OK so yeah I'm 19 atm and really I have no experience with people. All through school I really wasn't as into talking with people that didn't do things I did...all I did was play video games and work out. Recently my friends have been trying to get me to be more socially active with the other gender. I've been told I'm funny but I don't believe that, I assume its just a clever ruse to say that while not laughing. So not really funny. I was raised to hold the door for everyone. To be polite to people as often as possible. Never smoke or drank. I am in pretty good shape, I'm 5'11"" 185 pounds. I never went to the movies with people. never went bowling with people. I've never been to a wedding so I don't even know why those are big deals. I've been to 5 funerals I think...least that's all I can remember atm. (prob more of those) I've been camping with the Boy Scouts a ton though, I got my Eagle scout. I live in the sticks. 20 miles from a city.
I seem to not be the best at the hole flirting thing. by that I mean I stink at it. I don't exactly believe that the word "hot" or "sexy" should be used to describe something. I don't find the use of calling someone "baby" appropriate it seems to me that it would be mildly insulting. Babies are annoying and a hassle. I've had girls ask me out, my normal responds is sure I guess. And within the week they seem to have decided that I'm not worth them wasting their time. Also I tend to try not to lie to people, which from what I've heard from people what they usually end up doing to get dates, I don't find this would be a very good method to do things. I don't like to talk on the phone that much for some reason, not really sure what the deal with that is usually, I think it's that I don't like holding the phone up and there's really no comfortable position to hold it. cause I'll talk all day on a headset on the computer or xbox. When I talk I tend to talk a lot.
Really I think the hole question is what the hell is wrong with me...why is it that girls seem to be repulsed by me. I don't think I have the ability to flirt...is that even possible lol
Excuse the grammar and punctuation I really wasn't to into putting it in there right now. (spellchecker wouldn't work so I'm sorry about that)
I seem to not be the best at the hole flirting thing. by that I mean I stink at it. I don't exactly believe that the word "hot" or "sexy" should be used to describe something. I don't find the use of calling someone "baby" appropriate it seems to me that it would be mildly insulting. Babies are annoying and a hassle. I've had girls ask me out, my normal responds is sure I guess. And within the week they seem to have decided that I'm not worth them wasting their time. Also I tend to try not to lie to people, which from what I've heard from people what they usually end up doing to get dates, I don't find this would be a very good method to do things. I don't like to talk on the phone that much for some reason, not really sure what the deal with that is usually, I think it's that I don't like holding the phone up and there's really no comfortable position to hold it. cause I'll talk all day on a headset on the computer or xbox. When I talk I tend to talk a lot.
Really I think the hole question is what the hell is wrong with me...why is it that girls seem to be repulsed by me. I don't think I have the ability to flirt...is that even possible lol
Excuse the grammar and punctuation I really wasn't to into putting it in there right now. (spellchecker wouldn't work so I'm sorry about that)
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