Does the idea of dating a girl who could kick your ass turn you on?

Question

I've had guys get all flustered when they learn about me doing Taekwondo they're always like "so you could kick my ass 😳"

Like yeah probably 🤷🏼‍♀️

They find it really hot what about you?

ChrisMaster69 · Accepted Answer

Yes sort of.

my Ex girlfriend was in to KickBoxing and used to compete and was a WUMA registered instructor. https://www.wumawebsite.com

I was often the clown with the pads.

I don’t think people appreciate the speed and power, that can be delivered by a girl.

she also had pretty much No Flight, in a person fight or flight response and would stand her ground all time.

She was also my collard sub, which made some role plays and sessions when she was felling ‘playful’ a bit physical, such as a few busted nose occurrences, bruised ribs and other parts. A lot of real world subs are very ‘strong’ individuals and would scare the usual bedroom / porn watching Dom lol.

the entire thing is not just sexy but also makes you proud that someone is able to defend themselves and others.

so yes a turn on but so much more and much deeper.

EmbraceThePain · Accepted Answer

Well, kind of actually.
I don’t mean to be narcissistic or cocky, but the chances of a woman being able to beat me up is extremely slim. Even if she is a professional fighter, I don’t have much faith in her actually beating me up if we fight since I’m trained in martial arts and PT almost everyday. If a woman can actually beat me up, I’m perfectly fine by that and will congratulate her to no end. I’m just saying, if I’m honest, I find it rather slim based on my own capabilities. Also, I’m not saying I’m some
extreme martial artist expert.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

But if he is your partner, why show him that you can do better than him? there is no reason to compete it is a relationship not a competition. I notice a certain air of superiority in you that wants to make your partner feel less.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

What exactly is the point of this post? To brag about your athletic prowess? Why so narcissistic?

BeMuse · Answer

I see it this way. First, I know you couldn’t kick my ass. It’s not even a thing… A girl that can do martial arts isn’t a turn on, but it does seem pretty practical. I’d say not being a wimp and having some confidence is a positive trait. If anything ever happened you could probably look after yourself and I wouldn’t have to worry about you too much. Being a tough cookie you’re probably willing to try things that some girls might not. But if you walk around thinking you can kick my ass and you’re prone to flip and start violence it would probably land you in a bad place...

NathanMulligan · Answer

a lot of people have answered this with "i could probably still win in a fight" but that doesn't really answer the question of why guys are so uncomfortable with a girl that could kick their ass I think that most guys are made uncomfortable by this because they have lived their whole lives knowing if they wanted to they could beat the shit out of a girl and as such society looks deaply down on those who do. As such for most guys the thought of a girl who could kick their ass in a fair fight and simultaneously they dont know if you were to fight agressively which is worse to win and be scorned by society or to genuinly lose and the complete and utter desteuction that would have on their pride.

Personally I think girls who do martial arts are attractive because I respect the hard grueling physical work that goes into it and I respect the mental discipline that taekwondo especially teaches.

pickedcrisps · Answer

No because I'd more likely ask her very respectfully and tactfully: "does that mean you can stretch your body in a lot of fascinating ways more than the average mere mortal woman?" With a friendly jokey smile. Not disrespectful but just playful and not as a rude first question or rude first statement either.

No one wants an over-eager trying to achiever if that rhymes 🤣🤣🤣😂😂

Bricealan · Answer

Personally, I like, 'superior' women, but I do find it intimidating to a degree. One of my Yoga instructors, is drop dead beautiful, has a toned, tanned body, is stronger than me, has more endurance, plays the violin, plays the Cello AND the piano. But you know what? I would be putty in her hands.
Oh, and yes, I am sure she could kick my ass, especially doing ANYTHING on a yoga mat and on the floor.

NathanDavis · Answer

the idea to me is not a turn on... but I think it's really cool that can actually kick ass, so I would really like it because of that

and I would rather learn some moves from you... than getting turned on by it... lol.

