When you ask a girl what she's looking for?

[Anonymous]

Went on a date with this girl and asked her what she was looking for. She said she doesn't want to put labels on anything and whatever happens happen.

Can someone please translate this? Is it girl code for just wanting to mess around?

[Anonymous]

No, she doesn't want to be pressured or you feel pressured, pretty much she likes you and want to take your situation slow.. if more happens such as a relationship fine so be it, if not and you two don't work out fine so be it. Irs like you hope for the best, prepare for the worst kinda..it's not a bad thing she doesn't want stress, and she doesn't wanna stress u

[chimney]

i guess the answer is just as vague as the question. what did you mean with "what are you looking for?" in a guy? in life? I don't think she wants to mess around... whatever happens happens! if you hit if off, you do. if you don't, you don't. if you try to work things out, you will. it's simple as that :)

[Lafemmedeschats]

She's not wanting to commit to anything. That's like my crappy ex I dated. He wouldn't just say we were dating so he could cop out easily of he wanted. Luckily I left before he did

[fox320228]

maybe she is just scared of rejection, and is trying to act casual, or maybe she just wants a "no strings attached" relationship

[XKateXZX]

It could easily mean that she doesn't know exactly what she wants either. She's still testing the waters.

[523206720]

Yeah I think so.

[LoveBambi]

It means just that