What makes a girl attractive?

Question

Guys at my school talk at the top of their lungs, and it seems basically all of them desire a girl who has a big ass and is fit. Are all guys like this?

Summeroflove · Accepted Answer

Well it depends on the guy and no they aren’t. I’m sure there is girls who find guys attractive that you don’t as well as you find some things attractive others don’t.

Let me tell you, these men are going to end up very sad one of these days unless they see the error of their ways. They are going to get some slut who sleeps around all the time, whose going to cheat on him, and everything else. She’s gonna get knocked up (only God knows if it’s his or not) and they will marry each other. The relationship will be extremely toxic, one sided, and full of cheating from probably both sides.

The divorce will be nasty. Especially for the poor kids who don’t deserve to be in the middle of it. She will probably become fat and lazy. And he will be working his ass off for nothing. Just to have her divorce him anyways and run off with someone else.

OlofssonBengtsson · Accepted Answer

Yes, all guys are like that when they are 14 years old and still virgins. Or if they are grown up when out with their friend, they might talk about good-looking women. Women talk about attractive men with their friends too, supermodels, etc.

However, I am sure they don't want to go on a date with a grown woman who acts like a 4-year-old and embarrasses them in front of everyone. They still have standards for people they want to be with. Unless they are a guy who doesn't mind that, but I don't think most women wish to be with those types of guys who have no standards.

gowildcats007 · Accepted Answer

For most guys it's body and looks over everything else. I can't blame them I do it too.

Nikki1989 · Accepted Answer

Thankfully, most guys are not like that at all.

Finchie40 · Answer

Not a fan of big ass , but fit and nice ass and tits , all about it

Tarifa · Answer

The guys you describe are either very young, immature or shallow. Probably a combination of all three.

To answer your question, it's the overall look that will make a woman attractive. For me, its the eyes, the shape of her mouth, the way her hair falls over her face, the way she dresses, the way she walks, the sound of her voice. Her physique is only important when you start to date someone. I'm not saying we don't notice, it's just that it's not that important.

I completely agree with the opinion of

LunarEclipse433

CalmUntilAbused · Answer

Okay, I probably shouldn't answer, because my taste is pretty extreme, but since You asked... The woman's sanity is the most important for me. If she does not look at me as if she wanted to kill me, it's a good start. Then, if she's pure and innocent, I can hope that we will both be willing to wait with... certain matters... until marriage, so that's also a worthwhile trait. As for looks? If she does not look seriously sick (like body-excessive or with a really, really cratered face - I know the pain of the latter myself, so I'm actually pretty tolerant about it), she's alright. Though I guess I have a slight revulsion towards blonde girls since the  Amber Heard -class life destroyer incident and since I got into anime - Japanese and most Asian girls are naturally dark-haired, You see. But then again, it's all about sanity. And the look in the aforementioned life destroyer's eyes does not really convey sanity.

DrSteve · Answer

For me It's there intellect, There values and morals as a human being, Who they are as a person. Lots of factors, When I was in high school a few years ago. I used to think It was about the looks, but it only hit me later on around 24 ish I finally started to think well. Do I want to spend my life with this person. Its why girls usually settle for older Men because our brains Mature slower lol. As well they don't want to wait around for us to grow up and I don't blame them some Men never grow up. It all depends Each Man matures faster than the other I knew some friends that had their life together at 16.

BluesDeville · Answer

Fit, yes. Big butts are actually a relatively new thing. Back in the '90s, butt size wasn't considered that much. Hetero men basically like anything that men don't have (and the more of it the better). Women gain weight in different areas than men so butt and thighs are part of that. Slim waists are attractive (because men gain weight in the waist). But most of all, kindness, nurturing and femininity are attractive to men. A current problem is that girls are being raised to have more masculine personalities. Girls actually call each other "dude" and "bro" sometimes. Girls are encouraged to have the same interests as boys like playing sports and STEM studies. There's less and less that a boy can do to impress a girl because the girls are doing the same things and speaking the same way. Anyway, those are my thoughts. If you are fit, kind and feminine, you will do just fine.

