+1 yYea of course, but if you do that right away you'll most likely ruin the chance of a long lasting relationship if that what your going for. If they bring it up to fast they just want sex. It'd be best to get to know them or test them to see if there genuine, but if your just looking for sex than yea most guys will be like "hell yea" and brag about to there friends how there gonna get some pussy or even show there friends your pics. Just to get bragging rights to raise thier social standing amoung thier peers. Im not that type of guy, but I've seen it to many times even had a guy i hung out with show me a pic of his girlfriend when the barely started dating and she was naked. Most guys i know have done this around me just giving you a heads up if you dont want to get your heart broken.
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Ummmmm... kinda iffy... we're all different... but here is my opinion.
Pics - only once in a while, but I never ask.
Messages - eh, take it or leave it.
I want the "sexiness" to be in-person... if too many pics or messages are sent, it seems like she is trying too hard for my attention (also, if its early in the relationship, who ELSE is she sending them to?)... but if pics are sent, give a reason... like if you bought a new bra for example... send a pic if you desire... but don't send them just because10 Reply
They sure do even after being married for many years and post kids. I send them to my husband all the time.
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+1 yI do! It makes me feel special. The person took time out of their day to think of me.
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+1 yI suppose it would depend on the guy, and who the message comes from.
If it's a girlfriend, or woman that I'm interested, then absolutely. I love getting messages like that. If it's from, say, a co-worker, whom I'venever been particularly close with, and I received it completely out of the blue... then not so much, no.10 ReplyYes, definitly. Almost at any part of the day, any where, any time. Just if you send pics. Be careful, dont put your face in the pics. Also make sure you trust him with the pics.
Its a little off topic, but you used thirsty wrong. You can't get thirsty if your getting sexts and pics. Your thirsty when your not getting them but really want to so much you seek attention from the oppisite gender.00 ReplyNot all of them, as people are different. But I think it depends on when do you do it, I mean if a guy is in the mood to get into that then alright but he might not be. It's on you to have a talk with him and just let him know what you're in the mood for at that time, guys like honesty, if he's in the mood too then alright, if he's not then he should reject politely.
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+1 yYes we do, it would be nice to get more of them. Seems like a chore for us to get them in most cases. I only had one girl out of many that would start the flirting first sometimes or send wakeup pictures or rare nudes.
All the rest it was almost like I had to run 2 miles, survive a storm, run back and do a backflip. Just to get a flirt from her.10 Reply
Anonymous(30-35)+1 yGuys definitely don't get aroused as easily by words as much as women do. Guys get aroused by visual stimuli which is why they ask for nudes all the damn time. But sending a guy dirty texts allows them to entertain the idea and makes them know that you want to bang.
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+1 yPersonally if I'm just getting g to know a girl and they send a revealing picture out of the blue it's a major turnoff. It just makes it seem as if they think I appreciate their body more than their personality.
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If you want to appreciate a personality then find a buddy and talk to them. Why tf are you talking to the opposite sex then if you don’t appreciate their body more. Although I would love if guys found my personality more attractive that just isn’t the case, and I just simply do not believe you.
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Think about it. If you start talking to a guy and you're having a decent conversation to get to know each other and all the sudden he sends a nude out of the blue. It just makes things uncomfortable. It also gives out the notion that they are quick to get sexual with people they don't know that well and that's also a turnoff. Don't you think?
Anticipation makes everything better. Plus guys like feeling appreciated and sexy as much as women do. So yeah, being texted sexy stuff is always a plus. Fulfills two criteria at once. So yeah, do it up!
00 ReplyYes, definitely! Lots of gals like receiving them, but usually only from their SO. But most guys like receiving them from any gal. Text or pictures, guys pretty much enjoy sexy things from gals.
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+1 ySome guy's do find it hot when a girlfriend or possible girlfriend feels open and free to send sexy pictures or dirty messages. But before sending the pictures make sure he is trustworthy not to post them on the internet.
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Anonymous(36-45)+1 yhaha, when she texts "hi" I'm like damn that's hot.
