Girls will you lose interest in your crush if he hides his feelings from you?

[Anonymous]

This girl and me are like childhood friends. She lives near to my cousin home. Whenever i get holidays i will go there we guys will play around. Fast forward, now am 19 years old and she is 18. This time i got some weeks holidays and i visited my cousin home. As usual i saw her again. During childhood I had a little crush on her, I think she had too. But we never worked on it. But now i feel like there is something flying in the air between us. She started to show some interest in me all of sudden. I was excited and at the same time confused. I catch her eyes staring at me often, but once our eyes meet she pretends to look like she doesn't see me at all. Whether we take a photo or plan to watch a movie she tries her best to be close with me always. Many times when i tease her casually, She gets giggled and tickles me a lot in my hands, arms, face. I felt that our long time crush is finally blooming into something else. Now the time comes for me to leave from our cousin house. I felt really bad coz am gonna miss her. I can also see her getting really moody and upset on that day. She gave her number and asked me to text her which i agreed. I texted her few days later once i reached home and she responded back. We texted for like hours back and forth and it continued for about one week. Later she had exams so i planned not to disturb her anymore. I texted her after one month it was not same like that. Suddenly she stopped replying to one my texts. I thought may be she was busy. But she didn't replied me even after four days. I felt really bad and lots of questions starts to pop in my mind. I even thought that may she lost in interest in me. I never texted her there after though am dying to do it so. Girls will you lose interest in your crush once you guys gets distant, i mean not seeing each other for about 3 months. Do you feel she lost interest in me? If so pls help me to come out of this situation. Helpful answers are welcomed :)

[Anonymous]

I would have told her you were going to give her some space so she could focus on her exams. If it were me I would have thought you dropped me and moved on. And yes hiding your feelings can sometimes ruin everything. Honesty is the best quality. My bf of 4.5 years still has this problem and I know in most cases, he isn't a girl and doesn't need to express it and will figure it out on his own. FORGET texting her and CALL her!!! If there is no answer leave a voicemail saying "please call me back I really need to talk to you" if you sound even slightly vulnerable she should call you. Women love a guy who is vulnerable and sensitive so keep that in mind. I hope this helps you :)

[Zephyrinthesky]

I don't know if she lost interest so I would text her and send a casual hello. Maybe add something cute like "thinking of you". If she doesn't reply make sure you still have the right number, or ask your cousin if he/she knows if she's involved with someone. If she doesn't reply after sending a sincere text let it go, there will be others ;)

[lovestuck0]

Yes if you hide your feelings the other person drifts away from you like there were no feelings but it might not be like that in this situation. Hope I helped

[Keyspirits]

But sum guys dont like expressing their feelings cuz it makes them embarrassed and feeling awkward :/

[lovestuck0]

Be confident because it really doesn't matter if situations fail. If you do nothing about feelings towards people you loose them but if you do or say something about your feelings then you may or may not fail. So loose loose possibly win situation

[Keyspirits]

So actions alone isn't enough huh i see..

[lovestuck0]

You obviously you see wrong. Actions are enough

[Asker]

Do you think i still ve chance left. because last time saw her was about 3 months ago.

[lovestuck0]

Yes you do

[Asker]

Thanks. :)
I"ll make a call and tell her soon.

[Keyspirits]

U stopped texting her for like a month without telling her the reason why? I guess u ignored her message so she thought ur not interested in her anymore. U shouldve done so from da beginning.

[Asker]

No it's nt like dat. she knows the reason why i didn't text her. i just given her some space to study for her exams. but now she is not texting me like the way she does in the beginning. This is what bugging me. Infact she is one who texts me first that time. Now things are just reversed.:-(

[Keyspirits]

But u did say exactly dat ur gonna give her 1 whole month to study without u disturbing her with any msgs?

[Asker]

Yes. i should have told that. But now nothing can't be changed. Better i should make a call and check out what's really happening. Anyway thanks Man. :)

[Keyspirits]

Yeah.. best thing to do is hit her up again and make things clear what really happen. Juz hope dat she will understand the situation and open up one more time. Good luck!

[Anonymous]

Text her again if you haven't already, don't just to conclusions off one text. Or better yet, phone her!

[Falling4UTC]

I never lose interest if I like him a lot, I just get addicted to them. After months I finally stop being a wimp and tell him (which some girls never tell their crush) And usually get rejected. My newest crush is a close friend though and he seems really interested because he always keeps messaging me if I dont reply and we joke a lot. I am desired by a lot of people (about 6 that I know of atm) so its not like I am just not that type of girl. I just hang on to my crushes and get addicted though

[blasiankiDD]

yeah , honestly because if u honestly like this girl tell her why hide it? i know sometimes guys are shy but dont be too shy because she might lose interest in you.. if u guys are just talking bring up that its kinda hard to express ur feelings u might just be in for a Surprise cause she might feel the same..

[Asker]

Yeah. Am dat shy guy. Loving someone from the heart yet don't ve the courage to tell her. Afraid of losing her as a good friend and ruining all good things. What if she doesn't feel the same way now? coz am nt in contact for about one month.