If a girl text you after midnight that she is thinking about you, does that indicate anything?

[Anonymous]

[Lov2PlezUgurl]

Why do you say she's not interested in you she's obviously interested in you or she would not be texting you after midnight when she's lying in the bed thinking about someone to snuggle up with and she thought of you have you asked her out yet? Here's a thought I seen this on Facebook the other day a guy she's a girl sitting on a beach he walks up to her and he holds his fist out like he want the fist bumper when she goes to fish buff and he turns his fist over and open up his hand and he's holding a... Condom.. such an easy way to ask your girl for sex isn't it without even saying a word he gets turned down three times but the fourth girl takes him up on it although I don't think that would be something to do to a friend that thinks about you although girls don't really have guy friends... You're a guy you know the women that your friends with in the back of your mind you're thinking someday I might get the chance to... Old guys thinks like this and women think they have friends that are guys untrue if it were me I would just come right out and ask her to go out for a cup of coffee with me a coffee date is real easy if she doesn't drink coffee then buy her a mixed drink turn it into an official date you'll never know unless you take that step but personally I already know she would not be calling you at all if she was not interested in you

[Asker]

Trust me she isn’t interested. She told me she doesn’t see me that way. That is why this doesn’t make any sense to me. It probably was nothing more than a bored text. She said she was at a party.

[Lov2PlezUgurl]

Well if she's at a party she is surrounded by guys and people she wouldn't be bored enough to send you a text if she didn't like you I think if you played your car right or maybe just come right out and tell her that you like her... You do like it right if not all of this would be wasted... Of course you may have already told her that you liked her but as I was reading one of the girls replies she mentioned that girls are manipulative to get what they want... So our guys everyone that wants something from another person tries to come up with a way to get it go read some books on psychology I remember a girl had a tag on the front of her car it had her name written on it and I thought I want to teach her a lesson I didn't know the girl I walked up to her and I looked at her and I said ain't your name Kathy that was the name on the front of her car and she said yes I said when you had a date a month ago you remember you were supposed to come by and pick me up she was driving a Camaro in 10 minutes time I had her believing that we actually had a date I've never met the girl before in my life of course I can't clean and told her what I did and she immediately got out of the car and took her name off the front of her car it's all in the way you present yourself and you will be able to at least get one date out of her anyone I'm just trying to help don't cut yourself short unless and until you try everything that's available to you

[Asker]

I asked her and she said wasn’t interested. I tried everything

[DaveJord]

Yes if its that late and she awake and feels the need to take you and say she's thinking of you... in my mind that means I am 80% of the way to hooking up with her. Or that she has some type of emotional need that she want me to fill... so it it still indicates I have a good chance to get laid, and if she's relationship material then its a good sign all round.

[Asker]

I asked her and she said wasn’t interested

[DaveJord]

Oh, yeah then... that weird block her and move on. Sounds emotionally needy and not sexy to me.

[Asker]

Yeah she is mentally unstable. I messed up the situation by being emotional and calling her out

[DaveJord]

Nah... I would not say you messed up. You saw something in her that you needed to get answer to and she did not response well... so you got what you needed to know out of it. Don't make exceptions for women, if you do not feel she's what you are looking for. Trust me!

[mobiusforniner]

Same happened to me. She would call or text at like 3am, visit my office at work to tell me she was thinking about me the night before. I actually fell for her. Began doing things together, going to her place for dinner, taking her out. And when I told her I loved her, she freaked out and quit her job. We were just friends apparently

[Mona458]

Wow. This definitely depends on the girl.
Some humans are manipulative and use these things to trap you emotionally (less likely but still) and other girls, like myself I must add, are probably falling in love with you and stay up thinking about beacuse even thoughts of you fill us with joy.
Or she could be too shy to say she loves/likes you and be saying it like this to see how you respond and see if you like her.
Or she could be bored playing with your emotions. I am not sure without further information. All the best 💓

[Asker]

I think she is just playing with my emotions because she claims she isn’t interested. I try to escalate things but I have no success with her. It’s like a roadblock every time

[Mona458]

Im sorry that sounds sucky, all the best be patient and keep observing her and dont rush to conclude if you're really unsure. Overtime her actions have to reveal her true intentions

[Cynicaldreamer]

Well based on your replies to others, you've made it clear she's not interested in you.

So if I'm texting a platonic guy late at night, it's usually because something is on my mind and I need someone to vent/talk to, or I'm lonely and just looking for someone to keep me company. That's it. Don't read too much into it. She might have texted several people besides you and since you were up and replied, she decided to talk to you.

