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I've seen a lot of fairly decent women with guys that aren't that good-looking, but it's rare to see a guy with a really unattractive woman unless they've been together for years and maybe she lost her beauty, or he himself isn't all that attractive or you can clearly see it's just about sex if she has a hot body but not a cute face, or she's just giving it up period.
Do you think it's harder for ugly women to find someone than ugly men?
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Nope. In literally every conceivable way, finding a good mate is harder for men and it’s not even close. All an ugly woman has to do is be traditional. Men go crazy for a kind, respectful woman who can cook. An ugly dude has to be filthy rich or famous. Any woman could be traditional tomorrow with very little effort. Most men have to grind for decades to get the kind of wealth that makes women overlook his ugly.
No woman has ever known the loneliness that the average man feels because of p*ssy power. Even if she can’t lock a guy down, at least she can get laid. Ugly dudes can’t even get a hug to literally save their lives. This is high on the list of reasons that men suicide four times more often than women.
Believe it or not, beautiful women have a hard time finding someone to ask her out more than an unattractive woman.
A beautiful woman 👠 👠 can be very intimidating to some guys/men.
I want to mention a few things.
There's a song that says "If you want to be happy for the rest of your life - don't marry a pretty wife".
Most pretty/beautiful girls don't get asked to the prom.
I've seen unattractive couples who have found each other and are very happy together. They also have money to buy a nice house 🏠 and all that they need. Because they didn't get asked out a lot because they were unattractive and decided to get good grades and go to college which made the way to earn a good size income.
yes I do. On the streets, I see men I don't even want to look at, paired up with average looking women. But from what I have seen, genuinely attractive men don't tend to be in relationships. I guess they just sleep around.
Mmmm I don't know, I've seen really good-looking guys with girlfriends or are married.
The woman will have much easier time. Men value feminine traits more than looks. Men are willing to date way wider range.
While women do value looks more. Women have verry strict visual standards.
If this is really true then it would mean that all the stuff women say about not caring about looks as much as men do isn't true. Which I don't believe either, I'm just saying.
I do agree that men will date women of more varying degrees of attractiveness than women, but we still see a lot of fairly good-looking women with less attractive men. So even though men are more willing to date women on a wider range of looks, I still think if they had an opportunity with the "best" looking one, they would still go for her over the ones that are just okay or fair even if the fair ones are better quality.
Dude, you dont have to do try hard.
Just look at what women find attractive in a man, what they want, most of them, 6 feet (5% of male world population) , 6pack (5%) 6 figures (0.3%) etc.
While women do "settle" in their minds the things they value the most are rare. Especially all of them together.
While most men want a woman who is feminine, not a H and fit. 100% achievable for most women. And women also have makeup if their face isn't very nice naturally.
It is hardly a contest my dude.
Yes, absolutely, men can find girls regardless of whether they're handsome or ugly, but the same isn't true for women. I wish I had a magic wand to abolish this system.
No, throughout human history 40% of males dont reproduce, while about 95% of females do. Clearly women have it easier. Cause men dont only value your looks.
@Jewelmyth I will say that guys can definitely get women more frequently than your average modern day insecure male believes he can, because most guys of today tend to want very unrealistic looking women so they feel like they're out of their league. But I still think ugly guys are not doing that well. Maybe better than ugly women though.
They say beauty is in the eye of the beholder. I have never found actors like Ryan Reynolds and Ryan Gosling the slightest bit handsome.
Maybe the people I think are ugly think the same thing about me. Maybe the people you think are ugly think the same thing about you.
There are universal traits of beauty. And some people have more of those and some less. It is just a fact of life
@Mark_Est I have seen other people mostly online call Ryan Reynolds and Ryan Gosling handsome but I have never seen the appeal.
@Mark_Est
there are faces that are universally attractive but it doesn't override the fact that different people find different features attractive. I've had guys call me ugly, some call me average, others drool over me.
@nastyb, your own point is defeating you. Universally attractive is showing exatly that some traits are universally liked. And those traits in a person makes them more attractive to everybody. Perhaps not their ideal type but in general that divides people into their levels of universal attractiveness
@Mark_Est
that's how I know you don't have any actual life experience.
When I was 23, I was in class with another girl who was considered "universally hot", the type of girl that every guy would find gorgeous. BUT, there was one guy who was more obsessed with the way I looked than her. He chased me for my looks, made all sorts of moves on me, chose to sit next to me instead of her.
I honestly didn't think I was more attractive than her. But he clearly thought so. He checked me out all the time.
Just the same way how when I was hanging out with my guy friend and he pointed to a cashier who he had a crush on, and said she was extremely beautiful. I didn't see any beauty at all, just another ordinary plain looking girl.
Never heard of a bell curve? Or do you think that you are the epitome of ugliness?
Clearly in that class you both had decent attractiveness. And you werent some ugly cave troll either. Obviously there are variations that somebody likes and also what their genes like and react to.
But again, you two were already conventinally attractive, that shared the attention.
Think for a few seconds before you just jump to responding
Based on what I've personally seen , it's harder for unattractive women to get serious relationships. Hooking up is different
Oh definitely. Unattractive women are still having a lot of sex, especially really overweight ones. If you're friends with them long enough and they feel like they've gained your trust they will even open up and say how they slept with a lot of men, even more than the average woman.
Exactly what I was thinking
@ManOnFire No, they can still get pregnant and give birth
Man for sure..
I've seen guys drooling over some utters shockers.
No, because a man will seek p***y no matter the hideous face above it. An ugly man will usually need caish to get in a serious pairing.
Probably a woman. Cause if a guy could have money. It attract women also.
Sadly yes.
Hey , what’s according to you are traits a woman must have for u to date her
I think most women are fairly normal looking. Very few are truly "beautiful" even the ones most people praise just because they're blonde or look like models. The types of women I find very attractive - and even physically - are not easy to come by even in my very diverse area. I'm pretty particular about what's hot for me, and it's almost never the kinds of women most dudes fall all over themselves for ( - most guys actually tend to have much more basic tastes in women than they think, or the opposite: very messed up tastes in women - ) or what Hollywood would classify as sexy.
Not to mention personality and character is an enormous thing for me at my age. Most women of today don't really have it. Instead a lot of them think acting rude or stuck up is acceptable or even sexy, or they just don't care period because they figure guys are still going to want them regardless of how badly they behave. I'm not cool with that. It also shows bad morals.
What is an attractive woman according to u? Deceive please
I don't think about it... live and let live
Unattractive men have it the hardest