Does perfume attract men and turn men on? Should I stop wearing perfume?

[Anonymous]

So I love perfume and I like getting compliments on my perfume from women and men, but sometimes I feel like men use it as a reason to invade my personal space.
I always have to slither away. I like gourmand perfume.
So vanilla, caramel, pumpkin pie, lemon meringue, Chai, chocolate like... In general, I've had trails linger, and once I went to a grocery store and I was finished shopping. Waiting for my ride, this lady came up to me and said I've been trying to find you She asked for what perfume I was wearing. I had to get blood work and I sat in the office. A couple of ladies went back and forth trying to find a particular smell.
when I sat in the chair, the lady said she found it and ran out to tell the other women and asked me to tell them what I was wearing
Write it down. When I went to surgery, while they were prepping me, 3 nurses were talking about how my perfume made them hungry. It smelt like chocolate chip cookies. That's the women, but the men? I have a manager who trained himself to know when im there because the area smells sweet, and when he sees me, he calls me something sweet like sugarplum
It's a coworker who stops and waits for me to walk past, so he can smell what I'm wearing (he told me he does it on purpose)
A guy who I knew for a while bit my shoulder while i wasn't looking (he said he was sorry but still)
A stranger took a big snorting whiff and told me he wanted to bite me.
The "lean into my neck" happens too many times with male strangers and I gotta back up.
Smelling my hand while talking to me happened twice. I don't know how to deal with special disabled men. I was riding public transit, and the guy said I smelt good, but he kept trying to move closer and move me closer to get a better whiff. Then he got interested in my clothes and wanted to touch it. I had to peel his hands off a couple of times and tell him you can't touch women.
We should keep our hands to ourselves, right?

[Hardon-Collider]

Yes. Your perfume is a direct trigger. When a man, whose etheric body is loosely connected to his physical, is exposed to a strong, artificial scent like perfume, it causes his etheric body to become aggressive and predatory. It's a direct physical reaction. The scent stimulates it, and the etheric body's impulse is to seize the source of the stimulation. This is why you see the biting, the grabbing, the invasive behavior. It's not about attraction; it's a direct physical response. Stop using the perfume, and the behavior will likely stop because the trigger is gone.

[Danny_dan92]

If it smells good. Sure. It doesn’t necessarily “turn me on” but it grabs my attention

[itsannalee]

It not necessary, just as long as you don’t smell bad is the most important. Men typically place more weight on visual cues in attraction, but a pleasant or signature fragrance still creates a strong positive association. Fragrances attract women more, because we are more sensitive to scents.

[Asker]

Well I gave some examples of what happened when I wore it with both genders
The men are triggered 😕

[Nikki1989]

Our sense of smell is directly linked to the system in the brain that is responsible for emotions, memory, and even libido, so yes, it can be a turn-on for some.

[Anonymous]

Thank you for contributing to the anon plague here for questions that are not necessary anon. I will follow your lead.

[Asker]

I don't get it?

[Gaylordslav]

Personally i find colognes and perfumes give me headaches. But im not a guy you would want to be attracted to you

[Anonymous]

I've never smelled a girl and suddenly developed more interst for her. Just don't stink.

[Anonymous]

Ask the man? Men have told me they don't like perfumes when they smell woman walking past us.

[Anonymous]

Yeah sometimes I got an errection bcs a woman parfume, kind of evil if you ask me

[Asker]

Was it a sweet fragrance?

[Opinion Owner]

yes, very sweet, kind of too sweet