When a girl responds to your texts late at night, does it have any significant meaning?

[Anonymous]

So i had sent her something earlier today, but since she had some activities during the day she couldnt respond (she already told me about her hard schedule). She did respond to my message like around 1.30 ll
should i take this a sign of interest?
and what should i respond;just goodnight?

Updates

+1 y

ow yeah i forgot to mention, she has shown huge interest in me already, especially the last few days

[hazal21]

Well i can't tell that whether she's interested in you or no but i can say that girls usually don't care about replying to a guy at late night. so if she sent you a message at that time i think she cares for you or she likes u a little that she still managed to reply :)

[Asker]

well ik she's interested, she to obv especially the last few days :p
even my friends told her to just tie the knot lol

[hazal21]

Girls aren't really interested to talk with a guy sending text messages at late night. It means she has an interest you!
so hey ask her out 😊

[Asker]

we already have and are going :p this just adds up for her :p

[hazal21]

Oh that's good. Congratulations 😊

[Asker]

thanks! :p

[hazal21]

Pleasure

[Anonymous]

i wouldn't think to deeply in it. but maybe it could be a sign of her putting extra effort into talking to you even if it means late at night.

[JohnBhoy94]

No, it's clearly not a sign of interest. The time she so happened to respond to you at was 1:30.

I wouldn't respond to it.

[Asker]

im sorry read update :p

[JohnBhoy94]

If she's shown a "huge" interest in you, why aren't you asking her out?

[Asker]

we have already and next week were going out aswell

[JohnBhoy94]

Right, so what was the point of this question if you're already going on a date with her next week?

You're questioning whether she is interested or not, yet apparently she's already agree to a date with you. Either you're really insecure OR you're lying.

[Asker]

well its more about insecure :p
why would i lie about this even

[JohnBhoy94]

Oh just the fact that you know she's interested and it's "obvious", yet you're question whether he responding with short texts shows interest.

To answer the question why you might be lying about it, maybe because you were rejected by her and the only way you can make yourself happier is pretending she likes you and you're going a date.

What you said in reply to my answer isn't congruent with what you asked in the initial question.

I don't really care if you're lying to me... what you should be worried about is lying to yourself.

If this whole story is true, then great... go on the date and have fun.

[Asker]

whats not congruent lol

na she never rejected me neither, in fact she is the one chasing me. But this is so new to me, thats why im a bit insecure. And due to our past, its hard for me to tell if i can trust her

[JohnBhoy94]

So she has never rejected you, has been chasing you, yet you're insecure enough to question her interest and whether you trust her or not. Read that over again a few times and tell me if that's a good foundation for a relationship?

[Asker]

I've thought about it on that way too. But i like her too. Im mean were like twins...
But its the fact that i never had a girlfriend, and this girl is like so beautiful... She is what all the fellas want. Like they give her the attention, but i just get her attention with doing nothing. She always come to me first, laughs with everything, the leg touch thingy etc...
Thats why im so new to this.

[JohnBhoy94]

Right, I see. Well go out on the date and have fun.

[Asker]

thanks :p

[Not_Helping]

Other than her being awake, no.

[Asker]

read update :p

[Not_Helping]

Then it means she's interested in you and also awake! :D

[Asker]

she's off now, im just going to send her a goodnight

[Not_Helping]

Well, tell her goodnight from me too. I hope she dreams well. Of you, of course, not me.

[Asker]

i will :p thanks