How do you tease and poke fun at a girl when talking to her, once you have approached her?

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I believe it is absolutely critical, imperative for a guy to be able to tease and poke fun at a girl, and even make some sexual comments towards her(sexual in a playful way) if he wants to avoid the friend zone, in order to get a girlfriend, I hear that a lot of guys are conditioned to refrain from talking, discussing anything sexual on the first few dates or the first few interactions in which you are getting to know the girl, that the guy should refrain from sexual jokes, but having done more research on this, guys who do this end up being friend-zoned.
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because if a guy is not playful, does not tease or poke fun at a girl when talking to her initially it usually sets the guy up for the friend-zone
How do you tease and poke fun at a girl when talking to her, once you have approached her?
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