Do you think women are happier in relationships with less attractive men?

[Anonymous]

Yes

No

[oldasIfeel22]

This is one thing I got to respect about women. Many are willing to give an average guy a chance if he’s got his shit together.

But vice versa is very tough. Truth is I wasn’t that physically attracted to me last girlfriend. But I told myself I wasn’t getting any younger and I initially like her personality (she went psycho later). I ended up breaking with her and she was devasted. But we went 2 months without sex (my choice). I found myself just not wanting to do with her at all. But I was forcing myself to try to look deeper.

Other than looks I had other legitimate reasons to break it off. She came from a horrible family and she was screwed up. Not to say I don’t give people a chance. But I need to know they are working to improve themselves. She wasn’t. She was financially dependent on her grandparents and didn’t have any solid work.

[Avicenna]

Some women are. Insecure women will spend much of their time worrying about him leaving her for another woman, something that's really annoying to hear because it questions her own commitment to the relationship besides being a distraction and him not wanting her to feel distress. Women who are insecure are less likely to worry about this if they think their guy is less attractive.

[Azura_88]

HELL NO!
I would rather date a handsome guy than waste my time with an average guy.
Because average guys are loyal due to shortage of the supply.
I am still loyal despite having many options so I also expect a handsome guy who's loyal not because he's lonely or options deprived, but because he's with me for real.

[NorthAfrican]

Not necessarily no. With everything else being equal, a woman would probably be happier with a man she finds attractive than a man she finds unattractive.

[NamerOfStars]

Maybe. But I'd suspect if so it was because 1. they were less concerned with his looks and more with the more lasting elements of a relationship and 2. people who know they're seen as less physically desirable are more likely to put more into a relationship, since it's harder to find one.

[otaku_owl_91]

The thing is that you have women that would settle for a less attractive guy because the guy that she really wants won't claim her, but he'll happily blow her back out. This is mainly common in relationships with single mothers because the less attractive simp will claim her and her children while she's secretly getting her back blown out by the guy that won't claim her.

[Crazyb33]

I don't know that’s a good question the only thing I can think of as a reason for them to be happier would be they wouldn’t have to worry about him getting hit on all the time and cheating

[NathanDavis]

Women would be happier in healthy relationships with men, or women... or anyone they wish for.

healthier, relationships make people happier, not looks per se.

[Elliegirl]

Personality and compatibility are more important to a happy relationship. Attractiveness is a bonus.

[Hanzyxw]

No, I think man are asswholes no Matter if handsome or not

[Azura_88]

Exactly. It's a BIG MYTH that average or ugly guys will make us more happy. The truth is, they're MORE SNEAKIER, appear to take care of us and manipulative because they can't afford to get caught and lose us because they have no better options.

[LyvBee]

Only jealous not confident girls would be happier 😂 they wrongly think nobody else will take away their man if he is ugly. But there's always someone that will see that man cute 😋

[Bella9191]

No. Women aren’t less shallow than men. We are all human.

[user44566632]

Haha This is why we men always say : "Beware of Gold diggers" 🤣🤣
Then when you said " We are all human " right after you made sexist , its priceless 👌 you made my night ☝️

[Bella9191]

@Ludal-The-French I can’t even understand your insult because you English makes no sense. And I am not even 100 percent sure it’s an insult because it seems you have copied and pasted from a google translate.

[user44566632]

I know and i couldnt correct or delete it 🤷🏻‍♂️ .
So its the way it is.😅😅 I didn't insult you but I am certain you got it.👌

[karaspara]

No but then I don't think looks are the most important thing in a relationship

[VanillaSalt]

I think looks matter a lot to men. If I’m not attracted then sex will be an issue unless you give mad head lmao. And for men sex matters a lot

[karaspara]

@VanillaSalt Yes but that's sex not a relationship

[VanillaSalt]

Ha! When the fuck will you EVER find a man that will accept the relationship and give up sex? There’s less than 5 of him in the world. Sex is one of the top ide say 3 things in a relationship.

[karaspara]

@VanillaSalt of course sex is important in a relationship i'm talking about the difference between hook ups where a less attractive guy will struggle and a relationship which is a completey different ball game so don't be salty lol

[VanillaSalt]

Oh course it’s a different ball game... men control commitment. Women may control the sex but men decide with who and when they commit.

[karaspara]

@VanillaSalt ok you and all the divorced men out there crying lmao

[ChrisMaster69]

@karaspara fully with you there and social media and online relationships that move in to the real word have shown this to be true,

Whereas once you would get miss blonde and beautiful paired up with mr Blonde and handsome.

Online stuff means mr blonde handsome does not have Facebook, Insta etc as he is out playing sports, whereas miss blonde n beautiful does have it and so does John the guy in her chemistry class who’s nice to her.
They develop close emotional bonds online, spill over to real world. Mr average is now firmly hooked up outside his normal hunting ground.

