My situation is identical and I tend to be this way myself, but I'm not sure why. I do like him though. She may have been in a bad relationship (like me)that messed with her confidence, so she's scared of being hurt, rejected, or otherwise let down. If you're shy too, maybe she needs more straightforwardness from you before she feels more comfortable being herself around you. Honestly, if you have any idea that she may possibly feel the same way, you need to be honest with her about how you feel. Even as coworkers, if nothing else, the honesty will make the situation less awkward. Unless she thinks you're totally creepy, she will appreciate your honesty and it could very well knock down those walls that create the hot/cold attitude.
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shelikes you, I do this with my crush. For me its cos I'm a little shy and a bit insecure. My crush is very shy and some days I think he doesn't like me, others I just feel like I'm not hot enough for him. Speak to her about it
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I think she likes you. I'm shy as well, and cannot imagine pursuing someone only to find out that they don't feel the same way. So...the guy has to be the one to make it clear.
You probably did something to upset her.
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