Nice compliment or weird?

[Anonymous]

If a girl has like a super short skirt on and you compliment her and say I like your skirt. Is that a nice compliment or is it creepy.

[serious]

I think it would depend on the fact if she knows you or not. If she knows you then it should be fine. However, if this is random girl then it is very inappropriate to say this.

[Asker]

Why would be inappropriate. I know her a little bit let’s say like I met her before through a friend let’s say

[iamaMAP]

It's a compliment. If you are too soft and don't want anyone commenting on your looks because you're showing a little bit of skin on your own free will then wear a hijab.

[Asker]

ok cool! Would if you also said you have nice legs for it too

[iamaMAP]

That's not creepy, that is also a compliment. The snowflake generation of today takes a lot of things said as something negative rather than positive.

[Asker]

thank you. I said this to two different girls one said thank you and smiled I said you have nice legs for it. She laughed and told me I was super sweet. I tried it on another girl and it didn't go as well she like rolled her eyes at me and was like eeww kinda

[iamaMAP]

Don't let what the immature and rude girls bother you, they are snowflakes and like drama.

[Asker]

I try, I am just bad with flirting. Like I am really good at baseball and in High School that was enough and I could get girls. But now its tougher for me that im out of school and dont have like sports to be good at and impress girls. The problem is I am in really goood shape and pretty good looking but I am terrible with girls like I am not good at flirting I can get dates because of my looks but I always blow it because I am bad at flirting and I come off as awkward. Its tough for me now too, my dad passed a few years ago so my moms a widow, and I see guys flirting with her and I try to use what works but it just doesn't work for me.

[iamaMAP]

You can always hire an escort.

[Jooying]

If you said “I like your skirt.” Nothing more. It’s okay, pure compliment. If you add like “looks sexy,” or similar, might leading to creepy way.

[Asker]

Ok so just the compliment itself isn't creepy. Just leave it at that. What if she laughs and says thank you and smiles. Would it be creepy to add " It looks really nice on you, you have nice legs for it" after she smiled at said thank you

[Allison97909]

yes it's creepy compliment her on something else that won't come off as creepy

[Asker]

what wouldn't come off as creepy?

[Allison97909]

"hey i like your shirt/sweatshirt" as long as it's not a tight one and compliment her hair

[Asker]

its always hair, compliment her hair its always hair lol thats fine. So you can't compliment her shirt if its too tight? What kinda rule is that tho?

[Allison97909]

it'll come off as creepy to me at least (bc of past situations) but it just depends on the situation do you like that girl? also u can complement her on her eyes or something like that

[Asker]

Hmm 🤔 did I like the girl? She was pretty for sure I didn’t really know her like that but I’d like to get to know her kinda thing

[NathanDavis]

it is creepy... because it is 99% likely that you like something else, rather than the skirt... lol

[LavLavLuv]

See how u mentioned super short skirt?

[Asker]

right like if its real short and I say hey thats a nice skirt I like it it looks nice on you. Is that a compliment or creepy

[Anonymous]

Creepy.

[Asker]

wow really I've used it twice and gotten both reactions. Whys it creppy tho