Questions: Flirting

I was thinking about this today so I would like to hear everyone's opinions. I realized that I'm the type who is usually attracted to opposites. I was looking back and realized I was always into girls who were the studious and honor class taking type. I was the complete opposite of that in high school. I was always the guy who just attended class and would either read a book or put his head down because I was tired from playing video games all night. Unfortunately girls like that were never into guys like me.. lol

I've matured since then but I realized I'm still into people who are my polar opposites. People who are too similar to me whether it be cultural or personality wise are always more buddies than love interests. What do you people think? What are your opinions on the subject?

I was talking to a female acquaintance , and she was telling me about a past crush .. she described him as , tall, broad shoulders, has a nice car, handsome and '' smokes cigarettes''.

This last one caught my attention.. so I wanted to know.. is a guy lighting a smoke in front of you .. or just holding a cigarette in his hand .. make him look more attractive in some way .. or may be appear more mature?