Why women can't stand womanizers aka players when its women themselves that created them?

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Women created womanizers. A womanizer in my opinion , are guys who know that they are more in demand and they take advantage of their situation. They know that their looks money, and status keeps women flocking to them and they know that since there's a lot of guys out there that don't meet women's strict dating criteria, and they do, so its hard for them not to take advantage of the power that women gave them and how women make dating so easy for them. We live in a shallow, money hungry world and as long as the world is like that, womanizers will always be very successful. Sure a being a womanizer may screw up a guys chances of being in and maintaining a relationship, but I'm pretty sure its better than being one of those guys that can't get a date, sex, and/or get into a relationship to save their life.

SparklingFirefly · Accepted Answer

You can't FORCE someone to feel something they do not feel. You can't force yourself to be attracted to someone physically. Physical attraction is extremely important. There is someone for everybody but just expecting women to flock to someone completely disregarding whether or not they are attracted to them is ridiculous. Advantages in physical appearance happens in pretty much every animal species. There are evolutionary reasons for why we find certain character traits attractive, just like in any other species. Are you gonna hold an intervention and blame a lioness for getting horny when some strapping and nice looking male lion asserts his power? No, cause that's fucking ridiculous. It's just life. And sad men who don't get many dates just hold bitterness towards women for that and it just makes them look more pathetic.

Yes men who get a lot of attention are often womanizers. Woop dee doo. You're a genius for figuring that out. Yes it might take some women a few tries to see patterns with that kind of man. But sorry to burst your bubble, there are plenty of women out there who are in happy relationships with attractive, nice and smart guys who do know how to keep it in their pants. Whether you're a combination of attractive and womanizing or attractive and loyal, you're gonna get dates. That's life. Don't have a bitter pity party about how women "created" womanizers. Some men AND women fuck around when they're being smothered in attention. It's just life.

But guys who claim "good guys" never get the girl need to have a reality check. Attractive good guys are getting plenty of action. Average looking good guys are getting action too, and I tend to date the average ones with personality. If a dude's not getting dates, it's because there is something about him that is undesirable. Figure out what it is and how you can maybe improve your social skills, for example. No more blame game because plenty of people out there can get dates. Don't fall into self pity.

Diveintheocean · Accepted Answer

I believe it's rude to put "women" as fault for why men do what they do. I don't believe women made womanizers society made womanizer the media and film industry made womanizers and they are disgraceful. Tv built up the ideas that we want a guy like that and in actually we never said we wanted a guy who slept around on us with others girls we never said we needed a guy who had little consideration for a woman's feelings. That's like me saying all men ain't shit. I'm not going to say that because of a few ain't shit men. And just because there is a few ain't shit women doesn't mean we all created this womanizer shit Men become womanizers based on experiences with ain't shit women just like how women become bitter and build up blocks around our emotions because they have bad experiences with ain't shit men. Womanizers are fucking evil because they care nothing about the woman. Good or bad they use them up. And they are secretive if you wanna be a womanizer then tell us straight up so we can decide if we wanna fuck with ya.

thunderpuff23 · Accepted Answer

Because I'm not responsible for the mistakes of a few. Maybe some women like those player types. I don't. I don't buy all this Hollywood hype that a bad boy is just waiting for the perfect woman to change him into a doting husband who offers to take out the recycling every week. If someone wants to change or improve himself, all the power to him. But I'm not going to force someone to turn into something they're not just to satisfy the storybook ending the media's selling. And I'm certainly not going to wait around while he makes up his mind.
Players/womanizers seem so immature. Let them have their adoring fan clubs if that's what they want. As for me, I'll take an intelligent, kind, ambitious gentleman over a player any day.

Dcosse · Accepted Answer

I agree totally. Personally, if I see that a guy has a lot of women fawning over him and he's just basking in the glory, I get turned off. I don't want a man who needs women to praise him in order to feel attractive. Personally, women hate these types of guys because they are known to play with someone's heart, but there comes a time when some of the blame should be put on the women that choose and go after these Hollywood, bad boy, player types. Women constantly complain about guy's breaking their heart, when some go after guys who are known players and attempt to change a guy into something he isn't.

jesseray · Accepted Answer

I think that people who place the majority of the blame on women are in the wrong. Likewise, I think that people who place the majority of the blame on men are in the wrong. Truth be told, man-sluts and woman-sluts are like soil and trees: soils become trees and trees become soils and soils become trees in a cycle of mutual creation.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Women and girls are hypocrites its that simple. They say looks, income., penis size etc doesn't matter to them but the reality is it does a lot. Now watch all the down votes by the females on here and all of them telling me I'm wrong.

CommieDearest · Answer

The only woman who creates a womanizer is the mother who raised an asshole. Yeah those dudes have a better shot... at women who are also assholes. I say, let them be together, keep the good ones free for the good ones.

Mesonfielde · Answer

While it might be true that there is a certain supply and demand element to it, the real question is, why would you even care? Are you jealous that these people get more sexual action? In that case, it makes me wonder - do you think such shallow, money hungry and superficial people are worth dating? This scenario wouldn't really bug me much, because I am not interested in such people to begin with.

RedSnowBunny · Answer

Right, similar to how forks are responsible for making people fat?

Nightingale · Answer

Most women like to sneer at guys like that in public, but things are completely different when in private. You are paying way too much attention to what women say. Ignore EVERYTHING a woman says she wants.

Listen to what they DO.

Anonymous · Answer

Ok everyone chill. I still love I still love I still love. Yes some people will love you and support you when it's beneficial... So I pop pills for em. Don't be angry.

redshirt202 · Answer

Lol, the only thing that makes a man into a womanizer is the man's own choices.

decemberxblue · Answer

From a learning/conditioning standpoint, you are exactly right.  Behavior is perpetuated by punishment and/or rewards.

dwiller943 · Answer

Okay. But the ones who didn't create nor ask for those type of guys are forced to have to have them take it out on us.

Cleveland · Answer

I didn't contribute so I don't care for them! I have player radar:-)

Anonymous · Answer

you moron! stop trying to find an excuse to justify yourself as a fucking womanizer

Anonymous · Answer

I have to confess that I would be a player if I could be one, not because women created me to think this way, I would just get a thrill out of leading someone on, pumping them and then dumping them. I'm such a naughty boy. *giggles*

Asianguy123 · Answer

because all women are prostitutes and all men are womanizers. they both will take advantage of their situation using sex

shacodraco · Answer

My thoughts? Stop whining.

still_waiting · Answer

Um okay and men created sluts.

Anonymous · Answer

Are you sad :(?

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