVER, I mean NEVER been attracted to an Arab yet!

Sincerely,

Girl with an asian and britsh fetish :)

[Facts]

This is true, but it's also true that white women are more sexually attracted to black men for the opposite reasons: 1. Larger endowment than white men 2. Much cooler than white men - better musicians, dancers, singers, which excites white women 3. More muscular, usually taller than white men 4. More game and smooth talk 5. More of a bad boy, dangerous image, which white women love. White men hate to admit this, but you can't deny it when you see the smiles on white women's faces when a tall, muscular, bald black man walks into the room. Especially if they have a suit on, because then that eliminates the only plus that white women have over them (money). I black man with a big paycheck and a big endowment will get any white girl before the average looking white guy will.

[deliciousfox]

Yes:

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[aggiipaggii]

I love Asian guys because:

1. Their sense of humor. They really know how to make me smile! A guy that can make his girl laugh, is a sweet guy!

2. Their respect and caring for the girl. My experiences of Asian guys is, that they know EXACTLY when it's something wrong (the girl is sad/angry/ill) and when he sees that, he does everything to get her happy again :)

3. Their appearence. My experiences of Asian guys is also that they are nice and smiles to everyone. They are very humble.

4. I think they are so HOT! ;D Even one of those "nerdy" Asians can just be such a turn-on for me because of the cuteness. I can not see any flaw with the Asian features! :)

[QooLipBite]

Thanks ;D

[ducuk1942]

uumm.. well I'm asian and I'm not attractive of asian guys much.. just cos the majority of them are short, thin, too loud (like if you ever had asian guys in math class, they talk so loud like their fighting each other or something) or their too shy ... but unless he's a muscular (not the hard core body builders) and a tall asian guy, I'd find him so hot.

[RockyHorror]

Yes, I can find someone of every race attractive. I once watched this show called Beauty & the Geek & there was this extremely intelligent Asian man on there who I had a huge crush on. He could unravel a rubics cube in less than 25 seconds, now does it get smarter than that, no it doesn't.

Other Examples

Indian - Taylor Lautner

White - Rob Pattinson, Ian Somerhalder

Black - Barack Obama (not joking either)

Spanish - Antonio Banderas

[AnnXoxo]

Well, I don't know what is the situation in USA, but generally girls in Europe don't find Asian guys that attractive. I don't say that I personally won't find any Asian guys attractive but Asian guys would always be down on my list compared to guys of other race (I'm not talking about anything more than physical apperance). Sorry if this is offending, I assume that you are an Asian guy asking the question.

[Anonymous]

Don't know. But a cute guy is a cute guy regardless of race

[SociallyInept]

I agree with her completely

[princessasha101]

YES !!! They are so sexy and hot I swear they are the hottest race of guys on earth !!! <3 <3 <3 :) :) :)

[Kookieminmin]

They really are. But in my opinion I like korean men the most, it's not because of kpop. It's just they apeal to me the most of any other race.

[aamy811]

Becaus they are. I just like the way they look and I can't really help it.

[12elizabeth]

i dnt thiink asians are that much attractive...other than their soft hair..lol

[lemontea]

I like Asian guys because they have a respect for their elders and tend to respect the women alike. They have great fashion sense and have great morals and principles in general. I like the culture.

[MaxAsian9]

This is so true!!

[kangy]

No I dont find them that attractive (not my type) but there are attractive ones in the race.

[Anonymous]

I guess with the same reasons you find Asian girls attractive!

[Ihav2fart]

Where do you live cause I'm not exactly hot stuff where Im from...

[roomina95]

- well most of asian guys are so cute but its not about this the point is that asian guys respect girls and women and I think this is the main reason :D

[Taylaaa1027]

Well I like Asians :) and well I'm an Asian too. I like them because they can be really cute. I live in an area that has a lot of Asians by the way so I guess it kind of influences who I like.

[Anonymous]

Umm... we don't? Not me at least.