The-Wise-Phoenix · Answer

Nah it wouldn't bother me.
I was a wrestler in school in Pennsylvania. Wrestling in Pennsylvania is like football in Texas. You don't ever forget that stuff. I am confident I could neutralize you without hurting you even at my age. 😏

JustinTimberlegs · Answer

Counter question, do you find a weak guy a turn off? Like he's nice and loving and all but he couldn't protect anything even if he tried.

0112358 · Answer

Not especially. I don't think it would bother me if true. You look pretty low weight class as well lol.

weeee · Answer

I wouldn't say it itself is a turn on, but it definitely makes you appear more interesting and unique, which is a huge turn on

jshm2 · Answer

No. They are probably not into buff chicks.  But unless you're looking like a man, it should not affect your dates.

Andres77 · Answer

It's one of the reasons I always had a crush on Michelle Rodriguez.

Dchrls78104 · Answer

Some men would bring tigers and wolves into their homes. If I had a pet, it would more probably be a dog or a cat, or even a small lizard or a butterfly.

Feelicks · Answer

I wouldn't mind a sparing partner. I tried to teach my partner some TKD and basic judo, but it didn't stick.

Anonymous · Answer

Last time I dated a girl who knew martial arts, she kicked my nuts into my pelvis and I fainted so I don't know

marc94 · Answer

It does not turn me on, but it can be very convenient and I would appreciate it. I mean, as long as you don't use your skills to initiate force.

StunningANDbrave · Answer

It would be funny to see them try, I'd be more attracted to a woman that is soft, we both can't be rowdy.

clampfan101 · Answer

No, but I do find athletic girls very attractive. Maybe the answer is “yes, but not for that reason”? lol

Anonymous · Answer

Im a red belt in TaeKwonDo, you wouldn't kick my ass 😝

AydenHazor · Answer

I'm not excited by you being able to kick my ass, but a strong woman is definitely a turn on

chriscdi · Answer

I only like the idea cause i know she could defend herself

MaximilianIV · Answer

Oh yeah, maybe you could cradle me in your bulging masculine arms all night and whisper me sweet words ❤️

insignificant_person · Answer

No. I like more crazy kind introvert attractive girls.

zagor · Answer

No. Neutral. Though a competent woman in any (well most) skills is a plus.

Pete671 · Answer

Yes definitely, I'd totally love to be a practice guy at a girl's martial art class,,,

Still-alive · Answer

maybe a little bit lol. wouldn't mind seeing some of those movie in bed ;)

Catlover1992 · Answer

I've lost fights to girls in Karate also in Krav Maga more recently. It doesn't turn me on but I suppose it's not anything new to me.

Shy_Steve · Answer

Not really, I would prefer a Girl who felt Protected by me.

OnTheLevel · Answer

I wouldn't feel threatened by it, but it's not something that turns me on.

Anonymous · Answer

Oh yeah i find it hot and not only she can kick my ass but she can kick my balls and penis too 🤣🤣🤣

Anonymous · Answer

Thats cute. I would be you like a dog and when you begged for mercy I would remind you how hot it is that I can kick your feamle ass

Kingofkings1992 · Answer

She can try if she wants. I’m 6’5 265 lbs, so good luck with that.

Billlewis · Answer

Oh my goodness yes ❤️

Finchie40 · Answer

Let’s wrestle and see who wins😋

EternallyCorrect · Answer

Impossible, especially with TKD.

exitseven · Answer

Definitely. It would be really hot.

Luckycharms12 · Answer

Lol nah Taekwondo is awful

Yourfriend2021 · Answer

I don't like violent women.

Hispanic-Cool-Guy · Answer

No.. its embarrassing. Lol

Fuentes · Answer

No i would never then she's manly

Anonymous · Answer

Yes, i wanna be her bitch fuck toy !

cootjuh · Answer

Yeah a major turn on to me

Anonymous · Answer

No it doesn't turn me on at all

2ndTryatThis · Answer

Absolutely..

ItsMeItsMe1989 · Answer

no, it doesn't

QuietRunner · Answer

yes turn on

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