Where do you feel most comfortable being hit on (flirted with) while out in public?

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Sure, anywhere might be an answer for some, but where specifically, if it were to happen, would you feel most comfortable having it happen? Maybe at a library, while shopping, maybe while on a walk/run?

Obviously, if you are already married and are not poly, I expect your answer to be nowhere, but maybe you could list where you were when your spouse hit on you?

Stevepro68 · Accepted Answer

Well I met my girlfriend through a friend at a bar. At the time she was in a relationship with a woman. We spent more time together eventually without our friend who introduced us. We were out at bar and she was flirting with me. Joking and teasing me. Which I did not take seriously.. I just said to her I love spending time with you it figures that all the first really awesome woman I've met in years only like girls. To which she stopped looked at me and said very seriously. I like men! Lightbulb 💡 I was like really and she was like yes. Suddenly all her interactions with me fell into a proper context. Now we have been together for 5 years. Not sure if we are going to marry but there is no other woman on the planet I'd rather spend the rest of my life with.

Bricealan · Accepted Answer

@ez-bri-z_v2 Grocery store, Pelican Hill, maybe in a Glory Hole? LOLOL

EmmaMary · Accepted Answer

I know you must have read my story several times by now @ez-bri-z_v2 This is simply to add that it wasn't so much my husband hitting on me, or me hitting on him, it was both of us mutually hitting on each other at the same time... Sorry if this doesn't make any sense... It is the only way I can truly describe this.

TsundereMatrix · Accepted Answer

I prefer at an outing like at a restaurant or bar. Anywhere else like grocery stores, libraries, the street and other places like that I find it too awkward and uncomfortable.

Apple1996 · Answer

Anywhere as long as I'm getting hit on by my hubby

MannMitAntworten · Answer

My answer really is anywhere. There is no where where I do not feel comfortable. Heck, I have had bold women express to the room their blatant i interest in me. Which is fine. Most around know me and read me well enough to know my silence coupled with a smile expresses my disinterest back so I typically do not response so as to make things more awkward for them and let the room quickly change the subject and move one and be forgotten. This has been going on directed at me since I was in Kindergarten. Back then the annoying embarrassment came from your dipshit friends singing the, “K I S S” song in unison and hearing the other girls in the class all go, “Ooooooh (my name)”

Anyway, whatever shyness I had was stripped from me in the first months of Kindergarten. So goes Life growing up in a small town…

NicholasRedone · Answer

@ez-bri-z_v2 the most uncomfortable I want to say as a man is when women will eyeball me 👀👀👁️👁️ when I'm just in public waiting in line or just wanting to do my day to day chores or shopping in peace ✌🏻🕊️  Lol the comfortable places would be a dating app 😆😋 and im glad I'm not on one

AyChingao · Answer

My ex actually hit on me while she was stocking a shelf at the gas station (part time gig). If you see, and you like jump in and say hi. No time like the present!

Maybe_Maybe_not · Answer

I would hardly feel comfortable, but the least discomfort would be in a bar, as it's a more natural and chill situation. Preferably during the day though, cause I find night's atmosphere easily misleading and alertness inducing

chrissykerdock · Answer

how about a bar he buys you drinks then starts feeling you up caresses your thighs then makes out with then lowers your panties then sticks his fingers in your pussy and he asks if it's ok then you touch his crotch to find out if he likes you then it's stiff as a board which is a good way to flirt

WhitneySnow · Answer

I’m with someone right now, but if I were single I wouldn’t mind being flirted with at a party, at the library and when I’m out shopping. Maybe at a bar when I’m old enough to drink legally.

SeriouslyNotSerious · Answer

While walking around, while having coffee, art galleries.. just never while rushing. I kinda 😬 stopping and talking if I'm in a rush. Hehe.

fivebyfour · Answer

I work in a supermarket, public place, so at work,,,

I do a janitor/cleaner/trolley marshall role, so really a "general factotum" position, it's cool for me to be flirted with when I doing what some might consider a menial role, or maybe the ladies just fancy a bit of rough lol,,,

Actually meeting a customer for coffee later today,,,

itsannalee · Answer

I don’t know, i really hate when strangers talk to me.

slatyb · Answer

I don't think it's so much where as how. Don't ask people cold "You look great. Would you go out with me?" Start a conversation. If they don't engage, then don't ask.