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Opinion Owner+1 y@psychoticallyawkward mm... mmmm girl. hi back at you.
I like it. I remember one time my girlfriend texted me and said “ugh, I’ve been on my feet all day, I’m exhausted”. So I was like come over and lay down. And she’s like “I’d rather come over and sit on your face”, and I was like 🤪🤪🤪🤪🤪
10 ReplyNo, no, guys don't get horny to a text message who told you that🤣
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+1 ySend one to me and I would more than appreciate it hahahahahaha guys like. it haha
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+1 yI love getting sent sexy texts and pics. Though only from girls that I know or have gotten to know.
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+1 yYeah it shows interest and opens the door to reciprocate
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+1 yAnyone in there right mind would... If it appeals to them. I get turned on by a sexy woman if I think she is attractive to me.. if not, it's sexual harrassment and it's wrong.
10 ReplySome do certanly. For me personally I do not like it. It looks very poor and slutty.
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+1 yFirst yes! Then it's never a good idea to send pictures unless they are faceless dirty messages is ok but not too often
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+1 yTrue af. Men are visual creatures, and respond to visual cues.
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+1 yIt makes the day so much better and also creates more intemacy in a relationship
10 ReplyWould you like to know the target of your affection/lust is desiring you? More than likely yes, and the same holds true for guys.
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+1 yI may be old fashioned but I don't see the point for it, if your dating just meet up and see the real thing?
10 ReplyDo girls like to receive flowers and be taken out to expensive restaurants?
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+1 y100% true!!! It's an anticipating moment that a guy plays in his head.
00 ReplyWow. That's like asking a dog lover if they love dogs. Lol.
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+1 yI like to receive dirty texts. I try to answer back as best as I can...
10 ReplyI like to get them but that is me but some guys don't like them and some do it all depends on the guy and what they like and the day
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+1 yTis a no brainer, if it was for girls , it would have fetched some interesting answers.
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+1 yIts fun i guess. I sit down with my wifey girl and we have lots of laughs.
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+1 yNo, if she is my lovely girl, because we need to respect each other, but if she's not then I wouldn't really care ☻
00 ReplyWe do, most of the time we get turned on for no reason
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+1 yof course we do.
and if you want to test the theory, follow and message me for some turning on LOL00 ReplySome yes some no but most of the time its nice getting those things
00 ReplyWho doesn't? (As long as it's not a stranger and there's consent on both parts)
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+1 yI can say only for myself, I love it, it shows that she thinks of my on can turn on only by thinking ;)
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+1 yYes but don't go too far... Be sexy but also leave some to the imagination and don't give it all away. Be sexy and flirty but not slutty
00 ReplyYeah some guys and personal if my girlfriend is away I am also one of those sexting sharing nude pics video calls etc.,
00 ReplyYes, most times we do unless we are feeling down and even then most times we won't turn it down lol
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+1 yMen in general like it, so if you wanna make some friends happy, enjoy so
10 ReplyNope I don't it's kinda boreing I want to feel and touch with my own skin
00 ReplyThat is a fact. However timing can be crucial, and each guy is different.
00 ReplyI wouldn't say that's a rumor, I think that would be a fact
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+1 yI would because I have a sexual mind anyway so for me to get a sext would put a smile on my face.
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+1 yYes we do it's not even about the sex tho it's just it's rensurrance that your our girl
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Anonymous(25-29)+1 yIt depends the context really.
At least for me, there has to be a significant meaning to it, not just because the internet is a place to dump it on.00 Reply
+1 yIt's definitely not a rumor.
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+1 yYeh I do no harm in flirty fun
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+1 yYup. But just if its my boyfriend.
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+1 yYes. It's very easy to turn a guy on
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And, I still get boners lol
+1 yl would love that you want my number
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+1 yNot really. I've got google
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+1 yYup, almsot all the yime
00 ReplyYes if they are dating the person.
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+1 yYes. No question about it
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+1 yI get turned on i would even send sum pics back
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+1 yIt does peek one's interest.
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+1 yDepends on how desperate.
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