What kind of flirting actually gets your attention every time?

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Like the thing someone does where you instantly think, “okay… I’m into this”? I love playful, funny flirting…especially when it catches me off guard in the most unexpected moments 🙃

ohsheeT · Accepted Answer

Lol Good Question yes I love a good flirt but I also love to take it all the way.

Depending on the person abd if your talking on line..

if I have a connection with this person and I can feel there energy and if they can feel my energy.. that opens a door to
An even deeper connection that I want to explore and experience

If you understand energy. It is the same as a physical touch by a hand but you're using words
And in many cases is just as powerful as a physical touch because it's in the air is frequency sometimes it's more sensual more passionate and this is going to sound silly but it's more real

That really in order to understand it you have to experience it it can become very hot very sexy sexual can become very powerful and when I find the right person to do it with I want them to experience and feel what I feel and vice versa

And if you don't understand energy of course you will. Say haha right. Lol .

But if you have never experienced it It's something you had to try sometime because In most cases It's better than real sex when done right

Ok I hear the haha again lol

But yeah it can be a very beautiful thing when two people can connect that way and it can become very naughty very sexual very romantic very passionate very stimulating and many ways and addicting really

nolabels · Accepted Answer

These days, simply being paid attention to by a lady gets MY attention.

An old man like me takes what he can get in the way of flirting, and yes, flirting does frequently occur in my life's travels.

I'll gladly return flirting if I think that it might help make someone's day a bit brighter, and it usually does.

I view most flirting as being harmless fun, bringing some joy to others whom we encounter in our daily lives.

Romantic flirting as a means to initiate furthering of a romantic relationship is a bit of a different situation.
I recall my much younger days at my attempting to romantically flirt as being exercises in severely nervous, stepping on my tongue, ordeals.

Lol.

Apulu_backagain · Accepted Answer

This may sound very nerdy but I really really love cheese and if someone flirts me by teasing me with pawns then I would be taken back and I would extremely flattered and might as well marry that dude because there would be no one like him.

queenofcardio · Accepted Answer

When he knows how to throw it back.. I'm like damn. Twerking always get my attention !

Finchie40 · Answer

I like when a girl just walks up to me and says Hi and starts kissing me. Or a girl that knows what she wants

DishLady · Answer

Attentive flirting — gentlemanly attention is sweet and shows the guy’s protective side. It tends to take me by surprise a little in this day and age bc not many guys use it anymore.

Tarifa · Answer

I always say that flirting is the spice of life.

I've done a lot, not always with the right person. But when it sparks interest and involves a bit of chemistry and emotional fireworks, it's the best experience ever.

lilBigPotato · Answer

If he says stuff that gets me thinking... Smart word plays, innuendos, stuff where I'm not sure how it's meant or just something with deep meaning. It makes me think... Hmm smart guy.. I like. Or it he knows how to add some subtle humour.

Bricealan · Answer

@elenaseluna when younger, I was very naive about flirting, and many times failed to realize I was being flirted with. Simply thought they were being friendly.

Nikki1989 · Answer

When this happens to me, I tend to block all flirtation attempts. Even at its best, it strikes me as immature.

thegreenyogi · Answer

The cute goody smiles, making me laugh and the winks.

LiamJHayden · Answer

I cold approach but am basically blind to her flirting. She pretty much has to sit on my lap for me to get it.

MrChinaski · Answer

Someone with a wild sense of humor. If you can make me laugh on demand, no matter what else is going on, I'm yours.

Maybe_Maybe_not · Answer

Hmmm probably when it's unclear, when I'm wondering whether or not it is flirtatious lol

Still-alive · Answer

Really any sweet wholesome stuff gets me a lot lol. probably basic af tho :P

Anonymous · Answer

When she says, "I'm not wearing any panties. Wanna see?" she has my undivided attention.

Anonymous · Answer

Genuine friendly eye contact and friendly demeanour from a woman - excitedly 😇🙃😋👁️👁️ big brown eyes on pale skin

TonyMetal___86 · Answer

When a girl jokes with me and support my ideology and when she shows interest in my likes...
In general, when she makes the first move towards me with a smile on her face and trying to make me laugh miss sel⭕⭕na 😁

Spencer10 · Answer

I would say when a woman gives you a look that is so intense its tough not to look away...

OneViewpoint · Answer

Anything that is witty, mildly insulting, and rapid fire.

Hunter-40m · Answer

Talkative girls and warm blooded conversations attract me most I like the ones whom I be me around without wearing masks

LC75LC71 · Answer

The eyes tell all.. Women lay it on thick with touching, but that's advantageous. Real attention isn't perpetuated as much as implied.

loveslongnails · Answer

Any kind, but if you like to touch, that's a big one.

YourExLover69 · Answer

If she bites my lips mildly, kiss my neck and cheeks 🙈💕 runs her finger into my hairs 😭

Sunnyrjs · Answer

A confident one like they know what they want and not playing hot and cold.

Anonymous · Answer

When a girl is being assertive, self-confident, and dominant.

Little-known7 · Answer

For me eyes contact and kindly smile simply meaningsful

valentina4eva · Answer

when he teases mee😳

Bklynbadboy12 · Answer

Dirty talk what about you

KostasKouvalis · Answer

Blowing me a kiss

Sammy098 · Answer

It works only if I already know them

aboredman · Answer

Playful

Abinav_K · Answer

If it spice up your mood

oldman26 · Answer

Smiles

AgentG111 · Answer

Lots !

Qiero · Answer

I dunno

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