If a girl says "I was thinking about you" through text at night is she interested or is it just words?

[Anonymous]

[bobalife]

Interested or flirty. Shoot your shot :)
If she stop replying, message her again something flirty and have fun.

[Asker]

How is that flirty if she said that in response to me asking "what made you text me?"

[bobalife]

Flirty 101, It’s not a platonic thing to say to a guy lol. Flirt back.

[Asker]

You wouldn't tell a guy friend that you were thinking about him after he asked what made you text him?

[bobalife]

No that’s weird lol. I treat my guy friends like bros or just talk to them normally haha. I think you’re learning what is flirting which is like a dance and can be confusing. Take it from a female lol. Flirt with her back.

[bobalife]

Have fun and be little more confident, don’t doubt yourself :)

[dwreborn]

She interested unless you guys play jokes and shit on each other but if I just met someone and I heard them words that's a good thing

[Asker]

We have known each other for a while but we don't play games like this

[dwreborn]

Your in then that a good thing I remember that feeling when I was first seeing my wife I miss those times with her

[Asker]

Yeah but I'm unsure how to interpret that message because our dynamic has mostly been friendly and not romantic

[dwreborn]

After 25 years you stop saying them things and stuff seems expected then after time you don't notice things are getting stale it with us it happened with both of us and she doesn't want to try and revive it and it breaks my heart so make sure you keep it fresh and fun or it will sneak up on you and it might be to late to fix it

[dwreborn]

Do you guys flirt touch each other things like that?

[dwreborn]

If there is flirting going on then make a move if you really treasure the friendship then this could complicate things and ruin the friendship usually lovers can't be friends after unless a lot of time goes by

[AviatorTom]

She wouldn't take the time to type those words and send the text if she wasn't interested.

[Asker]

What if she said that in response to when I said what made you text? Does that change anything?

[AviatorTom]

Nope

[Natasha1995]

The text and the hour at which she sent it speak volumes. There isn't much of a hidden message there.

[Asker]

Can you elaborate? People saying that it could just be friendly check in

[Natasha1995]

It all depends on the context. Are you friends? Are you starting to date?

I'm just saying that I never received nor sent a message like this without thinking there might be more involved than meets the eye.

[slatyb]

She's DTF, if not that night, then soon. If a woman takes any trouble to contact you, be near you, talk with you, she's interested.

[Asker]

Why would that mean she is interested if she said that in the middle of the conversation?

[slatyb]

If she's having a conversation with you late at night, she's interested.

It's possible she's doing the same with multiple guys just for the attention, but that's pretty unusual. Anyway you would know from her behavior when you are around her.

[heruncommonsense]

Have you tried asking her for sex? That should clear it up.

[heruncommonsense]

But yeah, probably interested

[Asker]

We never had that kind of situation

[Finchie40]

Sounds like she is interested in you for her to even say those words to you

[Asker]

She said it after I asked what made you text me? Does that change anything?

[Finchie40]

Nope, she is just being honest that she was thinking about you

[tfan1]

She could be interested or flirting with you or if she has your picture she could’ve been masturbating to you.

[AngryCarl2]

She wouldn't be texting you at night if she wasn't interested.

[Asker]

Girls don't text their guy friends at night?

[AngryCarl2]

Without knowing specific details of your relationship, I'd say no.

[Allmenrsick]

Kind of inbetween.. she likes you but then she is not satisfied 100%. Its like you are comforting but not exciting

[Asker]

What should I do?

[Allmenrsick]

Onenight stand

[Asker]

What if we never had a sexual dynamic?

[Allmenrsick]

She is horny obviously

[stayorgo]

With women.
Probably eighty out of A hundred 💯 JUST BS WORDS

[qwerty2469]

Her other 3 boyfriends are asleep and she wants dick.

[beenherebefore]

Probably just words I'd say.

[mstoxicprincess]

either plain flirting or into u

[Asker]

Is it not friendly talk?

[mstoxicprincess]

usually not usually it’s cuz she flirting

[mstoxicprincess]

or she’s playing u cuz she bored lol

[Asker]

It could be she was playing me because the conversation didn't go anywhere. I don't know if my response was engaging enough

[Vegasrunner]

C'mon man you can't be this dense.

[Staximus]

Make your move son

[Anonymous]

Anyone who texts is not remotely serious

[dwreborn]

They could be really shy but if they always text and never calls or wants to meet then ya

[seeyounexttuesday]

Shoot your shot and find out.

[In_Trance]

Ask for clarification

[basementfox1]

She's definitely interested

[Asker]

Why would that mean she was interested can you explain?

[basementfox1]

I mean she cares about you enough to think about you. If you're on her mind, you've probably made an impact on her feelings. If she wasn't interested she'd ghost you or block you.

[Asker]

True but we never dated and we never hung out one on one. Most of our interactions have been friendly?

[basementfox1]

Ask her directly and she how she responds. "Do you want to hang out at x tonight?"

I do think she's interested unless she's trying to make fun of you or use you. If she really wasn't interested she wouldn't message you at all.

[Rachel256]

lol yes