Is it possible to feel if my crush had sex with somebody else?

[SteveZissu]

There is this new co-worker who started flirting with my crush (a female co-worker). I flirt with her and talked to her about my feelings some months ago, but she never gave me a clue if she likes me back or not. She just told things like "let things be and things can possibly happen or not happen", etc. And yesterday, at a job reunion in a bar, this guy flirted her in my presence. I did, too, but at a point I had to leave for an urgency. Today, everything is uncertain. I have no clue how that ended, but I have a feeling that they two might have ended at his home having sex. I have no proof about that. Is that feeling real or is just a result of jealousy from my part?

[Guy13]

The truth is that you had plenty of time to close the deal before New Guy showed up. You are old news and should have already been on a date with this woman. She has likely given up on you. She certainly knows everything about you, therefore, there is no mystery around you. there definitely is mystery around the new guy. Good luck !!!

[SteveZissu]

So? What should I do? Give up or try my best?

[boggboss]

Jelousy I would guess if it just based in your head

[inhua]

she probably did

[Anonymous]

Feel? No.