[VanillaSalt]

Ok so simple math. 30% of men will die alone without having a relationship. Of the remaining 70% of men 50% will get divorced... so 65% of men are not willing to date assuming everyone else is willing... but we have mgtow and red pill movements... not to mention the un-dateables and the men that don’t want to commit... your options are quite limited at this point... but I’m not arguing with you

[karaspara]

@VanillaSalt coolio my options are fine but thanks for the info

[Peppermint55]

Data say it. And from what I've found, most of the times, its true.

[GoldenTulip]

But how is that man "ugly"... in that picture.. No one is ugly! There is always someone that finds someone attractive and beautiful. This is too rude.

[Sasha-marie]

Honestly I wouldn’t be because I’m picky and have a certain type. But a lot of females are desperate so they probably are happy.

[Ez-Bri-Z]

Can we just all agree that baby is adorably cute?

[Asker]

Not really

[Ez-Bri-Z]

😡

The baby is adorable.

[Ez-Bri-Z]

What is wrong with you besides everything?

[Asker]

What?

[TheEbonyEnchantress]

@Asker i hope you get killed you son of bitch🖕🏿

[Aiko_E_Lara]

Why aren't you aborted really? Did you wish to be?

[TheEbonyEnchantress]

You're a fucking idiot

[Asker]

@TheEbonyEnchantress Prove me wrong

[TheEbonyEnchantress]

You're an ugly son of a bitch. And you can take your racism and go fuck yourself with it🖕🏿

[Anonymous]

No, women are happier in relationships with me. who care and are loyal... and it just so happens that this coordinates with less attractive men.

[Anonymous]

Everyone prefers a hot person with an amazing personality. But irl things are complicated so we have to calculate our decisions according to what we want and what we can get.

[KloexJayne]

Looks shouldn’t affect your relationship..

[jerdanro]

They sure effect getting one. Isn't atteaction what draws people together initially?

[VanillaSalt]

@jerdanro your correct.

[KloexJayne]

In a way yes but some people are attracted by the sound of a voice…talent…intelligence…watching them care for another person etc.
Not everyone is shallow and just see’s looks

[jerdanro]

@KloexJayne Thank you. It's good to know you feel that way and I agree. It's harder on sites like tinder because looks are all you have to go on.

[VanillaSalt]

Shallow to have preferences? Not every women won’t date a short man. A broke man. A weak man... and sound of voice is also shallow.

Also. The difference between hot and ugly is a number and a drink to the face. It’s the difference between a funny joke and sexual harassment.

[VanillaSalt]

Don’t use dating apps. Their stupid and broken. Only really cute men get dates with semi hot ladies. Bios almost never matter. And in tinders case... men pay $15 but women pay $5. It’s a ripoff. Don’t pay don’t use. If you wanna meet talk to women in public.

That being said. Any man that trusts even a trustworthy woman in today’s environment is a fool. A bad actor can give a single false claim of sexual harassment and you will pay one way or another even in more conservative areas. Until innocent until proven guilty returns women are too dangerous for men that value themselves and their future.

[KloexJayne]

Tinder is a hook up app, therefore looks do matter if your just trying to get your rocks off…try eharmony

[jerdanro]

Thank you.

[KloexJayne]

Just because the person may find you attractive doesn’t necessarily mean they want your paws all over them at any given time… it’s still sexual harassment therefore you can’t be upset when it’s met with a punch to the throat, that way we both get something we didn’t want 🤣

[KloexJayne]

And you seem to be missing the mark completely @VanillaSalt …. Who spat in your breakfast lmfao!! I’m sensing you’re speaking from a long history of rejection.

[VanillaSalt]

lol rejection. I’m not afraid of rejection anymore haven’t been for years. I work a lot of odd hours so dating been the last thing in my mind for a while. And again right now is not the time to be trusting women with your future.

And sexual harassment in Australia includes leering so you know. In the UK asking a woman out more than one can be considered harassment which when targeting women is considered a hate crime.

Also being hot or not can make a simple compliment like you lol hot do you work out make you lol good or like a creeper...

[KloexJayne]

You still don’t get the fact that good looking people can still be creeps.

[BakedBeanieBabie]

That papa is cute tho.

[Asker]

Lol. He is Asian

[FictionalCharacter]

That’s a very picture and both are attractive.

[Asker]

He isn't

[FictionalCharacter]

Very *good* picture

[Kas19]

Are you the dude in the pic?

[hela1110]

Yes bcz less attractive men are usually more loyal

[JackieofWhite]

I really don’t know if that is the case or not

[anon_teen]

YesI think so. Looks don't really matter.

[Ayanna240]

no. i do not believe so.

[Anonymous]

This pic is kinda racist and I do think so.

[GirlyGal20]

Sometimes yes.

[Anonymous]

It's because they are easy targets

[Iron_Man]

If they are rich

[Anonymous]

Sadly no.