Probably had an insect fly into his eye. Joke.
Guess he finally got the courage to make a move for you to notice him, best thing for you is to return the gesture and keep it going.
When I used to wink at girls it was to get their attention and say I'm interested.
Different winks you can have:
- the slow wink that states that I think your pretty and interested, come here baby.
- the fast wink ; hi there, good job well done. this can be meant as a friendly gesture.
- the double eye wink; that's like a nod saying yes or watch out be careful.
He winked at me when he walked past me as he arrived at work. I smiled back at him. What category would you say that's in? Is he saying that he finds me attractive and wants todo something about it?
although a wink is innocent, it does hold some attraction values, because although most blokes won't realize they had winked, we just cannot help ourselves but show appreciation to someone we are attracted to, but don't assume this is always the case, as it can sometimes just be an expression of some sort of other appreciation, ie thanks for your help, but this usually follows with words to be exact, so if he passes and winks, its his sub concious not allowing him to pass with out showing some sort of attraction towards you,x
I'm pretty sure I can recognize a troll -online and in real life- so I'd respond properly.
But mostly, when a cute guy winks, I smile and then walk away...because as much as he's winking at me I'm still positive he won't approach so what's the point of my energy going to nothing.
If we're at a coffee shop and there's a dude (doesn't matter if he's cute or not) who won't stop staring, I just ignore it. Some people just do it for sport...idiots...
Well what if he approached and be like "Pshh. Put your number in my phone, just do it I dont have time"
Hahahaha if he doesn't have time, he doesn't really want my number. :P
He do he's just thinking you won't deny it.
He thinks I won't say 'no' if he's in a hurry?
That's silly...
No. He'd be like "Do as I told? Put it. I dont have to bs"
Well since Im a girl you don't have to take what I'm about to say to heart. Anyway when I pass people and I'm feeling in a playful mood I will wink at them, or if someone is openly staring at me longer than 30 seconds I will wink at them. Sorry I think I went off topic.. :)
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If some drugged-ass loser, or some guy who i don't find attractive winks at me, I'll be irritated. If it's not a loser, and he's quite attractive, I'll be flattered.
"-making them think they look hot even if they aren't one bit of hot." That's horrible. A douche-move. If a girl who finds herself unnattractive, and a guy winks at her, intending to signal that she's 'hot', it'll bring her self-esteem way up. But really, it turns out you're doing it to laugh behind her back only because she gained some self-esteem and hope, from your signalled compliment.
You better stop. It's so insensitive, and a really despisable-move.
Oh you real mad
You're probably not even 15
19. You probably want my D
He has a crush on you, so why not you take the opportunity to talk to him? This could be your chance of getting a boyfriend.
Besides... people love to say, "a guy has miss his chance if a girl was winking at him" so why not the other way around if a guy was doing that do a girl?
I don't believe in double standards.
I'd take it as a compliment. I wouldn't think he'd be teasing me though. Sometimes you just know when they are playing or when they are genuine. If he has a genuine smile and keep staring, i know for sure he is interested. If i see he is laughing and holding a smile or laugh, he's joking.
I'm hot so...
Well I can't just tell that by "figure" so:-p
when you met a girl first time and feel like she's connected to you and when she goes you wink her like, bye. that comes of cute and some would be melting. That make em think even more about you if you have chances. you may have muscles but the fact is its just a bonus feature like a girl has big boobs. she's a whore if she uses em to pick up guys don't she haha
Ahaha. No I was talkin about if guy did it to you bro ha
What if he's like "Baby sit on it"
Lmaooo. I can't even maintain my sarcastic straight face there
Probably more flirting than just being friendly. He might have been in a devil-may-care mood, so it doesn't necessarily mean he was interested in YOU.
But ... if I were a betting man, I'd guess he likes you and is giving you the equivalent of a 'poke' on Facebook ... perhaps to see if you responded in any way ...
That's my guess.
I've known this guy at work for about 5 years now but this is the first time he has ever winked at me. I was quite surprised he even did that in the first place so I kinda got shy. I smiled back at him and looked down as I passed by.
You're growing up too fast. I thought you were in your twenties.
He's trying to make you blush and gauge your interest in him.
Just give him the middle for a nice comeback if you are not interested.
It could be that he is too shy, or nervous to go about it the right way- but I assure you, he does fancy you. He would not make that gesture unless he did.
haha it depends. most of the time I just smile =) if I am single at the time and he looks attractive and my type, I might be more inclined to show him some interest.
