Girls, which matters most when deciding whether to give a man a chance?

[Anonymous]

Physical attraction.

Confidence

Kindness

[SueShe]

In order to give a man a choice, I would first have to be interested in dating, which I am not.

However, if I was forced to date, then the most important asset a person can have are their intellect, character and personality and certainly not anything physical. I am not interested in the looks, 6 pack or anything else that could be considered physical.

Out of those 3 given choices, kindness would be on the top of my list, followed by confidence and way on the bottom would be physical attraction but again, this is not likely going to happen.

[Nikki1989]

Personality, kindness and compassion, respect, intelligence, a sense of humour, honesty and integrity, good communication skills, and shared interests and values.

[arianna1414]

all are good but i need to be attracted to him first so far