[Asker]

Why would I not read too much into it when it doesn’t make any sense. I guess only girls do stuff like this because guys don’t text girls after midnight they aren’t interested in.

[Cynicaldreamer]

It seems weird but yeah... as I said, don't read into it. Girls just like having someone to talk to sometimes without any hidden meaning or agenda behind it. I know for a guy if they text us late at night it usually means: sex, something is wrong, or they really like us.
But women aren't that complicated (always, haha). If we like talking to you, we're going to reach out to you.

And fyi- I've had guy friends text and message me past midnight knowing damn well I'm asleep, but they leave messages to reply to in the morning. Nothing sexual... just random crap, memes, or messages. But they were nightowls so that might be different.

[hahahmm]

She's warming up the crazy train. The crazy train would eventually have her calling you every hour from 12AM to 6AM and yelling stuff like, 'why don't you love me?' Best move is to ignore and sleep at night. Worry about talking to her during normal waking hours.

[hsshannah96]

Yes. I don’t usually stay up past that so if I text someone then it means I really am interested in them

[Asker]

I’m thinking the same thing. Plus she was at a party so why out of anybody she could text you text me.

[JasM0]

In today’s climate, take what she says at face value. If you still question, ask her for clarity.


Cheers!

[TheFlak38]

it indicates interest but with women you can never know. What they say and what they do are always two different things. They love to fuck with a man's mind.

[Asker]

I asked her and she said wasn’t interested

[donnny2367764]

Indicates she's probably horny and has her vibrator on stand by in case you can't make it to her house

[awkward_author]

She's either bored, horny, misses you or a combination of the three.

[Asker]

I’m gonna say she is bored because she has no interest in me

[awkward_author]

Okay.

[Anonymous]

yeah it means she likes you or she's trying to use you as her emotional tampon free therapist to whine bitch and complain about some guy she likes who's treating her like crap

[Asker]

I asked her and she said wasn’t interested

[dragoblack]

I assume it's when she has free time from her other stuff

[brokengirl98]

maybe or maybe she was just bored and has nothing to entertain her

[Asker]

I think that is exactly what it was because she said she wasn’t interested which makes no sense

[brokengirl98]

i was in a relationship like that he was doing what she is doing to you exactly , he only texts me at night and when we were together keeps looking in his phone instead of properly talking to me,, i got angry told him am not avaliable at night and stopped talking to him to test if he would notice he didn't talk and i figured out i was just entering his busy schedule so yes she is bored ,, try dissappearing for a while if she cares she will contact u

[Shananka]

Can mean anything maybe she's bored or feeling lonely at night and needs company.

[Asker]

I get that but would you do that to a guy you had no interest in?

[Shananka]

Depends on my mood if its a friend then i would, how about guys why do they message a girl when they can't sleep?

[Asker]

From my experience guys only do things like this to girls they are interested in

[Shananka]

You know those things that could have more than one meaning, but udually just means she needs someone to talk to and you were available and she's comfortable with you. Thatd what i think and do

[Zygum]

May be she is alone and she afraid, so she need your company

[Gwenhwyfar]

Likes you. Might be feeling horny and/or romantic.

[Asker]

Interesting. She said she doesn’t like me back

[Gwenhwyfar]

Maybe just in a friend way

[Asker]

That’s weird but okay

[Gwenhwyfar]

Not weird. Sometimes girls like guys just as friends.

[Asker]

That maybe true but guys aren’t texting girls after midnight as friends. I guess this is one of the things girls do that doesn’t make sense.

[Gwenhwyfar]

She could just kiss you as a friend or she could be reluctant to confess her feelings for whatever reason. Good luck.

[Gwenhwyfar]

Like you. Not kiss you.

[sheikalana]

Probably means she likes you.

[Asker]

Oh okay. The vibe I get is she doesn’t like me because imagine all the things you do for a guy you like she does none of those to me.

[Paris13]

Mmmmmmmmaybe. xxoo

[Razp_Sorbet]

That she has insomnia

[AviatorTom]

It means she goes to bed late... a night owl.

[anon1903]

It can be different time zones too lol

[Mavie123]

There is a huge chance she is just feeling lonely

[Asker]

She was at a party

[KellyKOO]

She clearly likes you to text after midnight.

[Asker]

She said she doesn’t

[KellyKOO]

Why is she thinking about you?

[Asker]

I have no idea. She was at a party so she probably was bored at the party.

[Joker_]

It doesn't really indicate anything