Why are Indian women considered attractive, unlike Indian men?

[rajugopal]

Many white men and even white women find Indian women to be stunning and gorgeous. They .compliment Indian women on their features, dark brown skin and their long, flowing black tresses. On the other hand, white women react with disgust and loathing towards Indian men, describing them as short, ugly perverts with excessive body-hair and and tiny brown sausages between their legs . In fact, I have come across white women who have said that they feel sorry that Indian women who are so lovely , have to marry such ugly , repulsive creatures as Indian men. Why is this ? Just curious, thanks

[VoiceOfReason]

The problem is you're so concerned about what others are saying and thinking that it's clouding your own self image and it's obviously affecting your self esteem.

First off, you need to determine how you perceive yourself. Others opinions shouldn't carry more weight than your own opinion of yourself. If it does, then obviously it will effect you. Not all people will have a universal opinion regarding what's attractive or not. A lot of people will always have formulated opinions, either based on personal preference or stereotypes that they hear. If you feed into the stereotype then you are letting them win.

It doesn't matter what your race or gender is, there is no one race that will be liked by everyone. While some may find Indian men and women attractive, others wont. It's the same for everyone. There are people who don't find Blacks appealing. There are even some who don't find Whites appealing. Same for Asians (in general, not just Indians) or Hispanics and a lot of them will give reasons why and a lot of others will just follow stereotypes. It's their choice, just like it's your choice to only be concerned with what White people are saying.

[Anonymous]

White girls are uppity ****s. I can't wait until they fall from the top spot. They already attack Asian girls a lot.

[imjustagirl91]

Jeez, that's some pretty racist people you hang around! I think I posted this on forum before but I am a white girl (many people tend to think I'm attractive, I have a great body and beautiful hair and smile). I've always just dated white guys. Then I met an Indian man an I was smitten, I thought he was the sexiest thing I've ever seen. And yes, I agree that Indian women are extremely gorgeous. But some are not. Every race and culture has beautiful and not so beautiful people. This guy I dated was not hairy, did not stink. He bathed, problem solved. We always made little jokes to each other about our races. I told him how jealous I was that he never had to partake in the financially draining and miserable act of having to get a spray tan! It opened up a new world to me, I loved the contrast of his jet black hair against my platinum blonde hair. I loved the way our hands looked when we held hands. I loved every thing about him. If you have met white women that say this, move on. They are obviously ignorant and close minded. Just find someone you are attracted to and who is attracted to you. No matter what color. Ignore stupid people.

[Mark987]

THIS IS AN AMAZING RESPONSE :)

[chi1212]

Ahhmeemmmm, I live in Australia and noooo, trust me I'm Indian, I don't think anyone finds me gorgeous or stunning, sometimes cute, but I haven't been complimented particularly on my skin (in Australia I have a LOT of asians, some Indians & australia look at me with disgust like why am I brown or something?) and my darkest brown hair is nothing special either, everyone is obsessed with blonde/red/other hair colors….

No they dont, I see a lot of Indian guys interacting with white girls, I'm a little jealous, maybe even wishful, I hate to say

So its not just you.

[chunkbro]

You're actually beautiful! Why would anyone think otherwise

[Khaled27]

If the profile picture is you the you are extremely gorgeous.. maybe you misunderstand their impression maybe they look at you as rarely hot lady not an exotic as you think

[Anonymous]

Stop kissing white people's asses and worry about your own race. If you're Indian why do you care what white people think? That's why they don't respect you. Men aren't supposed to be looking to other people for approval, that's not a sign of strength, confidence and masculinity. It just gives people license to look down on you. Perhaps if some of you would stop licking white people's nuts you'd get more respect and be seen as more desirable?

[warmcinnamongirl]

I am a white woman. I love brown East Indian men. I love the accent, the broken English, the sensitivity, the foods, mostly they are strict lactovegetarian like me, they are skinny-sexy, they have fascinating mannerisms, often like doing yoga like me. When they smile their teeth are so dazzling white.

I love Hinduism. I chant and meditate all my life. I love all the languages and dance and culture. I know other white girls who prefer East Indian men.So much to love. Dating a Tamil man now. So handsome, so lovely personality. God willing we will marry

[Flamingo117]

So I know this is late, but you reek of insecurity. I'm Indian, and I've never felt racially ostracized. I've had PLENTY of white girls wanting me. It's all in your head.

I know plenty of Indian men who can get with the hottest girls. You are just insecure. Wake up, it is 2013. Nobody is racist anymore and anyone who spews racial stuff are just joking around.

You are most likely treated badly because you're physically ugly or most likely personality-wise ugly.

[Racez]

It's because most of those Indian men don't try to make themselves look good. They dress so casually and plainly. They don't incorporate fashion into their world.

[Nyx_85]

Because most Indian men we see do NOT look like this:

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[Nyx_85]

They look like this..

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[karangill]

Look at me, graciousness!

[miles55]

You are only as good and confident as you think you are.. If you cary yourself well ad with confidence. No body will say your ugly or gross.

[ketfoen]

Really? I never knew that the major population of India was white that they made you feel so bad. Get rich and wealthy and see them change their tune, lol.

[singlebee]

Who ever says that is ignorant, racist, and generalizes...

If i say all white women are spoiled sluts... Is that even true? NO! Not everybody is spoiled and act slutty... so just dont listen to these people...

[Anonymous]

Because that's true, they even smell gross some Indian men, they smell like oil. And that repulses me, and even some Indian women do not smell so great.

[BeMuse]

I don't find most Indian women attractive. Occasionally there are a few good looking ones.

[Anonymous]

it's simple, Indian girls are mostly beautiful here from where I am. The guys hmm most of them are unattractive due to their horny and weird attitudes or carry a smell I can't stand

[Anonymous]

Idk I'm Indian, and a lot of white girls say I'm cute.

[Anonymous]

well indian women are considered gross and stinky with a weird thick accent so my answer would be no , no one finds indian women or indian men attractive.

[Anonymous]

Girls in general just don't find many guys attractive

[Krupa]

I would say they are the least attractive race

[Gracexox999]

Then watch some Bollywood dumb hoe

[quyentrinh78]

The situation is pretty much the same for East Asians (Korean, Japanese and Southeast Asians (Filipino, Thai). While many men fetishize East Asian women/Southeast Asian women, most women disregard east Asian men/southeast Asian men as nothing but ugly people from China.

[mraraboosh]

@Gracexox999 Bollywood is not a representative of average Indian/Pakistani man.

[karangill]

Really? I've dated more than anybody I know.

[TylerWolfnSky]

Hot Indian women prefer white guys

[alphadoggystyle]

not true

[JustAsking_1991]

I am an indian woman and i consider myself cute. Yea we do prefer other races over our own

[Anonymous]

We are not considerd attractive

[chunkbro]

Im an indian.. Do i look like an ugly pervert?

[Anonymous]

I find some Indian guys hot

[Anonymous]

No

[Anonymous]

They aren't