Why girls act defensive around me?

[Anonymous]

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I'm a nice easy going guy who's really friendly with everyone. I try to joke around smile and have fun with friends. Most of my guy friends really like me and enjoy my company and i have also been told that i'm quite attractive or handsome by parents, strangers and other family members. The problem is that i try to be as friendly with girls as with guys but they seem to act really defensive with me keeping me away making me think that they are rejecting me as a potential lover

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while all i just wanted is to be friendly, widen my social circle and have them as just simple friends. Never really meant to even flirt with them. But looks like they take it the wrong way. I even had a girl getting angry and putting up walls while i was just trying to tease her in a funny friendly none threatening way.

[RajeshTheJeshter]

Hmm.. You must be doing something wrong. Are you ugly? Maybe it's just your perception. Maybe you're actually doing really well, and you're a natural, and that's just them playing hard to get.

Have you fucked any of these girls?

[Asker]

No i haven't fucked any of these girls and i have no intention to do it. Why are you asking me if i'm ugly or not? I honestly think i'm better looking than the guys they hang around. But those guys are just their simple friends. And it's not like i want to date them, fuck them or anything. I just want to be friendly. But as i said, they seem to put up walls and i feel kind of disliked. This only started happening to me these two recent years after i got much more confidence in myself because i had lots of girls hit on me and wanting me to approach them. Two years ago, i always had girls compliment me and call me cute. I don't think i got uglier, but quite the contrary. These girls are slowly about to turn me into an aloof and kind of bitter guy who will avoid smiling or talking to other girls just to not have them think i'm hitting on them. It's pissing me off. I will fucking call them sisters next time i smile or try to say something.

[RajeshTheJeshter]

I never heard of anybody becoming more confident because girls just started hitting on him and approaching him out of the blue...

[Asker]

Men and women become more confident as they age. Especially at 20. So it's normal. It's because i now know where i stand and think i know my real value. That's what confidence is, isn't it?

[I_am_repulsive]

You're putting and offensive vibes therefore they have to be defensive

[I_am_repulsive]

an offensive* durr

[Asker]

I just updated the question

[Asker]

offensive? like what? Can you tell me an example?

[I_am_repulsive]

I was just joking bro

[Asker]

So any clue?

[aegis_penguin]

They might not like you as a person. I would suggest surrounding yourself by different women.

[FierceBrosnan]

Well how do you act around girls?

[Asker]

Since it seems like i can't add details in GAG anymore, i wrote them in the update section. help?

[FierceBrosnan]

Ahhhhh I see. So you're a good looking guy that is affable, fun, honest, and open. Sounds like the women around you don't know exactly how to handle that. Which is really on them and nothing wrong with you.

[Anonymous]

you hang around bitches then

[LiveFreeorDieHard]

Haha so simple but so true.

[Opinion Owner]

i mean i understand girls acting defensively when someone is being rude or flirting obnoxiously

but it really shows a side of character if a someone is rude to someone who is being nice

[Asker]

These same girls don't seem to be as defensive with as with other guys or maybe i can see it? anyway, i just updated the question since i can't add details to questions on GAG.

[Opinion Owner]

well girls also treat guys they find more attractive nicer

also another reason you classify them as a bitch

[Asker]

I don't think i'm as ugly as some of the guys they hang around. Definitely lol