And what if he's like hagrid of Harry potter
haha I would still smile and keep walking. I might feel creeped out but, I wouldn't show it as I wouldn't want to hurt his feelings. And, Hagrid is awesome! LOL
he's not only giant on campus if you know what I mean..
haha no I really don't know what you mean..
Well. Think harder
haha I seriously have no idea. I am sorry. If it is some sort of perverted comment, I am quite oblivious to those lol
aren't you queen of sarcasm.
haha I am really not being sarcastic hahaa
My wand. Duh
um okay. :)
It depends if he's cute, I'll gladly accept that wink and be happy, if he looks creepy and I'm not attracted then I will be like, "ughh, no thanks." Just the truth.
Like go and tell him "Ughhh, No thanks"?
So you will tell him "Wtf"? What if he took it as "want to fuck?" and start being creepier
I said "random" not from guys that know you
Even to ones you donno?
If they were creeper and you tell em "wtf" they would think she said "want to fuck?"
But what if they confuse w with want
What if they confuse wtf with want to fuck.
But they are creeps. Duh
Probably think there is something wrong with his eye.
What if he winked again and was like "Baby. You got great eyes, would look great on jar of my shelf"
I would giggle and say stop you say that to all the gals ;)
You'd giggle when he tells you that your eyes would look great on his shelf?
yep. what should I do?
What if he went like "I dumbleadore you girl"
I would say “You foul, lying, evil little cockroach!”
What if he turns in Hagrid and be like "You like em big?"
lol so this non-wizard guy winks at me, I react with a giggle. he further tries to pursue me by saying I dumbleadore you and now he turns into Hagrid and says you like em big. Well I have no clue but I would try to get out of his presence asap...I would
give him the side eye and run. lol ur bizarre
You sure you would reach his eye?
Unless it's done with a cheeky smile as an invite into a personal joke or something, it's just a tad bit skeazy.
What if he's like "Lets fuck"
I'd give him a look of disgust, most likely.
What if he is all muscular hot bod guy but also came near and hit on your butt and went like "Come to stifmaster baby"
I'd feel bad about being rude, because I'd assume he has a mental disability.
Would you be like "Owww babe, here's kissy for you" then? What if He looks like one of those old guy from Harry potter and went like "I dumbleadore you girl"
The Harry Potter line may work.
Even if he looks like dumbledore?
Dumbledore has a little somethin' somethin'.
So dumbledore does it for you? What if its henry
Ikr? This chick loves her some dumbledore
Who's Henry?
Giant hairy guy from Harry potter?
Hagrid? Jeez, brush up on your Harry Potter world, kid.
No thanks. Buffedkid rather stick with his fight club...shit you tricked me.
No, I really didn't.
Yes you did. -winks-
Iseewhatyoudidthere
Nice eyes, would look great in jar on my shelf.
I only have one. That's the good thing about the internet. Strategic photographs.
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Depends how old the guy is. If he is around my age I would be flattered. If he is like grandpa or old enough to be my dad status than I'd be creeped out.
19, muscle polos, flip flops. Duh
I am givin you details of winker bruh.
Who said its me? Dont flatter yourself girl. :-p (See what I did there?)
I know right. -winks-
See what I did there?
Thats how we do it. -winks-
I would be a little creeped out.
Maybe take it like a compliment if he didn't look the type to hit and run.
But I don't respond well to guys hitting on me so that better be as far as it goes...
Okay then...
Muahaha
You're a psychopath...
Ikr..muahaha. You donno where I've been lou. You donno where I've beeen! Muahahaha
Thats not a bad thing...:)
Honestly, I would be like "wtf, is that to me? O.o" with a poker face, but if you gave me a cute smile and wave too, well, I would be blushing and it would be cute then xD
-cute smiles-
I usually do this at girls because I have involuntary muscle spasms going on near my eyelids, I usually follow it up with a nice and quick epileptic seizure.
I would be a bit creeped out if a complete stranger did that
What if its your friend?
You wink at girls to "troll" them and make them think you think they're attractive when you don't. ... How immature can you get?
You mad, bro?
Oh you real mad now.
No, she thinks you're kind of ridiculous. Between this and your bully scenario, you're not making a very good case for yourself
Owwwww<3
You real mad.
Oh no. You still real mad bro, Its ok. Let it out nice and easy simba
Oh someone's real mad. Get over it, you'd want me winking at you. Duh
But I dumbleadore you girl
Hagrid is not only giant on campus if you know what I mean girl..
See? You already chamed and I haven't even started it yet. Oppa higgypif style
Get over it, You want my W (W for wand)
Charmed now or Id have to let my wand out
You know you want my wand swing in.
