My crush asked me who I liked!

[Anonymous]

so ah the guy I liked just asked me for the second time who I like except this time he said oh I have been meaning to ask you do you like me?

When he asked I froze up asked him y he asked me the question and he said just wondering.

then I didn't answer for a while he said alright well night and I said ok jack um and then couldn't bring myself to tell him that I liked him b4 he went offline.

so do I have to tell him now what if he doesn't like me wouldn't that make things awkward

[EarlofPuuding]

Wow... where have I seen this before? Basically from you answer he knows there's something going on with you, and if a guy who doesn't like you knows you like him, he will distance himself from you, or if he's a jerk he will exploit you. If he is asking it means he a likes you or b is getting very freaked out by the very obvious signals you are subconsciously sending his way. If you are doing the latter and deny it, it will be bad for him because he will recalibrate a perfectly good detector. So be wise indirectly tell him or ask him why he wants to know, or mirror his question back at you. If you do tell him you like him leave a little room for you to get away (haha just kidding ^.^'') in case he doesn't like you back, (it will be painful for you and him and sorta tactless, but its the guy thing to do)

[Asker]

So basically he is holding the upper hand lol

so I should just tell him shouldnt i

[canadianguy58]

if he asked you who you like 90 % chance he likes you back but don't tell him you do. you need to flirt with him and kinda of beat around the bush until he indirrectly gets the picture. I know because I have asked girls who the liked before because I liked them so I could get a clue if they like me back

hope it helped

keep us posted

[Asker]

Hmm I wish this had worked out I ended up telling him and he said he did like me but he was to busy for a relationshipbeing in year 12 and he didn't like me anymore, but now so confused he won't reply to me on Facebook chat and I hardly see him at skool what do I do I don't want to loose him as a friend. if you want more imformation just ask me a question

[mormongirlmichl]

uh, tell him now! He obviously likes you too and you are killing his feelings...gosh... wish I had your luck with the guy taking the first step...now you need to step up.

good luck! oh and don't forget to update.

[Gone_But_Not_Lost]

Look, it's only awkward if you let it be awkward. Just tell him how you feel and see where it goes. if he isn't interested is it really gonna kill you?

[Gone_But_Not_Lost]

I'm checking back on some of my old answers. Doing a follow up.

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