How Do I Ask A Girl On My Bus For Her Snapchat Or Start A Conversation?

[Jimbobbob]

Basically, this rlly cute girl started coming on the same bus that i catch after school and she always sits in the seat in front of me and she always gets off one stop before me.

How would i ask for her snap if she sits Infront of me. Should i get off at the stop that she gets off or is that weird?

[SueShe]

The problem if you address this person without any valid reason is that you may come as weird because everyone is aware why a guy would approach a woman that he does not know.

This is how I would react if someone would do that to me. I am fully aware of the intentions behind such an approach and what the final goal of a guy initiating contact without a good reason would be. For most girls, this is a turn-off, a red flag and a no-go.

Ask yourself why you want to have this girl's contact? Is your ultimate goal to get into her pants? I know you will not agree with it but you secretly hope that this will happen otherwise, why even bother to attempt to contact a perfect stranger, right?

I would recommend you just forget about this girl. She will disappear from your life just as quickly as she appeared and you will forget her just as rapidly.

[PrettyPriya]

I would be concerned if a guy I saw on the bus all the time started getting off at my stop…. when he never used to.

[SueShe]

@PrettyPriya Yes, that would put me immediately on the defensive and I would probably get my pepper spray in my hand, just in case...

[PrettyPriya]

@SueShe Smart woman you are. I had a very real and similar experience years ago using public transportation. It sent shivers down my back. Very unnerving feeling.

[SueShe]

@PrettyPriya Unfortunately, nowadays women have to be ready to face any threat and the gentleman's suggestion to leave the bus to follow his crush is quite worrisome for her. Certainly not the thing to do.

In my part of Antarctica, pepper spray is not allowed but I would rather get fined for using it than to find myself in a situation where I cannot defend myself.

[PrettyPriya]

@SueShe It is a shame that your huskies cannot take public transport with you. That would certainly be a deterrent!

[SueShe]

@PrettyPriya I am contemplating to get a modified version of Aladdin's magic carpet that is suited to be pulled by my Huskies :-)

[PrettyPriya]

No, absolutely not. Do not get off at her stop to chase her down. She is likely well aware who gets off at her bus stop. She also knows that you don’t. To do that will make her think she is being followed.

Best to ask her directly on the bus instead of the very real potential of scaring her by getting off, following her and approaching her at her stop.

Just try to strike up a casual conversation with her on the ride. If she always sits in front of you, she knows you’re there. Are there any signs she is interested in being friendly with you? Does she smile, make eye contact, etc?

I would look for some indication she wants you to talk to her before doing so. Otherwise, she might flat out reject conversation. She may not be interested in talking to anyone and just want to get home without hassle.

[andreasderjuengere]

Before her stop, you'll tell her that there's a spider on her hair.

Next, you deal with the (imaginary) dangerous beast and defeat it.

On a different day you'll pick up the story and show concern about her safety.

All with a transparent smirk.

[Guy13]

Say hey, get her name, ask if want to connect on social media?

[HonestAssholeJ]

Put a flower with a note. "For the gorgeous girl sitting in front of me. I'd say hello if you didn't leave me speechless"

Your welcome.

[TheMajesticKing777]

Whenever she's alone, let that be certain

[Preprefrontalis]

Ask in the bus life is short dont waste the time