She blocked me on whatsapp for NO REASON! What happened?

[Anonymous]

So this girl who I have known for a month now suddenly blocked me on whatsapp yesterday. We met online 2 months ago, I gave her my number and she got in touch with me after almost a month. We got to talking and met over drinks. It was nice and we both enjoyed our time together. After that she's been calling me every now and then to just say hi and see how I am doing. I asked her out on a second date couple of times but due to other plans she requested me to postpone it for some other time. She just called me yesterday and we chatted for few minutes. Reception of her cell was bad so the call got disconnected. I called her back after about half an hour and she was on the other line. So called back again after a couple of hours and she was still on the other line. I dropped in a whatsapp message to her stating 'I called but your phone is busy' which never got delivered to her. I called again today in the evening and she cut my call. I dropped in a message on whatsapp again and that message has not been delivered either. I'm not able to see her status or her display picture. I don't understand what happened here. She called me her side just yesterday and absolutely NOTHING has happened between us (arguments etc.) for her to be behaving this way. She still hasn't deleted me from Facebook though. Any idea what is going on?

[Mostafa24]

Actually dude sometimes girls want to make sure how far your commitment is, especially those who have been heartbroken, so they reject every guy who asks them out, and regarding their psychological issues they will get you off their lives if you don't have that level of commitment, bcoz they don't want to be hurt any more, simply they are scared to start a relationship with the wrong guy,
so my advice here my friend if you really like the girl don't stop and don't quit except if she turned into another guy.

[DoriantheArtisan]

happened to me as well recently. some people online are just... you know she might have met someone better in her eyes. online daters jump from one person to the next in a heartbeat. just move on and if she calls you don't brush aside her weird behaviour. i have standards, if you fuck me over just leave me the fuck alone. would u seriously want to date someone who acts this weird?

[Asker]

You're right. I would not want to date someone like her at all. Even if she calls back, I'll ask her to take a hike. I think she might have a bf and he might have found out about me or maybe she is fucked in the head and is into playing power play games.

[DoriantheArtisan]

exactly. listen to rick james and get back in the saddle;-)

[Isra48]

So what happen with her? Going through something similar

[Isra48]

So what happen with tha Girl? Going through something similar

[Aleys]

Maybe she's Ina place with really bad reception? That's why the call quality was bad and her WhatsApp isn't working right and she cannot answer your calls. Stay calm and see what happens.

[Asker]

What you are saying could be true but its a long shot for everything like that to happen altogether. Worst case scenario would be that she has lost her phone or something but I highly doubt that. This just sucks. If you chase a girl, you are labelled as desperate. If you give her space and act normal, she blocks you for no reason whatsoever. Strange!

[Debara]

Think positive: her phone had broken.
Think negative: she have to block you for some reason.

[Asker]

Her phone can not be broken because I called her today and she cut my call. I figured she would call me back since she must be busy at work but she never did.

I am really curious to know that reason because its sure as hell doesn't have anything to do with me.

[Debara]

I would suggest you to let's her go and find new girl then. She may already have bf and her bf found out about you. So she decided to blocked you.

[Asker]

This could be the reason. Now that you mention it, I'm pretty sure that's what it is. Why do people play these games? Its stupid and so immature. Letting her go and moving on I guess.

Do you think she is into powerplay? I block you, you desperately try to get in touch with me, I unblock you and talk to you after a couple of weeks.

[Debara]

She have some problem in her relationship. In the mean time she need someone to talk with and you was there. Guy also did it. I'm sorry for you. Don't waste your time just move on.

[Asker]

Ok so she just sent me an SMS (not whatsapp) saying "hey sorry.. crazy long day". That's it! After all the blocking on whatsapp and cutting my calls and not calling back, that's all she has to say? Weird!

[Debara]

If I were you I will move on and keep her as an option! If I like someone I would wanna chat with him whole day. And never ignore him if he doesn't make me angry.

[Asker]

Ya I agree. So I haven't replied yet and I don't think I will reply either. If she calls me tomorrow, I'm ignoring her calls. I don't need such weird shit going on in my life. Got enough problems at work as it is.

[Debara]

That is a negative idea. What if she changed new phone and it low tech. Let's her explain what happen why she block you. She gonna be your option. Why should you ignore her. lol

[Asker]

she is one of my options but I don't see her bringing up the topic of her blocking me on whatsapp the next time we talk. And that's something that's really bothering me. That and the fact that it'll almost be a month now and she won't fix a second date although she keeps calling to talk.

[Debara]

Well, Enjoy your new date with new girl and good luck then ;)

[Anonymous]

https://youtu.be/-WvAzMpYHQ8

She frickin blocked you

[Asker]

Haha.. bestiality p*rn . Funny! Why do girls do this? It doesn't make any sense at all.

[Opinion Owner]

Honestly? Usually it's because either an ex is back in the picture, she just has mixed feelings or has suddenly decided she's not wanting to date or get attached to somebody.