NicholasRedone · Answer

Attractive to my eyes as a white male who could still pass for 20 me and I'm 30 actually - going on 31 for 2025 - I'd say a pale woman, 20s, petite, womanly ♀️ and eyeliner and natural beauty / no makeup foundation needed - nor tan nor tatts - clear skin wins my heart among other clear features and clear personality 🤍

ProbablyClueless · Answer

Fit and healthy is ALWAYS attractive. Slim, athletic builds are generally regarded as more attractive, but you definitely shouldn't feel less desirable if you don't have that body frame.

Long hair is attractive, full lips, narrow chin, dramatic eyes. Decent proportions; feminine curves.

LunarEclipse433 · Answer

I can’t speak for everyone but I am looking for a loving caring person that is open minded to things, honest, loyal, attractive, who enjoys an active sex life and is truly committed to making a relationship work

Garud · Answer

So don't take them seriously, they all will change their opinion after 4-5 years and that opinion will also change after the next 4-5 years. After that, it will remain almost the same till death.

trumpetplayerforlife · Answer

Not all guys are like this I never dated in high school never felt pretty enough or had a guy interested but it git better when I hit 18 and was able to date or mature guys who value me for me and not my body

Anonymous · Answer

Fit, yes. Big ass, no. There are a few guys who have a thing for fat ass women but the vast majority like normal, shapely asses.

That said, there is a lot more to a desirable woman than her tits and ass. Physically, her legs are nice, her face, her smile, her hair. But character, personality and attitudes are more important than anything else.

Makeushiver · Answer

Many things. Confidence is one. Isolating specific body parts does nothing for me since a woman is a whole & not a primal cut. Nice ass and legs help with me but maybe single biggest thing is intelligence

tomas64 · Answer

Attraction is a trait that many opinions differ. Age groups apply in this situation. My age group mostly prefer the quiet confident women. Bear in mind that we were raised in a whole different culture so my preference is a trait of my age. personally I think a ladies smile is the most attractive trait that I always watch for.

serious · Answer

If a woman has an equally attractive personality with many positive qualities and at the same time she is physically gorgeous as well.

thatgirl2000 · Answer

Teenagers and men in their twenties or just very immature.

AnonAndrew · Answer

Not at all. Big boobs are more important. :P

LiamS95 · Answer

I look for a nice smile and a great personality first her ass and boobs are not as important when actually getting along with someone on a long term basis.

HungTexan · Answer

I’m not into big asses, but I do like fit women who are intelligent and sensual.

OfDeath · Answer

Health, youth, fitness, humour, confidence, beauty. A combination of all of these will usually make a woman attractive.

SuchSightsToShowYou · Answer

No. Some guys want a girl who has big boobs and is fit.

Graptemys79 · Answer

A fit girl is great, but character and confidence are just as, if not more important.

QuietRunner · Answer

yes, big ass and fit She should wear thongs or g-strings too

Anonymous · Answer

- Face, hair, eyes - Fit body, toned legs - Dominant personality.

Anonymous · Answer

Nope. But guys (and women for that matter) are much more shallow at you age.

KaiidiraX · Answer

Not every guy likes the same kind of woman.

Billlewis · Answer

If she’s mean, arrogant and demanding.

slatyb · Answer

No, they aren't. Maybe you should change schools.

Roldrake · Answer

Willing to swallow.

Anonymous · Answer

If a woman shows up she is an option.

Crazzyyworld · Answer

Oh they are manwhores.

zagor · Answer

Fit, yes. Big ass, no.

beefcakebradybatson · Answer

Face, body, girlish voice and personality.

Bigan · Answer

Uh nice big butt to rubb

Anonymous · Answer

MOST guys worship a girl's round bubbly ass

blackeagle007 · Answer

answers vary

foxsquirrell · Answer

Genes! :)

Joejay6 · Answer

Spirit

kareka · Answer

Yes sure

Jmmmfi4 · Answer

Blonde hair

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