Pushing breasts up against guys for flirting?

[ArielAngel427]

Girls, how many of you like to gently push your breasts up against like a guy's arm when standing real close to him as a way of flirting, boyfriend or otherwise? I enjoy doing this to guys I'm really interested in but sometimes it just doesn't seem like they get it.

Guys, if a girl gently pushes her breasts up against your arm while standing really close, do you notice it? Do you pick up on it as a major sign of flirting or do you just feel awkward and pretend not to notice?

[jesseray]

I feel awkward and pretend not to notice. It's one of those things where I never know how the girl is wanting me to react. If I don't react, then they could think that I have a weak sex drive or they are unattractive to me, and if I do react, then I am a pervert (if not to her, then to anyone who is nearby). It's one of those "damned if you do, damned if you don't" situations. In any event, I'm not a fan of girls trying to seduce me by shoving their sexuality into my face.

[stevie123]

Yes we notice it immediately, as we are keenly aware of boobs. We may ignore it at first a an 'accident"
unless it happens again. Guys are not good at picking up on subtle hints. If you are boobing him as a way to flirt, you have to look him in the eye as you do it. That way he knows that you know what you are doing, it's not an accident and you like it and want more. A little sultry look or licking of your lips will seal the deal. He's yours.

[MaskofInsanity]

I do it to my boyfriend, because he's ridiculously easy to arouse and thats always fun :)

[linds34]

I've done it, some guys respond and some don't, same as anything.

[Peter0]

It can be really fucking awkward.

Imagine if it was some guy you didn't know well, and were friendly with... but not that way. And he was pressing his chest up against you without asking or anything. You'd be all "Creeeeeeeepy!"

It CAN be really hot and fun flirting, but it's really heavy flirting. You'd best make damn well sure he's okay with it before you go there.

[the_champ]

I have had it happen a handful of times but it was always in situations where it seemed innocent at first but then I notice they didn't move. And the last two times where at work with this one girl who had a boyfriend.. so that just kinda played with my head more than anything.

[front2back]

Pretty sure every woman does something similar to this. I've had the boob touches, the butt touches and the "I'm going to lean over so you can see down my shirt" kind of flirting go on.

It's pretty easy to notice and I totally notice it, but I'll usually be quick to dismiss it as accidental. Sometimes I'm right, sometimes I'm wrong.

[Anonymous]

This happened to me one time and I went bananas. Good thing I have a poker face. Question for you. How protective are you of you boobs? Would you be extra careful to not let this happen to a guy you did not like? It was a cramped space so maybe it was just an accident right?

[ArielAngel427]

I'm fairly protective of my boobs around strangers. Obviously in cramped spaces it sometimes can't be avoided, but in an otherwise normal situation I think it's a pretty big and direct sign of interest for a girl to display. Or do guys just think it's just an accident?

[Ghosty]

For sure I notice it, I won't move away ;) That firstly needs her to stand very close to me, so we'd probably be flirting already, I'd just pick it up as a very major&direct sign of interest. It's not as subtle as you think (at least for me it isn't). But depends on the circumstances haha, if she like moves past me and there really was no space and she touches me slightly, I won't think about it. But as I said, when the setting is right.

[geri3ttc]

I would notice but and consider a major sign of flirting only if she holds it there or does it repeatedly otherwise it could be just an innocent brush.

[JustinX]

damn i would really be rock hard... if a girl that i'm attracted to do that to me... cool... she have to look at my eyes with a innocent or seductive look so i will know that she pushing her bosom on purpose

[dominiquois]

That's WAY past flirting, that's just plain suggestive/seductive.
Flirting is supposed to be light and fun.

[pulseofthemaggot]

That's not flirting that's sexual contact
When I flirt all I do is use words

[dominiquois]

Same. Sometimes even just a smile.

[jointhepatriarchy]

I don't know. How would you feel if I gently brushed my penis up against you when standing real close to you as a way of flirting?

[wankiam]

i love it when a girl does this, espescially small breasted girls

[rjroy3]

I notice and I recognize it as flirting. Very rarely is that actually an accident

[TadCurious]

I love it. And yes we can feel the breasts when girls do that. It's very sexy.

[Anonymous]

I absolutely LOVE that move! Gets me every time. Especially effective for a girl with nice, big breasts. It looks like it'd work REALLY well for you, QA!

[Anonymous]

When Phoebe pushed her breasts up against Joey after she watched his scene in that show... it was just to make him feel good about himself, even though she hated the scene...

[Anonymous]

I would be offended by it, to be honest. It's a sign that she's trying to play mind games with me.

[femmeme]

That's not flirting, that's initiating sex.

[AMilano]

Wouldn't that still insinuate that she's in to him, regardless of what they want to do with it?

[dominiquois]

No. You can't actually tell somebody wants you when they're flirting with you. The other one leaves room for no doubts.

[goodgirlssuck]

Of course i notice. :) It's hard to not notice