How to get a girl to like you? Flirt with her friends!

[AnonymouslyConfused]

Males and Females can answer and vote.

The best way to get a girl to like you is to pay limited attention to her, be funny and flirt with her friends. I'm definitely not saying ignore the one you really like, I'm just saying make her friends like you and potentially give you their vote of confidence when your not around!

Yes, it definitely works

No, it does not work

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+1 y

I'm shocked! Girls are all denying that it works and only the guys who've tried it are confirming that it works! ;P

[bijinbijinbijin]

games are stupid. Just be upfront. If I saw a guy always hanging out with my friend and not me, I would just think of him as not interested in me and off limits because I would assume that my friend is really into him, so I would avoid him.

If my friend was like "I hung out with (insert guys name) today, we had so much fun, he is awesome, you have to meet him". That tells me right there that my friend is after him and she wants my aproval.

from her friends point of view, I always tell my girlfriends about the guy that I like so that they know that I like him. Why would I tell my girlfriend about a guy that I like so that I could give him to her? I would consider you to be a dog, because you made me like you and all that stuff but now you are after my friend. like wtf? tactic is that? Why not just go straight to the girl you like, and just get to know her like a normal person.

[Anonymous]

That is like the worst way to get a girl to like you. 1) What if one of her friends starts to like you? Then you'll be off limits to the girl you actually like 2) What if she thinks you're a player for flirting with them? 3) What if flirting with them makes her feel bad about herself? 4) Girls like it when guys make them feel special, this will most definitely not do that.

How to get a girl to like you:

Talk to her and get to know her

Make her feel special

Be a gentleman

Compliment her

Talk to her about things that she loves

[WaleedHassanien]

straight forward = well said :-) *thumbs up*

[Opinion Owner]

Thanks :)

[Shrinking-Violet]

Quit with the mind games; just flirt with HER instead of her friends!

[anonymousbastard]

Really?. Women are always playing mind games with guys.

[emzy-89]

@anonymousbastard: no, that's just guys tricking themselves into believeing that women play mind games.

[orangasing]

yeah I think it doesn't work, just make it worse, she will move on. I did it once, but I fix it and pay attention again to her. if you do that the girl would revenge and do the same thing she will show her action flirt with other guy and make you jealous. you know because she does that make me more fall in her, I am the one who become the victim of this stupid game.

[WaleedHassanien]

I couldn't vote because I never tried it -that way I mean-, usually if I liked -IF- a girl I go to her to drop an ice breaker that usually is funny yet classy & not sexual (to preserve respect if been refused -which strangely never happened- I either have her as a friend -if she is not in zone for dating- or a girlfriend :-)

Didn't help huh?! :S

[Anonymous]

This is the most stupid way to make a girl fall for you.

Girls aren't mind readers. If a guy flirts with us, we assume he's interested. The big question is : what exactly does he want and how serious is he? If we see him flirting with other girls and ignoring us then we will simply think that he's not that interested and may even label the guy as a player. We will think he might be doing this to get attention and that is all.

It's also extremely annoying when we see a guy that flirts with our friends and then flirts with us. The girl will easily move on to another guy to avoid any conflict between her and her friends.

So yeah, it does not work. You will only make girls confused about who truly interests you and that will make girls hate you or label you as a player. Nothing irritates a girl more than feeling she's being somewhat played, and flirting with her to get her friend is included.

[cazza3]

Will have exactly the opposite affect. You flirt with one of my friends, I presume you're interested in her. You flirt with all my friends we all think you're an a**hole. You then decide to show some interest in me I am mostly definitely not interested in a guy that flirt with every woman in sight.

[jesshkah]

wouldnt work on me.. lol if you gave more attention to one of my friends, I'd assume you wanted her more. what you have to do, is be friendly and flirty to everyone so that everyone likes you, but pay special attention to the girl so you make her feel special within her group of friends.

[princessmoonlight]

That is the stupidest thing I have ever heard you should definitely not do that. Playing bitchy little mind games with someone is not the way to get them to like you. How about just being friendly and normal with her because if you flirt with her friends she will think you are not interested in her and consequently she won't give you a second thought.

[NoOneListens21]

Eh, I wouldn't do that. If you want to then uh go ahead but I wouldn't. lol. She might think that you like her friends and if her friend is into you or doesn't like you then she might think it's wrong or that it didn't work out with them so you're hitting on her. Pay attention to the ones you like or love =/ games don't get you where you want to go any faster. Why not just do that with her.

[Anonymous]

i fail to see any logic in your "plan"

A. flirting means you're intrested so if you flirt with her friends either they'll assume your a player, or they will assume that is how you always act with female friends and for some reason you don't like the one you do like

B. ignoring the one you like just sounds dumb to start with so I really don't need to continue to explain it's stuipity

[Anonymous]

In my experience as myself and what what my female friend have told me about their crushes is that we are attracted to guys who give us attention. Your plan doesn't seem to really work with that, but I'm only thinking of about 20 some odd girls amongst the entire female population so we could be incorrect.

[TenJaiRen]

Your right. And its not just 20 girls. Most girls like attention for themself rather than their friends.

[thisusername2]

Too many guys out there to chose from so why go for one who is showing signs that he is not really interested. It would have the opposite affect on me and I suspect most girls.

[Racez]

It doesn't work. Her friends doesn't have any control on her feelings. You should directly let her know how you're feeling and that would come up as very attractive.

[emzy-89]

Guaranted to have the opposite effect. Seriously, how is it that guys seriosuly think that this could work?

[RedSmartie]

You're just going to cause problems between her and her friends, and then all those girls will hate you.

[MuirnBeathaDan]

Bad idea, she will see you as a player so honestly it depends on what you both are after.

[Anonymous]

some evil mind games bro they might work but ud probs f*** up a friendship and I don't know if it would even work... sounds like a nice way to hurt some people though, have fun in hell

[Anonymous]

No, that's just childish, any girls wouldn't be down for the games. It's actually the exact opposite.

[Anonymous]

It might work sometimes but not always.

Lay off the PUA sites.

[Vandal]

I don't like them, but if the tactics PUAs espouse didn't work, the whole PUA thing wouldn't be as big as it is.

[acharmingman]

Was at a bar and the girl I like friends grin dded on me while her friend recorded I was like why and laughed. I don't know what that means

[Anonymous]

your a joke kid