Girls, how can I sexually flirt?

[theriver21]

If the situation calls for it or if she’s kinda sexually flirting, (I feel as though she’s sent me some interesting hints) how can I maybe send sexual flirts or messages her way?

I know people say to subtle touch her shoulder or stuff but I never really know how to do that without it being obvious. Or really any other way. I know we probably do a lot of flirting anyway but what’s ways a guy could sexually or send innuendos?

[LilyoftheLake]

Eye contact is the most sexy thing you can do. Behind that are some more things...

Pick her up or pin her to the floor (play wrestling). Demonstrating your willingness to touch her for a purpose (without being outright lewd) is super sexy, even if that's kind of hard to work into a conversation.

If you want something a bit easier, compare your hand sizes. It makes for easy contact, with a good excuse as to why.

Kiss her hand when you meet her (playfully). You can both laugh it off, but she'll probably feel tingles :)

Make sure you smell good. Give her a hug. You can even use the anecdote from a CERTAIN psychologist: "We need 4 hugs a day for survival, 6 for maintenance, and 8 for growth."

Put your hand on her back when you're walking through a crowd. Take her hand when you can. Smile lots. Use a corny pickup line.

[theriver21]

I was thinking since I’ll be at her workplace tomorrow, once we start talking…. And one of us makes a joke and both start laughing I was thinking I could rest or put my hand on her shoulder while I’m laughing?

Unfortunately I definitely can’t pin her against a wall of floor at her work lol. But her work has a mechanical bull…. I feel like there’s definitely some innuendos that could be made off if that or sexy jokes. Also a laser tag room that’s really really dark. And she’d have to supervise my stepsister and I (she wants to do activities ik they’re plus it gives me a way to go in)

Think I could do anything at her work? Definitely the eye contact and shoulder touching but what about those other activities especially the bull?

[LilyoftheLake]

Work! Let me think...
The bull might be able to work something in, but that'll depend on your creativity. If you have to stay professional, that does put quite a damper on things.

[theriver21]

I’ll be a customer tomorrow! Lol so I’ll be trying to ride it. We’ve trash talked about it before. I asked her one time how fast it was and she was like “oh I can throw you off” “trust me I can throw you off” and so we’ve gone babk and forth before many of times lol

[theriver21]

It feels like to me that she really wants to throw me off lol so I don't know if that’s anything or not. Hopefully!

[Anonymous]

Dude, just learn how to be more self confident and the rest will follow.

[theriver21]

Yeah I definitely feel like I can flirt pretty good, it’s just I keep thinking of maybe I should show that I’m also interested sexually how do I? Or just keep flirting normally

[Opinion Owner]

Nooooo, don't even think about mentioning sex till you get to know a girl.

[theriver21]

We’ve known each other for awhile and I’ve always thought she’d had a thing for me. Every now and then I help where she works and here’s some examples of her:

The other day, she was facing her manager at a picnic table. As I kept talking about having to leave she repositioned/turned herself to face me and let’s just say, she had her legs spread wide wide open. Like, not a normal looking sitting position tbh. And she also leaned back and fluffed up her hair lol. It just didn’t seem like a normal way for a girl to face a guy. Like I said she changed her whole body to face me. Just seemed like a very open position in front of a guy.

When we’re talking she rubs her lips, she’ll fluff or sometimes really slowly strokes her hair, laughs at 90% of the stuff we talk about - always smiling, she’ll rub her thighs a lot as well.

There was one time she kind of violated personal space, she reached over to help me find something on my paper and she got extremely close like her face was like practically smack in front of mine. Like if I moved an inch closer we could've kissed lol. It seemed very unnecessarily close on her part.

A few weeks ago we were sitting across from each other and she had pants without pockets. She seemed really fidgety always doing something or taking our and setting her phone down constantly or playing with her pen. She had pants on that didn’t have pockets so she’d put her phone in her waistband. She did it like 3-4 times and I swear on everything on this earth and future kids that the shirt got higher each time. I felt like she was trying to show me skin or her piercing.

And usually if we stand next to each other it’s really close. Usually whenever I walk in or she sees me her eyes pop wide open and a smile.