Either one of what you said.
Either he likes me, or is making fun of me, which I don't appreciate and would probably make me throw a shoe at him.
Well. Hold on there Buffy, could be one so you won't know. That's the trick
I hate when people wink at me so I'd stare him down or kick his ass lol.
What if he handicap
He was just playing around and being silly. If that silly wink is ALL he's done, then it doesn't mean anything...he's just having fun.
If u pull her leg off and wnk she will tae t as tease and if u flirt with her and wink she wl take as ioi
No. I was asking you bro, what would you do if I a guy winks on you
What if he did it avain and looked like ginger friend of Harry potter
And while we both are talking on something. He comes up randomly and slapped our asses
Yea. He touched my butt:/
I don't know. He kept touching my butt and was like "Baby sit on it" I kept running ://
No. I am a girl, I dont hit people:-/
Ahaha now you got it:p
Haha You didn't get the sarcasm huh:p
Ahaha. Smartass:p
Hell yea hulk
What if its hulk whose winking at us
Hell yea. I can see that! You be lookin like hulk bruh, Lemmy get my hammer out for lookin thorish
Hell no. Wed finish him off together. You take the hands
If I find the guy attractive then I won't mind, I'll probably giggle or smile. If I don't find him attractive then I'll be creeped out lol
does race matters?
In most creepiest way ever
In this case it sounds like flirting but it has to be measured on a case by case basis. Sometimes. es it's just for fun and sometimes it's a pretend flirt to test the waters. In this case it sounds like a flirt
If he's 246 lbs. probably run away scared lol. But they would like it if they think your hot if not they will think your creepy.
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I usually smile unless he looks creepy and is looking for too long.
Muahahahahha...
He seems to be interested in you. Like you said he is a shy guy and perhaps you need to initiate and test the waters a little bit
It means he has something in his eye. His retarded ass left eye.
I believe this is so.
Well, a guy winced at me once and i freaked out!! Never knew why he did that.
What if Its dumbledore from Harry potter.
Probably would freak out more xP
I see. No difference
Actually there is. You are comparing between an old dude and a tottaly hot one.
I never said other guy was me. Duh
I was talkinf about the guy who winced at me actually.
Ohhhh. Him, Why would you freak out again then?
I dont know. I didn't expect he would wince at me. He never did that before.
-winks-
Winks**
-___- Creep.
Thanks.
-winks again-
*Smile back* (i guess)
Why you smiling? I had somethin in my eye. WTH, can't even fix eye around, you
I said i guess !! Frown is the right word. And probably you should wash your face if there is sth in your eye !!!
-winks- Oh ye?;p
Lol Poker face!!
-Winks- Not really this time, No;-p
Again, poker face
Hell no girl, Dont go on face. Feel my heart. Come to stifmaster baby -winks-
Poker face.
-winks- comeon girl
I dont think so !!!
Comeon. I dumbleadore you girl -winks-
I dont think you remember !! But you called me a freak?
My bad? We can always make up for it. -winks-
Not sure !! :/
Comeon girl -winks- Come to stifmaster
Forget it no xP
-winks- comeon. Really? Pshh
Yess, really !!
-winks- you know you talkin for that. Duh
Not feeling like it !!
-winks- Just give in
What for? I am just not feel like it
-winks- Yea? Not even now?
Naah :P
Not going to lie be a little freaked out men nod at each other not wink. If you give me a nod of acknowledgment though I'll give you one back.
I see. #bromance
Watches a blonde passing by. -nods- ,'-)
Hahaha. That's what we usually do when bored in math class
Yea ok old guy, you are still not 50 yet.:-p
Would much rather he come over & start a conversation.
No. He's too old for that
90 year old hitting on you on wheelchair
What? he's hitting on you. Do somethin till he comes close
I wouldn't know how to take it..could be he thinks im hot or could be the wayhe greets women or maybe he's just playing around.
What if first
Yea. Guy is 90, now whatd you do
What if he kept doin it sayin "Come to stifmaster, baby"
What if he didn't and be like "Baby. Dont be shy, Just say Hi"
Well he's joking around...who winks anymore to flirt now and days..everything is playful now
Dumbledore do
What if guy winking on you looks like Dumbledore from harry potter and he's doing it creepy way. Duh
Oh well. That'd take time
Too bad I am hurt now. Watcha going to do
Well now since I know he might be doing it just to "troll me," I'd probably blow him off lol
What if he was doing because he find you hot?
What if he just was doing it COs of that and you thought other way.
