Do I intimidate girls?

[Anonymous]

I have a face like george Clooney, brains like albert einstein, dress style like James Bond, voice like josh turners & body Like Cristiano ronaldo, manners like a gentleman, and expressive words like a scholar. I love to hug people & smile a lot.

I know girl's like me but I feel like sometimes they don't want to talk to me, avoid me, or even think i'm crazy when I talk. what does everyone think?

Please I'm not trying to be pompus & say I'm perfect because it's not true. But do girls think I'm intimidating? do they think I'm crazy? or both?

[junikey]

Perhaps to girls you are intimidating. But WOMEN may like you. It all depends on her ideal man though.

Some women aren't necessarily into that, I like feminine guys, It's just a personal preference--but then again, I'm bi so I find it attractive when I see someone who resembles both female and male characteristics.

I doubt women would think you are crazy, or pompous, but then again I don't know you in person. No matter what, even if you do intimidate women, I'm sure there are PLENTY of women who like "intimidating" guys. They would consider it an awesome challenge.

[twigsducks]

you say you are not trying to sound pompous but unfortunately you end up sounding like it anyway. if you think this highly of yourself, you're crossing over from the sexy territory of self-confidence into what seems like a total lack of humility and self-awareness, which is not attractive. if girls don't want to talk to you, it's probably not because they are intimidated by you, because most girls would probably jump at the chance of having an attractive and intelligent guy showing an interest in them.

[kangy]

I dont think they would think you are crazy unless u act violent.
Yes you may come off as intimidating and thus they might think it is hard to come near to you, they probably would think you wouldn't give them a time of the day.

[Asker]

yes I agree. I actually was reading "how to know if a guy doesn't like you" and I realized that I am way too flirty with everyone & I'm too sociable so from a girl's or guy's perspective there is no way anyone would know if I liked a girl in specific cause I talk to everyone equally. even though 1 or 2 girls make my knees weak. but I don't know what to do because that's who i am. any advice?

[kangy]

I believe people change and won't remain the same as they are always, so which mean you can change too. Maybe you have to observe the way you behave, I dont see why there is a need to flirt with everybody when we can chat with the person normally.

[Asker]

the reason I say flirt is because smiling at girls is considered flirting. I smile around everyone so people think I flirt with everyone.

[kangy]

That is nor flirt.. duhz...

[Anonymous]

If your face resembles a 53-year-old male's, then yes, you're intimidating (and scaring) girls.

[parkway]

You sound fake. Never should you be like anyone. God did not make you like anyone, he made you a one of a kind, a peice of work in your own right. Do you truly know what a gentleman is?

You say you speak words like a scholar, are you sure? To boast this claim, have you traveled enough to pull off being a scholar. You may have a way to go and it may be to your best intrest to learn abut the ego.

[soriana1022]

Can be due to intimidation but most likely they are thinking you're taken.

[Asker]

I'm assuming a promise ring on my wedding finger doesn't help. everyone always asks if I'm married. and when I dress I look like I'm 28 when I'm really 19.

[soriana1022]

You've answered you're own question. :)

[Asker]

:/ hahaha sometime's einstein had stupid moments too.. hahahaha but is there anything besides not wearing the ring & etc that I can do? dress less fancy?

[soriana1022]

Dressing in a casual way wouldn't hurt. :) Good Luck!

[Asker]

thank you! appreciate the love from everyone!

[soriana1022]

You're welcome.

[Anonymous]

seeing is believing bruh...

[Asker]

please, what do you think? I don't care about proving myself right. assume I'm right, what do you think?

[Opinion Owner]

then it could just be what we guys assume about hot girls... that you are taken and you are probably trying to cheat on your girl and they won't allow themselves to get between that. (and if you wanna give us all that above... you forgot "dick like mandingo" you might as well just finish the picture right?)

[Asker]

hahaha to be honest i'm not super large. Girls say I am but it's not the size it's what you can do with it. I'm telling you that I'm not saying this to be pompus, I'm saying it because I really need help. like yeah I know girls like me but sometimes I feel like after looking at me they avoid me, or try to not talk to me

[Opinion Owner]

And I don't believe you are being pompous.. I on the other hand was trying to be a jackass... but I did answer your question though... they believe you are taken or that you are probably too self-absorbed to commit to them. you know (stick up the ass).. loosen up a bit... try a tshirt and jeans... let the hair get out of place (don't drive your aston martin lol had to add that cuz of the bond comment) they will think you are an average good looking guy and maybe talk to you.. or at least respond when you approach.

[Asker]

ding ding ding ding ding ding! we have a winner! the survey says drop the dress & hair. hahaha thank you man! haha well I don't know if you're just messing with me cause I get hate also. I appreciate the love though man! hahahahah I appreciate the sense of humor. TBH I don't have money much at all.

[Opinion Owner]

Im as real as the come... I only posted as anonymous so my "jackassedness" wasn't connected to me. I appreciate the recognition too and YES I was just having my fun too since you started it. I told you real stuff and still had my fun. btw... at James bond and Josh turner... I started to get iffy...

[Asker]

hahahah no worries... like I can be a super jackass. to be honest I was reading an article and I realized that it's also cause I'm a flirt with everyone and am too social. so like literally I looked at myself from a girl's perspective and there is no way anyone can tell who I like. I know everyone's Iffy on it that's why i didn't post any pictures or anything. cause I don't want people to tell me their fakes.

[Opinion Owner]

so we agree then... Hey, I've been told Im a mix between Usher and black Michael Jackson... and I don't see it.. when I look in a mirror... i see Shrek.. I can tell you can be a jackass... i can smell the sarcasm from here... especially after your first comment... but Im glad you didn't react to me being a jackass.. this could have been way longer.

[Asker]

hahahahahahahahahahahaha not at all. I don't get angry for ridiculous things. if you're going to figh fight for things that matter. freedom & love.

[Opinion Owner]

coolio

[Anonymous]

Pics or it isn't true

[MyCatHatesMee]

Ooooooohhh kaaaaaay

[Asker]

so is that a yes. pleaseee help.