Why do some straight girls then become lesbians after a breakup or getting rejected too many times?

[Anonymous]

Like for example, a guy cheats on the girl and then she breaks up with him and then assumes every guy is a cheater, so then she develops an attraction for her own gender. Why?

[XRabbitHeartX]

You don't "become" lesbian. You're either straight, bisexual or gay and you can't change that. If a girl "becomes lesbian" after a break up then she was either a lesbian all along or bisexual.

[Asker]

So why would she have dated a guy in the first place?

[XRabbitHeartX]

@Asker

She might be bisexual. Or she just realized that she's not into guys and want to come out. It's not unheard of for gay people to date the opposite gender to conform to expectations or due to pressure before coming out officially. Just recently I watched a youtube video of a girl sharing her story of coming out and she says she dated guys in the past before even though she wasn't happy and felt she was living a lie. Only now after formally coming does she feel ready to actually start dating women.

[Anonymous]

They don't become lesbians, either they were always lesbians, they were always bisexual or they are just experimenting.

[Asker]

Why then date a guy in the first place?

[Opinion Owner]

Maybe they didn't know, or were oppressing their feelings.

[9mfeo]

They may never have been straight in the first place, because that's not how sexuality works.

[Touglyforfemales]

Since when do girls get rejected? I've never seen it.

[Aquariusmystery]

They develop a mistrust of men and decide to go for girls instead

[Asker]

Quite stupid because of one guy, right?

[Sergioal1944]

Your pretty! :)

[Aquariusmystery]

@asker very.

@Sergioal1944 thanks :)

[Anonymous]

because of the hurt probably. I would consider her bisexual though. Just because she had been with guys before doesn't mean she was completely straight in the first place

[cinderelli]

because girls rock dude.. :P

[apexalpha]

I'm here for the xper

[Asker]

Then you have no life.

[Anonymous]

Why? Did you cheat?

[Asker]

No, it isn't about me. It's my observations...

[Opinion Owner]

Mmhmm

[Asker]

So do you have an answer or not?

[Opinion Owner]

Umm... no

[Asker]

Then there was no point for you to comment in the first place.

[Opinion Owner]

Well, I guess that was a pretty bitch move on my part then, huh!