How to make her jealous?

[Anonymous]

A month ago we would talk all the time. And now it's like she wants nothing to do with me. She said she still has feelings for me, so I believe she is playing hard to get. I wanna give her a taste of her own medicine? Any ideas?

[The-Nash]

Alright I was in a similar situation. And we talked for a month and I thought we were compatible. She didn't think so. At first everything was too good to be true. I returned all her calls. She returned most of mine. Does this sound familiar at all?

Well, I was labeled as "the nice guy," and she wanted "the bad boy." She did have feelings for me, but she also had feelings for some other guy, a lot more, too. If this sounds familiar then my advice to you, is to JUST LET HER BE. She is bad news for you. You've got better things to do than play a game of "mental chess" with this girl. Don't give this girl any of your attention. Don't answer her calls and make yourself unavailable. If she has any decency, Then she will call you after a couple of days and give you a clue of whats going on. She also may not know at this time what she wants and trying to get in touch with her often, might not be what she wants.

So think about it this way, you could spend your time feeling jealous about this girl, or find a girl who deserves your attention.

Where do you ultimately see yourself with this girl? Can you remain friends after this game of jealousy? What's it worth to you?

You got to determine if she is playing hard to get or deliberately making you jealous. If she is playing hard to get, then you have a totally different situation on your hands, and you got to ask more questions and do some observing of the situation. Use what you know to make the best of it.

[Married-in-PA]

Oh, this one is a classic, I was in this situation once, when I was 20.

Yes. Make sure she "runs into you" having a great time with ANOTHER attractive woman. Stage it if you have to, but be subtle, because most girls are good at smelling BS. Use a girl that you are friends with, if you have to. You'd be surprised how jealous a girl can get if she still has feelings for you -- and you play it cool, like you've moved on.

Your cell and e-mail account will start getting pinged like they were just posted on a freakin' billboard. Her friends might even call you to "check it what's going on, 'cause they just heard". Whatever you do, if she has moved on -- DON'T push it. Remember, there's nothing worse than a groveling man... chances are though, she still does have feelings for you, as you say.

[LadyLush]

Talk to her only enough to keep her hanging. Make her wonder what you're doing and why you're not available at her convenience... When she calls you say you're busy and have to go and don't call her back. Then when she calls you again talk to her for like 20 seconds longer then say you have to do something or another and you will definitely get back to her (be as sweet as possible), then do not call her back. Keep that up.

Act as if you have other things going on in your life that deserve more attention then a woman who wants to act as if she wants nothing to do with you. Soon enough she will wonder why you have no time for her. She should, if she is into you, get worried and try to pursue you more and be more available when it is at your convenience. Stop the game whenever you feel as if you either have her or when you just feel you both have had enough. Guaranteed, if she is trying to be with you she will change her act real quick! Good luck!

[subzer0fun]

She might just not be that in to you, but enjoys the attention you give her so she is stringing you along. It might be a good idea to just confront her on the issue. Point out that you two have not been talking much lately and ask if anything is up, if feelings have changed. Try to sound cool and objective and she might be honest with you.

[loveAnsweringOldQS]

Alright I was in a similar situation. And we talked for a month and I thought we were compatible. She didn't think so. At first everything was too good to be true. I returned all her calls. She returned most of mine. Does this sound familiar at all?

Well, I was labeled as "the nice guy," and she wanted "the bad boy." She did have feelings for me, but she also had feelings for some other guy, a lot more, too. If this sounds familiar then my advice to you, is to JUST LET HER BE. She is bad news for you. You've got better things to do than play a game of "mental chess" with this girl. Don't give this girl any of your attention. Don't answer her calls and make yourself unavailable. If she has any decency, Then she will call you after a couple of days and give you a clue of whats going on. She also may not know at this time what she wants and trying to get in touch with her often, might not be what she wants.

So think about it this way, you could spend your time feeling jealous about this girl, or find a girl who deserves your attention.

Where do you ultimately see yourself with this girl? Can you remain friends after this game of jealousy? What's it worth to you?

You got to determine if she is playing hard to get or deliberately making you jealous. If she is playing hard to get, then you have a totally different situation on your hands, and you got to ask more questions and do some observing of the situation. Use what you know to make the best of it.

[Sweetfeetpeet]

Play right back, and if she still flirtatious or somewhat interested, you got her. Get a hot girl to come hang around you when she is around chicks get jealous when you flaunt another girl in there face.

[purplemonster]

If she's playing hard to get, shouldn't you try harder to get her, instead of making her jealous?

I will leave the ideas on how to play games to the girls, since they are so good at it :)

[utopus]

A relationship based on revenge is doomed to failure, unless you are comic book characters.

[marisa]

Hahaha, that's awesome.

[liltom2hot]

make out with another chick :D