Luv2BRealExotic13 · Answer

I don’t unless I’m doing the flirting. Or the exception if I find him attractive like at the store or on the beach.

Iron_Man · Answer

that’s Thats mostly for the girls they get hit on Not the guys, but I have had women want my attention at the hotel at the lounge and at bars and on South Beach cruising around I got a lot of looks

Shiprex · Answer

While driving probably when I can be focused and distracted at the same time without having anything to specifically respond to

Caroline91 · Answer

When I was available it wasn’t where but how.

DryGermanGuy · Answer

In the holidays… the beach, the promenade, the hiking trail…

Anastasia86 · Answer

The beach when not topless. Bar. Though currently in a relationship.

exitseven · Answer

I was hit on a few times after I got married. All were under different circumstances.

Jove79 · Answer

Most places, any time. You’ll most likely not see that person again. So if you like them, talk to them!

Anonymous · Answer

I lack experience in being hit on/flirted with. Maybe because I can't flirt, I'm too shy.

Makeushiver · Answer

Poolside is fun. It begins with few enough clothes to get to the meat of the matter quickly

RedTiefling · Answer

A walk, grocery store, gym, I guess being hit on at a bar or club but that depends on what you intend on doing  after  you flirt.

WonderingManII · Answer

I'm single and there is no good place to hit on me.

Eempriyanka · Answer

I have this fantasy that happens in public, in a mall.. where I wear low cut jeans exposing little of my upper butt crack and my boyfriend massages my butt and slides his erection from behind while everyone (or some people) is staring/watching..

Anonymous · Answer

Nah, I’m not going to hit on a woman or girl in public, I don’t want to get kicked in the balls…then again I could wear a protective cup 🤔…nah those things break…ya, I won’t bother.

zagor · Answer

Any social place. Although it happens about as often as a new pope.

fish5505_87 · Answer

Public Place, restaurant/bar, sporting event, fair, etc.

Anonymous · Answer

I was in a medical facility waiting room and a 50 year old married woman butted across the manager while he was talking to me and started flirting with me. He did not care and I was liking it. She was hot.

dougeats · Answer

I have been hit on in restrooms the most so its fun. But thats with guys. Swingers clubs both guys and girls so its even better!

BDRick · Answer

Truthfully, anywhere from church to the library to a bar to anything in between

ManOnFire · Answer

Certainly there must be more to a woman’s life than sideways trying to let us all know how much men are into her, right?

crazy_butterfly · Answer

Anywhere is fine if you are consideret of where we are.

Ogilvey · Answer

I’ve never been hit on by anyone so I don’t even know what it feels like.

MasterKS · Answer

Surely in those places where flirt can go beyond if things goes well. LOL!

Babygirl_S · Answer

Too classy to be flirted with. A low quality pig trying to get with me is an absolute disgrace to my worthy existence

Paige90 · Answer

Restaurants and bars

msc545 · Answer

No place at all really. It makes me uncomfortable

SassyAussieAddy · Answer

Filthy alleyways at night. 😆

serious · Answer

I never want to be flirted with.

Hellfireandcandy · Answer

Clubs, the beach, that's about it

DonaldDarko · Answer

I don't care it's typically flattering assuming she's not one of these girls that's a pest about it. Not sure what poly means though.

CubaPirate · Answer

At work lol 😆

V1ka5h · Answer

Here hitting means just flirting or banging her?

DrPepper12 · Answer

Anywhere.  Observe. Engage. Adapt.

Zoi2000 · Answer

At work as long not over the top.

Jamie05rhs · Answer

Anywhere, I guess? As long as I'm not in a hurry.

dinojames22 · Answer

I don't. Not use to it and it always feels weird.

Demi00 · Answer

At work as a waitress is part of my job.

LiamJHayden · Answer

on the beach

chocolatetwopointo · Answer

nowhere?💀

DCVsMarvel2 · Answer

Not sure

Anonymous · Answer

Nowhere it's far safer that way in this era

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