He asked me to go swimming with him and his guy friends?

[bdeakol]

My guy friend asked me to go swimming with him and 3 other guys. None of my female friends was able to come with me. They told me that I should still go and it should be fun.

I'm having second thoughts about this.

Should I go or not?

[TheoryOfAvarice]

Where are you going swimming? A public pool, a pool at someone's house, in a river or lake..?

If you go you will probably be harassed a bit, not to put down your guy friends or anything but I mean what do you expect, one girl in skimpy clothes amid four other guys... it might be fun but it also might be uncomfortable, either way if you do go just be careful.

[Daph81]

I wouldn't go. especially since you don't even know the other 3 guys. Most likely they'll just gawk at you since you'll be wearing revealing clothes. Even your friend could turn into a jerk in front of his friends and make fun of you, you know, guy pride.

[KJT6989]

If you know them and trust then go and have fun but if you don't know them very well idk? 4 guys and one girl not very safe if you don't know them!

[bdeakol]

One of em is my best friend. That;'s the only one I really know.

[gerp402]

Listen to your intuition - it's almost always right.

More than likely it will be a harmless day of fun.

Alternatively, the guys could just want to see you lookin' fine in your swimsuit. Or some combination of both.

If anything the boys should be the ones who are worried. It's difficult to hide a hard on in swimming trunks. ;)

[bdeakol]

My intuition says to not go, but at the same time it's saying I should go because it might be fun.

[Lucifatianu]

Those men might all be mature and respectful towards you, but I'd advise against going, because you only know one of them.

[Anonymous]

Personally I wouldn't go. Even though you may not be slutty, I think it sounds it. But this is just my opinion & view.

[crazybastard]

that's sounds like a gang bang. they gonna share you

[joecastlegag]

Four guys, one girl...Not good odds! There are a lot safer places to go with friends than swimming. What would your mom advise you to do? You already know the answer, no swimming!

[Zeeyah]

Don't go reschedule or something but don't go want tell some friends can go.

[kangaru]

I wouldn't go, cautious towards guys

[Anonymous]

Why are you having second thoughts?