Have you ever had a crush or fansied someone you knew you couldn't have?

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PeachyPie93 · Accepted Answer

Yeah one of my childhood friends, I stupidly put him in the family zone, always calling each other cousins 😂 I just was too scared to be rejected and didn't want him to make fun of me. Plus I didn't want to lose him ever so kept him as family since both our families are close with one an other lol. We still went separate ways after high school and when I got a serious long term boyfriend he also went serious and married his girlfriend and we both moved out of town. It's really funny because when we were kids he did try to kiss me in weird games we played but because he never came out and told me he liked me, I placed him in an untouchable role.

SueShe · Accepted Answer

No, I did not.

I was never really infatuated in anyone since my childhood and as an adult, I have set my priorities in life in such a way that my future takes precedence over infatuation or anything else. Thus, I don't even bother to get myself into trouble to be in a relationship or to crush on anyone, knowing that I will never pursue anything in that direction for as long as I am not finished with my studies.

I will have plenty of time when I am 40+ to get into trouble with men and until then, I don't bother to distract myself with something as trivial as that.

Finchie40 · Accepted Answer

It happens , but it’s better to try than not to try , is how I see things , I would rather have an answer , than no answer at all

Summeroflove · Accepted Answer

At some point I think we all have…. But you eventually just move on.

DancingQueen16 · Answer

I did have a big crush on one of my best friends in high school but I thought there was no way he would ever like me back because I thought we were way too deep in the friend zone to ever be anything more but it turns out he did like me back and now we're together

handsomelad70 · Answer

Raquel Welch, Loni Anderson (until I realized she was a gold digging barracuda), Catherine Bach (Daisy Duke from "The Dukes Of Hazzard"), Donna Douglas (who played Elly May Clampett in "The Beverly Hillbillies" when I was a lad.) Notice a pattern?

PessicaJeter · Answer

Yea, in college there was a guy I was close with, we studied and worked on our engineering homework together all the time, but he was just never interested in me at all regardless of how much I tried to flirt with him...

RebelinSteel · Answer

Nah not really, at school the odd teacher, however since then no, I don’t get crushes (that’s a thing you do as a teen) and I don’t fantasise about girls.

SotiCoto · Answer

Sure. But usually if I'm going to fantasise about the unattainable, I will extend it into the realms of the physically impossible. Fantasising about someone real is like the missionary position of fantasies: boring and basic.

DrPepper12 · Answer

Haven't we all? The unattainable is the most desirable quarry! I still remember hoping against hope that Michael & Stacey would break up in 7th grade!! I had to settle for Stacey's mom... 😳😂🤷🏻‍♂️

BadApple69 · Answer

Yes… so I kept being part of her life until finally we are dating. Persistence is key. You want something… don’t give up.

Anonymous · Answer

i suppose but couldn't have thing , guess if there in a long term relationship or something why i couldn't have them , or age too young. but can always have someone in the sense if your willing to work past the obstacles

bobalife · Answer

Of courseeee, celebrities crushes hehe 🤭 And yes, if they’re taken or I decided to just distance myself for my own reasons

Babygirl_S · Answer

I know I can never be with young Henry Cavill but thinking about him makes me happy 😊♥

Flatmanlewis · Answer

Sure thing. I think most people lust after some celebrity.

Benlovegs · Answer

My wife has a stunning niece who is 18 years younger than me. Ever since she grew to be a lady there hasn’t been a day I didn’t wish I had her 🤷

Lessthanaveragr · Answer

Yes, and was devastated when r almost hooked up until she saw that I have a micropenis and swiftly rejected me.

butterfly_nake87 · Answer

Yes but she was dating someone else. She even fucked him infront of me.

elaphe · Answer

I think most people have. Are you talking about celebrities or people we really know but for whatever reason are off limits?

motownplayer2000 · Answer

Maybe for a minute. If I couldn’t have them. I move on, I don’t waste my time thinking about them.

Luopio27 · Answer

Story of my life, dreaming of tje prettiest girls and never getting anything.

Pohjolan · Answer

Yes. She was a subordinate so a strict no no.

Younghung2341 · Answer

Yes. My neighbor is a milf and I fantasize about her all the time.

Anonymous · Answer

How do old-fashioned terms like "fancy" and "fancied" just ALL OF A SUDDEN spring back into BEING and being USED again?

SeriouslyNotSerious · Answer

I think we all did at some point.

JessicaRosenAlterEgo · Answer

Yes, a European God lol

exitseven · Answer

Yes, probably more than once.

WonderingManII · Answer

Lots of times.

loveslongnails · Answer

Only every day

OddBeMe · Answer

Just celebs. But they will be mine.

RedInnocent69 · Answer

All the damn time.

thisAppIsGarbage · Answer

No I haven't. Couldn't have? What a weak concept

BLP11520 · Answer

Certainly. Pretty normal

Kayi_Tribe · Answer

I have not experienced such a situation

DishLady · Answer

Nope.

NathanDavis · Answer

Katy Perry...

Anonymous · Answer

Yea I like girls that are 15-19 years old.

WhitneySnow · Answer

Of course

Booklover_90 · Answer

Story of my life. 😂

renodnol32 · Answer

Yes. Many times.

Anonymous · Answer

Everyday, yeah

SecurelyInsecure · Answer

always haha

dinojames22 · Answer

More that once

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