Polls: Flirting

Should I bear some responsibility for winning while others lose? This is a serious question that sounds kind of silly.

Please explain if you have a good opinion on this! :)

I'll give you an example: I was out working, doing food deliveries. I went to a restaurant to pick up an order. I had been there once before. The girl working behind the counter was really pretty. She was the same one who was working there last time I came. The first time I saw her, I was kind of in shock and awe of her beauty; so I didn't say anything, of course. Just made the transaction and got out.
This time -- the second time -- I remembered her (of course; how could you forget an angel like that?); but I had had enough time to process her existence and emotionally deal with it, and I had already grown a cold heart about her. (Because that is my modus operandus: noticing beautiful girls and growing a cold heart. I'm very emo.)

So I had my poker face on (which is what I wear to ensure that a hot girl doesn't think that I like her.) Unfortunately, my poker face is actually a Resting Bitch Face. So it may come off as a bit unfriendly. Maybe she might have even thought I was scowling at her. (I wasn't, really; I was just trying to cope with my internal angst. And I guess that ends up showing on the outside. The darkness in my heart and the pain in my soul.). But truthfully, I don't hate her. Not at all. I just hate myself for not knowing what to say to a woman.

Anyway, I noticed that she seemed a bit cold and rigid herself. So maybe she was mirroring the energy that I was giving off towards her. I was a bit surprised, though, and kind of embarrassed. I felt bad, because I thought that maybe I had taken it too far and come off as a bit TOO intense. I never wanted to come off as mean or rude. Just "not interested," that's all. All I wanted was to hide and camouflage my attraction and infatuation with her.

So, what do you guys think? Did she know that I liked her? Did she see through the mask, and was she annoyed that I was hiding it?
Or did my deceptive maneuver work (too well) and did she actually think that I disliked her?

Just thought it was a fun question to ask

I sort of wonder whether there's small-talk, right, with strangers or banter, usually brief. But whether if people make any excuse to talk or small-talk, is that a sign of interest or attraction, or just courtesy/being polite? Think potential crushes or unspoken allure/interest/attraction. Whether at the shopping mall or out at a public event. Am I making any sense? 😆😆😁

I work at a restaurant and I work with a couple who have an agreement that they can flirt back with guests so they can get better tips.
And honestly, they’re smart lmao. I love that for them.

i wish my boo would get on board with me flirting to make more money but he would never 💀

I wouldn’t even feel comfortable asking, he’d get pissed tbh. Which is completely understandable.

This is hypothetical.

I'd rather accidentally send one to my parents, because I feel like they'd know it was on accident and would just ignore it. I luckily don't have the kind of of parents who would give me shit for it or make it into an embarrassing story every holiday. They're not that bad.

Whereas my exes, would not believe it was on accident. And at least one would take it as an invitation and try to come back again. Plus there's if I have a girlfriend, she wouldn't believe I accidentally sent one to an ex either. But she would believe my parents' was accidental.