Whats Wrong with American white women in general?

[Anonymous]

Nearly everyone GAG questions I saw say that "why black men approach me?" like it flattering to them and when they post details they claim that I'm not racist but not attracted to black men without stating the reason why. What do you sexy women dislike about black men, our skin color? Is it that such as turn off for you? Why most attractive toned curvy women are racist against black men in terms of relationships? Are we not equal? Are we subhuman compared to white men? This is why we ask these question to begin with because most of you women are racist towards us.

[emkbot]

Good god. Your question is kind of insulting. As a white woman, I can honestly tell you that I have considered dating black men before, not even thinking about their race. The only reason I haven't gone out with one is because I don't go out with anyone. Why is everyone so hung up on the racial bullshit? That's a topic for another time, I'll hold that back.

How do you think women feel? As minorities we also face struggles in equality in living. Instead of bothering with the racist women who bother you, look at the ones who aren't racist. There are countless numbers in America alone where interracial relationships are just blossoming.

Do any of you remember that cheerios commercial with the interracial couple? People freaked the fuck out. Not just white people, black people too. You think white women are the only ones who hold racial discrimination? I've met black men who wouldn't even look to white girls.

This is a two way street.

[Passportbro5999]

lol. 😂 It’s just like I said my perception is that many white woman don’t like men period. lol

[wolf-girl]

I'm done with this shit. Stop the bullshit already. It's a natural instinct towards our own race. we don't have to make ourselves attracted to you. get over it. you can't accuse someone to Racism because she's not Naturally attracted to you or even your whole Race. we don't care about your race, that is why we are "not" Racist. Racism is when you care about another race so much that you try to put them down by force. we don't even think about you. it seems you Blacks nowadays see yourselves as a Special race that has the right to accuse all other races to Racism when they don't give a damn about you. Put this into your head. You are just ONE race between ALL the other races. nothing more. no one has to give you Special Attention or anything like that. Stop the bullshit and get a life.

[Prof_Don]

Read my answer, please. Curious about what u think about it! :-P

[biggie90]

I agree the race card gets thrown around too much nowadays.

[NoblesseOblige]

this.

[Anonymous]

I'm not attracted to black men in general. Maybe I just haven't met the right one. I don't want to say that I'll NEVER be attracted to a black guy but I'm not attracted and have never been attracted to the black guys I know. It's just a preference. I don't like Asian men. Just like I don't like short men (shorter than 5'5). Just like some guys don't like brunettes a or blondes or super tall girls. There are some famous black guys that I think are super attractive, but I've never met a black guy in person that I've been attracted to.

[Payton12]

I do not mean this meanly at all. But I am not attracted to African American men. I just do not find them as attractive. I can not help what I find attractive or not. I'll treat every man and women equally. I will be nice to a man no matter what color his skin is. I am not racist. That is like someone saying "I don't like women that have small eyes." or something along those lines. No one asks the man "why don't you like them, why do you discriminate them?" Same thing. People are so sensitive about racism these days. Gees

[Asker]

what about jamaican men and If not? Is the skin color a turn off?

[Payton12]

I just told you, it is. But I am not racist at all. It's just like a man having a thing about a girls hair color or height.

[dafirst1]

well said. as a black man i do respect your choice and i wouldn't be offended by your choice. I know some blacks too that won't go for a white lady. And it all boils down to how we present ourselves. Most of my black colleagues act very ghetto and don't know how to behave in public. It's like they even get more attention than the lady they are with. respectful women like cool headed gentlemen who are very presentable as well. So if we don't change our ways it's going to be hard to find the right lady. be her white, black or colored...my opinion and shouldn't be taken as a final judgement

[Payton12]

Thank you for seeing my point:)

[Prof_Don]

Hey bro, classic sales technique:

"to get the info you need, you need to ask precise questions".

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So ask every girl u suspect of being racist this question:

"If u happened to meet a black dude that you found attractive, and you "clicked" with personality wise...
...
...would you date him if u and him were single and 'available'?"

Asking this specific question, you eliminate every other factor but the race of the guy (availability, personality conflict, not being single, etc.)

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If she answers "yes"...then she is open to dating a black guy, she simply hasn't found a black guy she is into yet.

If she answers ANYTHING ELSE BUT YES, then she has a racial prejudice on some level against black guys for some reason, but didn't want to admit it. Because she had no other basis to reject said guy besides his race, based on the probing question I highlighted above.

[Insaan]

No i am not against interracial dating. It's so exciting actually.. But what can one do if the person is just not in to you.
Many are dating successfully. I would love to have a white girl in life but big question is whether white women wants me? That's the point.
As far as tasting is concerned, he can just visit a white hooker.

[Red_Dragon]

Dude. People typically want to date within their race. That's with anybody. However, white girls have always wanted me. I don't go after them unless they are fiending for me to talk to them. Don't place too much value on what's on here. They say they want tall guys but in RL girls don't care about that either.

[Red_Dragon]

Shit white girls be after me the most out of all the races.

[Asker]

Are those white girls after you attractive?

[Asker]

And are you dark skinned black guy?

[Red_Dragon]

Hell yeah they are attractive. There are always attractive white girls in America who want black guys. Least now days anyway.

[Red_Dragon]

I'm light skinned.

[Red_Dragon]

I'm sure it's some who like dark black guys too though.

