How do you tease and poke fun at a girl when talking to her, once you have approached her?

[Anonymous]

I believe it is absolutely critical, imperative for a guy to be able to tease and poke fun at a girl, and even make some sexual comments towards her(sexual in a playful way) if he wants to avoid the friend zone, in order to get a girlfriend, I hear that a lot of guys are conditioned to refrain from talking, discussing anything sexual on the first few dates or the first few interactions in which you are getting to know the girl, that the guy should refrain from sexual jokes, but having done more research on this, guys who do this end up being friend-zoned.

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because if a guy is not playful, does not tease or poke fun at a girl when talking to her initially it usually sets the guy up for the friend-zone

[Popnlock]

Sorry to break it down for you but the first few seconds of meeting a women she already knows if she gonna sleep with you or not... And teasing a girl or poking fun is not something that can be taught its something you develop or do naturally... This whole friend zone thing is so misunderstood you end up putting yourself there because of lack of believing in yourself... Yea there needs to be sexual tension so that things move faster but your not gonna get there by reading advice online lol

Good luck

[moviedude714]

I would read David Wygant

[Anonymous]

weird question...if you make sex jokes, it just means you're looking for sex...you're just doing something else the wrong way...and it's not "NOT making sex jokes" ..figure out what you're doing wrong...:P

[Anonymous]

sex jokes if used wrong often come across as corny, pushy, sleazy or lame. it's better to just compliment my attractiveness in a sexual way and gauge my reaction. say I'm looking fine/hot/sexy today

[Anonymous]

Why try so hard to do that, if it happens it happens, stop saying weird things like "it's imperative for a guy to do that" it's not, stop reading stupid magazines or pick up artist bull sh*t

I've gotten many girls numbers by just having a conversation, you don't need to use any special "jedi mind tricks" she either likes you or doesn't

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