What are some good conversations starters to say to/ask girls? And how can I subtly show her that I have feelings for her?

[Anonymous]

Alr, so I met this girl, and I rlly like her. I’m trying to think of good things to talk about so she doesn’t think I’m boring.

I met her online (via a common friend) and have been chatting with her for a bit. I’m trying to get something going between us, and it’s pretty obvious that she has feelings toward me. I’m trying to subtly express my feelings about her but can’t think of how to.

I think it’s a mix of lack of creativity and mental clarity. I don't know lol. But yeah, if anyone’s got any interesting conversation starters or ways to tell a girl I like her, please reply :)

[WindAtMyBack]

1) Listen. Don't let it go in one ear and out the other. Really listen. They will appreciate that. Plus it can give you ideas about future topics of conversation. If it's not something you can respond to right away, make mental notes about topics and interests. Watch for things she gets excited about, or is passionate about.

2) Ask questions. That's always a good way to keep a conversation going. It also shows interest in her.

3) Talk about anything you have in common.

4) For the rest of your life, it's good to gain some knowledge about a very wide variety of things. You don't need to be an expert, not even close. Just gain enough knowledge to show some interest, and be able to make some basic comments, and ask reasonably intelligent questions.

5) Show her your own interests and passions. You should be able to find out fairly quickly if she doesn't find it interesting. Even if she is not into something that you are, having a passion for things can be attractive.

6) Do not talk about yourself a lot. Talking about yourself as part of a two-way conversation is fine. Just don't make it seem like you are too much into yourself.

[TipsyFr]

this is a two way street you can either tell her verbally that you like her or give some subtle hints maybe be playful without being annoying also short and sweet is a winner for me when you spike enough of an interest that’s when you want to quickly schedule a meet up while the spark is still there. Personally when texts go on for too long the spark goes out for me and I’ve spoken to female friends who agree with me on that one although they could have just agreed to be agreeable 😅

[Anonymous]

You’re overthinking it. You already discerned that she likes you, so that’s half the battle. Don’t be too chatty or come across as emotionally needy. Don’t talk about yourself too much. Genuinely be interested in her and her interests. I’m alway impressed when a guy isn’t trying to impress me and just wants to know about me, my likes, my dislikes, my goals, my job, my family, my opinions. It makes me feel valued. Talk about yourself when she asks you things. If there’s an easy back and forth to the conversation, then just tell her that you like talking to her or that you like spending time chatting with her. If she reciprocates, then segue that into “l like you” and ultimately, bring up doing something together. It’s just reading the other person and reacting to what they give you. You already know she likes you. The goal is to not blow that. Be interested in her. Develop a rapport and a comfort level. Then tell her you like her and go for it.

[turnpost]

After reading your paragraph you think op is over thinking. lolllll

[D_Bone_Steak]

Ask questions. That usually gets a conversation going.

My favorite question is "What color of panties do you have on today?" Follow that one up with "Can I see?"

[In_Trance]

calm down. You don't have feelings for her. You don't even know her.