Why do females seem to get weirded out so easily?

[DaCrownlessKing]

I know this doesn't apply to all girls but it seems like females get weirded out waaay to easily. Like as soon as you step out of social norms, they are like nope lol you are a weirdo. The girls that have been "weird" around me only do it when they really know you well. Guys seem to embrace the fun of being weird more often than girls do, why is that?

[In-sight-ful]

I think its a natural adaptation thing. Girls are a lot more judgey than guys so when you walk into a room full of girls since you are instantly being judged and scrutinized you need to fit within a certain social norm to be accepted. Guys just don't care as much... which is why I choose to hang out with guys.

[Hipfrog]

Lots of girls -and guys to- have weird high impossible to meet expectations of themselves and of others. Me, I like weird. Not creepy weird, but fun weird. We have to learn to give each other the space to be ourselves and not be so judgey judgey all the time

[StickStickity13]

There are lots of women who appreciate different guys. But you have a point many are way too preoccupied with fitting in

[KittyCakes22]

not me. I like being different, but then again i grew up in england

[DaCrownlessKing]

I did say that it doesn't apply to all. My question is why does it seem like most girls are afraid of stepping out of expected societal norms

[KittyCakes22]

Because over in america, you have to look and act a certain way to be accepted. The media has took over more than we could ever imagine.

In england, people are more "weird" and quirky because its down to earth there, and the vibe is to be yourself and not give a shit. Where I live girls dress the exact same, and Its hard for me to make girl friends here because a lot of them can't just chill out for a second and be themselves, say what they feel, etc.

That's basically my answer in a longer form.

[KittyCakes22]

I live in the USA now, just to clarify.

[DaCrownlessKing]

Thanks for the clarification. I wish people could just be themselves and not judge others who want to step out of the norm

[KittyCakes22]

Me too, I feel that everyday.. everything would be better if no one had to live in fear of judgment. Moving here in highschool, I was so shocked by that, that I developed social anxiety (although its internal, not an obvious thing).

[Anonymous]

It's probably just American girls

[KittyCakes22]

It is, you'd have to visit other countries to really see that though.