Do I ask the guy or go solo?

[username3445]

My friend is having her 21st birthday party in a couple weeks. I don’t have anyone to go with but I wanted to ask this guy I haven’t talk to you in a while. You recently talked a little bit but I don’t know if it be weird to ask if you wanted to go with me.

[virgin20]

May I ask why you need someone to go with? You're going for your friend!
If you really want someone to go with, look at right now you have no one, if you don't ask him you still have no one. If you ask there's a chance you'll have someone.
Just don't ask for the sake of asking and for the partner to a birthday, ask if you want something to progress

[username3445]

My friend told me to bring someone so that’s why I would ask

[virgin20]

If you only want him for that then no.
Your friend shouldn't pressure you like that. It's none of her business

[username3445]

I kinda wanna reconnect with him but I don't know going to a party might be a werid thing to ask. But more people around so less awkward

[virgin20]

Yeah the party sounds like you're using him. Maybe ask to go out before then mention the party

[username3445]

I can do that

[nachosaresexy]

Go for it! A party seems like a good casual social environment that he wouldn't feel uncomfortable.

[Hannajenky]

Ask if he can be your designated driver lol

[kinna56]

Just ask him already