[juststrollin]

:/ I'm a black female and get approached but hella white guys into rap music. I like rap, but I dont believe in the morals it presents or spaking slang because I like to expresss myself concretely, although I do like hearing it amongst my family.

Its mad awkward and I think my situation is the reverse of yours.

I personally think that after there ancestors slaughtered and enslaved races to force there ideals of beauty on future generations and talk lowly of them after killing them... that it effected the cultural mentality and morales...

bleh

[juststrollin]

Also its nto that anything is "wrong with black men" or men of any culture its the beating, enslaving, and oppressing of innocent people and manipulating the people into a negative immage although thered be no damage if said people were not mistreated and not allowed to be educated propperly until about 50 years ago.

You did nothing and white girls are just as big of a deal as yellow, black and orange girls.

[Phoenix1991]

Dude, I'm black too, don't let it get to you so much. Sometimes they are not attracted to us just like some guys like small breasts or big breasts. Everyone has their thing, especially women.

Not every girl is like that, I've dated a black, several whites, Asian, Hispanic, etc. You gotta keep your head up and not let this control how you feel about yourself.

[Prof_Don]

I agree...not everyone is going to like you no matter how much you try. Such is a fact of life.

[Insaan]

Why? Aren't you happy with your women?
Your preference clearly shows that keep White women above the women of your own race.
Start taking tension when that day comes where black women don't wanna date black men. Not White women.
I understand white women can he very irresistable but let white dicks play with white pussies.
Just enjoy their beauty from distance if you aren't getting them.

[Prof_Don]

This guy wants to taste all flavors of women...and is wondering why this particular flavor of women seems to evade him.

Thats not so bad IMO.

Are you against interracial dating?

[Passportbro5999]

It’s not you, many white women don’t like any man. Many white American women feel that most men don’t meet their standards or expectations and they are not gonna settle for less. They feel that they want a man but don’t need a man. 30% of generation Z females are gay according to survey reports so many white woman are decentering from all men. Remember, men need and want woman but woman do not need men.

[EvilPimp]

Because people despise/dislike different races for different reasons. While a person might not be a hardcore straight up racist, they do have some issues with other races. I have seen people go out their way to say they don't date blacks only for some reason.

[Prof_Don]

Yup I've heard all types of reasons why nomblacks dont date black people.

[YoungBlackMan]

This is what happens when you take the internet seriously. Dude im in college, nothing but white, asian, hispanic etc people around here. I have no problem.

[Asker]

Are they attractive?

[YoungBlackMan]

Tons of attractive women at my college. Get out there man and stop living on the internet. If you were, you'd never even asked this question.

[Prof_Don]

My college had very few black girls...i fared just fine in the female department. :)

[CommieDearest]

I'm attracted to black men, but not usually attracted to Asian men (Of course there are always exceptions and I have dated a guy who was Korean). It's really just a type thing and it doesn't make you racist.

[yaddayaddayadda02]

Having a preference over who you want to date is not racism. And what do you care if they won't date you? Plenty of women won't date you, the least of your concern should be anonymous strangers on the internet

[knotme]

How is it racist if they dont want to date you? Is it racist if a black girl, latina, Middle Eastern, etc, girl doesn't want to date you?

[Insaan]

This!

[zombiebabe]

so true

[harakiri]

I think it's quite hard to control what your physical preferences are. Racism and having preferences aren't the same thing.

[Phoenix98]

Its not racist if your not attracted to a certain race I'm not attracted to black woman but I am not racist agaisnt them I know many black people and many are my friends.

[knotme]

Aren't you black, because I could have sworn you stated such in another Q&A

[knotme]

Ah...I see wrong. Sorry about that

[Phoenix98]

No worries.

[zombiebabe]

dude if they aren't interested in you then why are you still wasting your time chasing them...why don't you try chasing girl of other races?

[Anonymous]

I'm not attracted to black men at all. I can't help my preferences. I have also never had a black guy approach me though.

[Asker]

whats wrong with black men? Is it skin color that prevents you from dating them?

[Asker]

You guys keep saying that your not attracted to them without stating a reason. Have you even tried dating one?

[CommieDearest]

Why would you try to date someone you're not attracted to.

[binny91]

you're an idiot, you need to know that people can reject you and it has nothing to with race.

[Prof_Don]

I respectfully disagree... people do discriminate in dating based on race alone.

[binny91]

are you sure you were not ugly, strange weird, dirty and all other things women can reject you over

[biggie90]

You can't generalize and say that. Some questions :(

[Anonymous]

It's not just American women , it's almost every young women

[throwit]

Shut up.
These questions are so fucking stupid.

[Asker]

I bet your a typical white chick.

[throwit]

I bet you're a typical black dude who only goes after white girls.
If you're having such a hard time finding a white girl to give you the time of day, why not go for a nice black girl? Are you racist or something?

Maybe girls don't like your attitude or the way you carry yourself. Or maybe you're just ugly. Regardless, not all white girls are attracted to black men. And not all white girls are attracted to Asian or Indian or Hispanic or white guys SPECIFICALLY.

[Asker]

People saying that they not attracted to certain races without a specific reason. Do skin color turn you off?

[throwit]

No skin color does not turn me off personally. And I don't think its racist if it does. Its like being attracted to a certain hair color, there's no real reason its just a preference. BUT most people tend to sick to their own race. That's just how it is, there doesn't need to be a reason.

[Anonymous]

This is oh so hilarious but also sad

[Anonymous]

In general? Where to begin...