[Asker]

I think that may be the case. Ex or her current bf has found out. However, if she has decided that she doesn't want to get attached to somebody then she should have some amount of decency to inform the person who you know is supposedly "interested" in you. No?

[Opinion Owner]

If current bf found out, that would explain the super long phone call followed by diverting your calls. And yea, girls should do that and just tell a guy, and some will do that, but some have zero manners and will just randomly start ignoring the guy out of the blue. She's just rude really, that's all. Don't take it to heart, people with no manners are usually like that to everybody.

[Asker]

Ya I agree she's rude. She just sent me an SMS (not whatsapp) saying "hey sorry.. crazy long day". That's it! After all the blocking on whatsapp and cutting my calls and not calling back, that's all she has to say? Don't you think that's a bit weird? Its common manners to call someone back when you have cut their call. weird shit I tell ya!

[Opinion Owner]

She could of genuinely had a crazy day. I remember a bad day I had once that was just crazy and I put my WhatsApp offline and was diverting peoples calls apart from family members who were involved or needed to be involved in what was going on.
You never know, she could be telling the truth, fucked up things happen sometimes. The next few days will let you know what's up though. Just see how she acts over the next few days and if you get unblocked and she calls you and stuff.

[Asker]

Hmmm. Well what if she does call. Do you think I should bring up the topic of her blocking me or I should ignore it? Another thing that's bothering me is its almost going to be a month now since we first met and she hasn't taken any concrete steps to meet. She keeps calling to talk but that's about it. And we live like 15 minutes away from each other. I always figured that if a girl likes you and wants to meet she will always find time no matter how just she is. If not, she will always find excuses.

[Opinion Owner]

Definitely bring it up. The thing with not meeting you despite living so close, points back to her having a boyfriend though. The only times I've seen girls do that is when they're just not 100% happy with their man and just need a guy to speak to sometimes or get that little boost from that they don't get from their man. They just drag it on and on, I've even known of guys being dragged on and on for literal years.

[Asker]

I don't want to be dragged on. Maybe she does have a bf or she is meeting some other guys as well. Not sure what it is. She did tell me once that the reason why she is single is because she doesn't have time to give to a guy because she is busy with work and hanging out with her friends. But whatever it is, it's not healthy. I'm a very straightforward person so such mindless games annoy the crap out of me. I don't know whether I should pursue this further or not. I will definitely bring up the topic of her blocking me on what app the next time we talk but that's about it.

[Opinion Owner]

Yea don't jump to conclusions really, just saying it could be a possibility. Try and get her to meet up though, she's basically down the road and it's been two months, she should be ready to meet now or very soon.

[Asker]

Ya so I'll wait for her to initiate contact and then tell her that we should really meet up because this phone conversations are getting pointless and it's almost been a month. If she says no or postpones it then I'll leave it at that and move on from her.

[dE_logics]

She's talking to her BF.

She's just using you for emotional support while her BF fucks her for no reason and she's having multiple orgasms.

I got this form another girl. She suddenly stopped receiving my calls. After 3 attempts I never called her back. And yes, she did have a BF.

Till date she sticks to me all the time. I don't give a damn about her.

[Asker]

Maybe you are right. Although when I met her she told me she's single. But ya she could be lying as well so don't know. I've tried getting in touch with her enough today and I don't think I will from tomorrow. I was just curious why she would do such random act without any reason. I guess what you are saying could be one of the reasons.

[NateInAk]

You sound desperate bro. Give her some space, maybe text her, I wouldn't recommend calling her again just yet, you may have been doing something that annoyed her. Did she maybe just delete her account? Or are you sure you're actually blocked from it?

[Asker]

Trust me man. I have not been acting desperate at all. I don't even call her from my side. Maybe once a week to see how she is. She is the one who has been calling me. I did ask her for a second date couple of times and she wanted to postpone so I left it at that. Figured she would let me know when and if she wants to hang out. I don't think she deleted her whatsapp account. I actually don't know how to find out what happens when a contact deletes their whatsapp account. I'm pretty sure I'm blocked. I can't see her display picture, I can't see when she's online and I can't see her status message. Her behavior is very weird and surprising!

[NateInAk]

Maybe she's got some shit going on in her life. Play it cool, when was the last time y'all talked?

[Asker]

Just yesterday. As I have mentioned, she called me yesterday evening after getting off from work to see how I was doing and how my weekend was. And today its this.

[NateInAk]

Wait a couple of days, call her, ask her how she's doing, ask her on another date. That's all I got man.

[Asker]

For that to happen she has answer my call right? I called her today and she cut my call and she hasn't called me back. Anyway.. thanks for taking the time out to reply. Appreciate it.

[AustinMan]

I didn't read the whole LONG post. Didn't need to. Move on. She sent you a message. Get on with things.

[Asker]

Get on with things meaning give her benefit of the doubt and talk to her and ignore the random blocking on whatsapp? Or forget about her and move on?

[AustinMan]

What part of move on isn't clear. Leave he in the dust as you take up with your new and much better gf.

[Bear_of_Death]

There is no such thing as "No Reason". You may not know it, she may not want to share it, but there is a reason.

