My cousin's wife is texting my boyfriend not comfortable

[Anonymous]

Ok my boyfriend is weed friendly and so is my cousins wife my boyfriend has been knowing my cousin for a couple of years now but he just recently met his wife we've all have hung out before but she has been texting my boyfriend from time to time asking for him to come through to chill with them or asking him about weed. He reassured me that nothing going on and it's usually her texting him about weed or asking him to come and play "video games" because she is a gamer. I just don't feel comfortable with her texting him being that she is married to my cousin and has two kids and when she writes come it's always "cum" I just don't know if i;m over reacting or should I really be concern he did show me the text it wasn't anything inappropriate but you never know what just general texting can lead to

[ShesSoSilly]

Well I personally would trust him until he gives you a reason not to. From this alone I don't think there is anything to be concerned about but if you are uncomfortable or upset by something you should talk with your boyfriend about it. Or if you prefer, talk with your cousin or his wife and let them know what you're feeling. Another option is to go with him sometime when he goes to hang out and play games or just go places more often with them both around and see how they act.

[Anonymous]

Hmmm... next time they are going to hang out, try and go with them and see what he says. If he says no, your uncomfortableness maybe warranted, but if he lets you go with him I'd say its fine. and then you can watch how they act around each other and see for yourself if anythings going on.

[harveykinkle]

Yes! Do this!

[harveykinkle]

Unless you don't blaze and that's the reason they're hanging out. Sober people are lame and they might say no to that, rather than you actually being there.

[Prof_Don]

She may just be a flirtatious person by nature. Ur boyfriend IMO doesn't give me a reason to distrust him.

[Asker]

Yea but she's to know not to cross the line flirtatious or not don't disrespect me or my relationship