What if he's real hot guy like me. Duh
I made it simple for you
I hope nothing because my teacher winks at me all the time and that would be pretty darn freaky
I msy like you or i may be joking. But its something I would do to flirt.
I'd ignore it unless the guys is cute and I'm interested.
What if its Dumbledore from harrypotter
What if he's like "I dumbleadore you girl" with puppy eyes.
What if then he's like "I am kiddin" and turns in voldermot
He or you? Muahaha
He can't die, He's voldermot..muahahaha
Tricked you.
Is that wand in your pocket or are you just happy to see me.
i would stare at him for awhile trying to figure out what he want, and then walk away
totally puzzled
What if he turn into ash from pokemon
I'd love it lol it's kind of like Joey Tribbiani's catchphrase pickup line; "how u doin?" . Cheesy but cute.
Simba got you
Die. Muahahaha
Its like john cena. You can't see em
What. You look 25.
Anyway it means he's just joking around.
lol ya you do.
And ya, anybody really interested wouldn't be that over-the-top.
np :)
Id find it funny and be a little bit weirded out haha
What if he's creep and not meant it funny way
What if he follow
Most times it is an involuntary reaction. Either way its intent is flirtatious. You can tell if its freaky if its followed by any facial expression..
I might laugh , and you might think im flirting , but no , i just laugh about anything, so dont try lol
Knock knock
Eat mop
You eat your poo?
Ikr. Gotcha this time smartarse:p
I am like Dexter, redhead cartoon dude.
Having second thought of doubting my humour:-p I made yourself eat your poo
Hey i like to flirt with my eyes i take it as a good thing and i look him up and down maybe call him over but he has to be cute
What if he's like 65ish with grey hair?
No he has to be 21 to 24 k ;)
What if he's 19
maybe but i have to see the face
WTf hell not i like a face is like jesse mccartney
What if his face is like George Clooney in 90s
no no no ok i am a picky person
What if he's just old perv and won't stop
no but your annoying by the way i am not a guy i am a girl
thanks ok ask away now
Ok. What if its Mathew McConaughey winkin
who is matthew
Ok bro
Mathew McCounaghey? Celeb?
no never
What "No never"? Never heard of him? Ha
no i will never date him that what i mean
Why? Isn't he like stud for chicks
yea but he is not my type
Howcome?
beacose he is not my type
And whys that
a lot of talking i have a list
Well let it out. McCounaghey ftw!>>
i don't know it just a regular white sexy respectful harmless stylish guy
-___- so?
so what? huh
Girl I like, winked at me the other day. What does that mean?
It means come hither and feel the wrath of my hammer.
? Well that was weird.
Haha just playing. It means he thinks you like him, and he's trying to get you to react to him.
And how am I supposed to react? .. Lol
I dunno. Do you like him?
Yes.. That's what I wrote lol. I don't think you're very sure either, are you?
Oh... didn't read the full question lol. Anyways, There is nothing really to do. It just means he knows you like him. There is no 'correct way' to react.
He is being perverted and serious as you will let him
If he's hot-"so cute I love it"
If he's ugly-"what a creep ewww"
Lol
Dont haha, he's right
Either a nervous twitch or a bug flew in his eye just as he was looking at you.
Who still winks to flirt with women? 😂😂
Just out of curiosity... I had to ask this lol
not sure it means anything mostly. I wink at everyone
if you winked at him, what would you prefer his reaction be?
i thought a girl i liked liked me back, when she winked at me. turns out she was really just trying to have one last fling
BEFORE SHE WAS GETTING MARRIED, THAT WEEKEND
Nobody really cares about winks
You are getting no where
Oh dont you worry about me getting "somewhere"
She wants the D secretely bro.
Actually I really don't. A little immature
You mad, bro?
Stop blushin
Lol no comment
Comeon. We can be public..duh
I think deep down the guy likes you, the word shy itself suggests that he resists emotions to let out and if he has winked he is really into you!!
So the other day, I saw my friend and I called out his name, and he turned around and winked at me. What does it mean because I read it as a friendly gesture until I found out he had this crush on my site last year.
I believe you have over-interpreted others motion.
To make things clear, you should ask him straightly!
Yes, unless he has something in his eye. I'm not a big winker personally. I use my words.
id be a bit creeped out
What if he kept doing it
id probably throw something at him to get him to stop :P
What if he still kept doin it?
id run..
What if he run after you
run to the nearest police station as thats kinda stalkerish
What if nearest police station if miles away
id ring for back up
What if he disappears in air and appear back at night under your bed,
Winks are usally a cheesy sign of show he into you
It's just simple, friendly flirting.
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