[Asker]

Man I'm serious. Absolutely NOTHING happened. I can't think of anything. She just called me yesterday from her side to talk and today she won't even answer my calls. If there is a reason, its definitely not because of something that I did or did not do. I have just been playing cool with her and not trying too hard to chase her. Maybe that's the reason? That's all I can think of. Don't know!

[Bear_of_Death]

Never claimed you weren't serious. Just tired of people thinking "no reason" is a thing.

[LastGirlScout]

Are you sure she doesn't have a boyfriend?

[Asker]

I wouldn't know. I've only met her once and from what she told me, she's single. Maybe she does but there is no way for me to find out. Even her Facebook account is pretty normal with no pictures of bf or anything.

[LastGirlScout]

How many friends does she have? Is it. Normal Facebook profile or a little suspect, check out her friends list and posts. Also, why don't you just message her on there and ask her why she blocked you? Would answer your question probably

[Asker]

Well I can't see her friends list on Facebook. Her profile looks pretty normal. She's uploaded pictures of her hanging out with her girlfriends and few guy friends. And just sometime back I was able to see her whatsapp status message so I think she has unblocked me there but I'm not initiating any contact as of now. Damn these mind games. Whether she is doing all this to test me or whether she has a bf, I just don't know.

[LastGirlScout]

I'd leave it personally, I don't have time for stupid games.

[Asker]

So she just called me and apologised for yesterday. She said this is thee event month and she was really busy at work due to that. According to her since she was running around for events her phone was kept on the desk and she didn't want other people to check her messages. I don't really buy that but anyway. next 2 weeks are event weeks for her work and she said she'll be really busy but she asked me if we could go for breakfast in the morning since she won't be able to meet in the evenings at least on weeknights and she does want to see me. I said I'll let her know since Im not too keen on breakfast. What do you think I should do? Is she asking me because she genuinely wants to see me or is she trying to friendzone me?

[LastGirlScout]

I don't believe in the friendzone, why not go and see what she's like. I don't think she'd be so keen to meet you at an odd time of she didn't like you. Of she does just want a friend then that's how it is and at least you know then.

[DoriantheArtisan]

while this is all fine and well, it seems to be an action that bothered you. if there is doubt, trust you intuition. Just by the way you describe the whole thing I am not particularly fond of that persons behavior block/unblock, lame excuses. I don't know... sounds like someone who talks bs. I don't want to hear that she is busy stuff. people are always busy, doesn't mean you let conversations die like that for no reasons. It sounds more like she might have a few hookups or dates in between and they might not have turned out that well,, when u were blocked u couldn't see her online activity, she might have been on whatsapp all the time. evenings are bad for her... i don't know either but usually i wouldn't bother with people that give me a strange vibe. don't listen to my conspiratorial shit. if you feel good with her give it a go.

[Asker]

I'm not sure what needs to be done here. I also think it will be a little awkward for me to initiate something (kiss etc.) after the breakfast is done. I mean it'll just be weird during morning time. Evening after drinks or dinner is fine and much more easier than breakfast.

[LastGirlScout]

A kiss on the cheek is good for any time and will give you a good indication of what's going on. If she looks super worried then she probably thought it was just a friend's thing, I don't know, I may have a vagina but I honestly don't have a clue about women and dating having never been a woman that dates. Sorry!

[Asker]

Haha. You more than make up for your lack of dating experiences with your witty humor. kiss on the cheek sounds alright I guess. She did tell me that after ae so breakfast, we can go for brunch on Saturday or hang out in The evening. Ill think about breakfast thing and see what needs to be done.

[LastGirlScout]

I try :)

I didn't really do dating because I'm far too blunt and direct in my relationships, if I liked you enough to go on a date with you it would be because I liked you and wanted to see how things progressed. Be that into more dates or possibly into an exclusive relationship. If she's up for meeting at other times then don't feel like you have to get a kiss in at all, just concentrate on having a great time with her and leaving her with a happy, upbeat feeling for the rest of the day. Let the idea of you kissing her brew in her mind for a while... Play it cool :)

[Asker]

If only more women were as blunt and honest as you I wouldn't be here posting these messages. What you said sounds interesting. I just don't want to get stuck in friendszone that's why I wanted to initiated quickly. But what you are saying could work too.

[LastGirlScout]

What have you lost if it ends up just being friends? You will have had some pleasant company for a few dates which is better than sitting home alone any day. You'll know after two or three meetings and can cut your losses with minimal heartache.

[ArabianPwincess197]

Ignore her and move on

[Asker]

Yeah.. that's the plan!

[Asker]

Ya I agree she's rude. However, so she just sent me an SMS (not whatsapp) saying "hey sorry.. crazy long day". That's it! After all the blocking on whatsapp and cutting my calls and not calling back, that's all she has to say? Don't you think that's a bit weird? Its common manners to call someone back when you have cut their call.

[ArabianPwincess197]

She seems a little weird

[Anonymous]

Nope, no idea.

[scrap422]

What is that app?