During our relationship he also called me like that, and as I was so in love with him (he was my first boyfriend) I started questioning myself and believed him. I endured the name calling. I know, it was dumb of me, but I was madly in love.
Then we broke up, and I started living the single life. I started meeting new guys. Not to hook up, just as friends or what have you. I gave a couple of them my number 'cause they asked for it, not thinking anything about it really.
Sure they are somewhat interested in me, but so what? The thing is I was with my ex this weekend 'cause he asked me to a concert, no strings attached so I went. He was still trying to get me to forgive him after the break up. I thought he had changed. But the moment I left my mobile phone unattended, he went through it.
He got p*ssed over the numbers he found and the fact that these guys had started calling me. I told him how everything had happened and that I was not interested in them, but yeah I gave them my number, and so what? He called me a slut.
He also has this friend, a girl, who he tells everything too, and he told him this and she told him that I was not worth it. As if I was a baaad person and he was great. Yeah right.
I feel so awful and can't seem to get past it, I know he's a jerk, but deep down I'm so hurt and want revenge. I don't want to go down that path, so please, help me, how can I get over this without doing anything stupid?
Then we broke up, and I started living the single life. I started meeting new guys. Not to hook up, just as friends or what have you. I gave a couple of them my number 'cause they asked for it, not thinking anything about it really.
Sure they are somewhat interested in me, but so what? The thing is I was with my ex this weekend 'cause he asked me to a concert, no strings attached so I went. He was still trying to get me to forgive him after the break up. I thought he had changed. But the moment I left my mobile phone unattended, he went through it.
He got p*ssed over the numbers he found and the fact that these guys had started calling me. I told him how everything had happened and that I was not interested in them, but yeah I gave them my number, and so what? He called me a slut.
He also has this friend, a girl, who he tells everything too, and he told him this and she told him that I was not worth it. As if I was a baaad person and he was great. Yeah right.
I feel so awful and can't seem to get past it, I know he's a jerk, but deep down I'm so hurt and want revenge. I don't want to go down that path, so please, help me, how can I get over this without doing anything stupid?
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