Should I confront a girl about her mind games and aloof attitude?

[MrKabuki]

Ok so there is a girl that has been playing mind games with me to get me to like her. She has been trying to get me jelous and has been acting aloof just to mess with me. She rude a lot too, just to play mind games for attention. When I ignore her, she will crave my attention. I finally asked her out, and she said yes. But the problem is, she is still acting aloof and I'm getting sick of it. Shewont stop the mind games and Its just tedious especially when I KNOW she doing it on purpose. I don't want to be in a relationship with a girl who is only about games. Should I confront her and tell her that I know what she's doing? And that it won't work? she's just going to deny it though. She's so aloof. How do I show her that I'm confident and that her games won't work? I want to just tell her that if she continues I'm going to lose interest. Should I tell her? Or just show her in a way with out telling her? She's telling me she's unavailable and busy. I really don't want to lose this girl, but I want her to stop using mind games to cover her insecurities. Should I be blunt? What do I do?

[Toldol2]

Don't confront her. Just leave her where she is. You are not meant to be together right now. People play those games when they never learned to express their feelings differently and it usually comes from a big lack of self esteem due to childhood... If she knew how how to be upfront she would be it. Unfortunately a lot of people are this way and its not your call to point it out.

[Anonymous]

you should confront her.

[Duryodhan]

Just tell her causally that if she wants to be in a relation with you, she'll have to take you seriously.

[Klaatu51]

dude, i guess i told u already stop chasin her ;)

[MrKabuki]

But won't I lose her? How do I get her to come to me? I kinda don't wanna lose her?

[Klaatu51]

if she was interested she'd chase u back ;)

[MrKabuki]

So, don't confront, just ignore and stop chasing?

[Klaatu51]

yup bro 8)

[MrKabuki]

But how do I bring up the date?

[Klaatu51]

wait till that happens... for now tryignore her :)

[MrKabuki]

Problem is we haven't made plans just yet. I don't even know how I'm gunna do that.

[Anonymous]

Na, just ignore her and get on with your life.