Surely women are wrong for calling me sexy?

[NicholasRedone]

It always seems to be women on the lowest end of 20 to 25. I mean, don't they realise I'm 30 going on 31. I'm grateful I still have the body dimensions of someone who could even pass for 19. Potentially. Despite my giraffe neck 🧣

[Sunrising]

I'm sure a giraffe neck is a good attribute to have, so should be considered a positive.

I'm also sure the females are right in thinking you're sexy !

[NicholasRedone]

*some - females

[NicholasRedone]

@Sunrising the kind words are awesome though man - I hope ladies are into necks

[Sunrising]

I'm sure it's not necks, the ladies are interested in 😁 lol !

[NicholasRedone]

Have you ever seen a woman ever look you or a man next to you up and down the way a man checks out women apparently? 👁️ I thought I'd actually seen it once or twice in my life thus far. I was amazed that women do the same "gaze" as men

[Sunrising]

No, I'm usually too busy looking at them !

[WilliamStormsReturn]

No, its just a compliment. But it is a little innapropiate, depending on the context.

[NicholasRedone]

A piss-take/sarcasm perhaps! ? 😆

[thegreenyogi]

30-31 is still quite young in my personal opinion and a man can be sexy at any age.

[NicholasRedone]

@thegreenyogi the awkward part though is while I can look "so hot" (humour me per avatar lol) I for one sometimes find the attention, or potential attention from female eyes, as a little unwelcome or even a lot unwelcome it's like - I'm not even a 10/10 even and some women are doing something with their eyes + often I don't read eyes too well. Its like "is that an attraction gaze my way or a repulsion gaze my way" and if it's the latter than hell I'm not bothered, but if women are giving me attrsaction gazes my way and then giving me weird cold shoulder vibes it's just odd. Like you know. I then consider avoiding places you know if it's like a retail thing

[NicholasRedone]

Hard to describe but anyways. Its like if I frequent my fave store, somewhere, and then there's a woman staffer there, maybe a new, maybe 20s or whatever, and then it's like awkward. Like, even if they're not interested, or are, but they play it cool like I'm anyone perhaps even coldly, it's still like "hmm maybe I should stop shopping here," 🫠

[thegreenyogi]

I see. What you talk about is something I get from men and women and oddly I understand how you feel because it makes me feel uncomfortable too when that happens to the point where I don't want to go to that shop anymore either. 🫶

[NicholasRedone]

@thegreenyogi and the irony is the downside is sometimes I wonder "wait why should I avoid that shop anymore if, it's all in my head" aka "I'm probably just misreading air vibes or I'm probably just thinking a gaze is just someone spacing out to the wall behind me" lol 😆😂

[thegreenyogi]

Lol!! It can be overwhelming.

[NicholasRedone]

Any further thoughts or views? The only awkward part is "if i had to show up, essentially, say, weeks, months have gone by, crikey I hope no one would say 'haven't seen you for a while' and for starters, that just feels cringey for the whole customer employee keep at a distance with the chit chat besides the weather or stock talk" lol 😆 crikey.

[thegreenyogi]

Well if I had no other alternative I'd go back to the same shop and pretend as if I haven't noticed. Lol!

[NicholasRedone]

Exactly. And hope to goodness they find someone else 😈👀

[NicholasRedone]

Whether it's all in my head or not brain 🧠 lol cya 🤣

[thegreenyogi]

@NicholasRedone Thank you for the MHO!

[NicholasRedone]

You're welcome. Thanks for many likes lately - means a lot 😊

[thegreenyogi]

@NicholasRedone Awww!! It's my pleasure truly!!🫶

[thegreenyogi]

@NicholasRedone Sometimes I can only put a like to your questions because even though I like your questions I don't really have an answer to give.