Girls, what do you think about a guy, who cums in his pants?

[Varik]

Well, yesterday happened something that is really uncomfortable for me. Since i can share this in the Internet without to expose who i am, i hope to get some opinions and maybe advise here. I maybe should mention that i had no experience with girls before.

There is this girl from my school that i have a crush on. Recently we started to hang around more often together with other friends of us. Yesterday we were at her home and she casually started flirting with me, telling me i am cute, carresing my hair and while the others were in the next room i tried to kiss her. That was sucessful, so we made out on the couch and i got really hard.
Everything went fine until here but then she got on top on me, sitting on my lap and well... started to move a lot with her hips. After a while of that, i just lost it and couldn´t hold it back anymore. It seems she noticed because she stopped and looked down on my lap. I did wear a grey sweatpants and there was clearly a big dark spot visibly!
She started laughing a bit but didn´t said anything, i was so embarrassed. I quickly excused myself and went home, because i didn´t wanted to let one of the others see that.

I feel so ashamed and don´t know how i should react to her the next time i see her. What does she think about me now? I am pathetic? Have i ruined my chance with her now? What would you think if you were in her position?

[Yokoneko]

Due to my age , I find this to be the cutest post I've seen , it's just adorable.
It happened to one of my boyfriend from way back when, while he was resting in my lap I was running my fingers through his hair and he just couldn't help it. It just happens you can't control it , its a little uncomfortable at first but after a while she will probably be slightly flattered to effect you so much.

[Varik]

Thank you, i hope she thinks similar.

[Yokoneko]

Don't worry , girls get wet lol only difference is you can't see but we know lol

[JayneW]

no that's totally normal and if it was me i would be glad that i could get that reaction out of a boy! you are young so plenty of time to practise and gain control. next time you see her just be casual about it and tell her wow you really turned me on!

A boyfriend confessed that he always used to masterbate before we met up so that this didn't happen to him!!

[Varik]

I didn´t expect so tolerant answers but it gives me confidence to actually talk with her about it.
Thanks for your fast response i value it :).

[JayneW]

good luck!!!

[Anonymous]

I'm really sorry to hear about your situation, but honestly, you should have just owned it. Shit happens and if she's cool she would understand. You likely made it worse by running off like you were embarrassed.

However, if this girl really likes you, she'll be willing to listen to what you have to say. Tell her that you're inexperienced and it just happened. It's all you can do.

[Varik]

Yes i think you are right that it complicated things that i went home right after this. Thanks for boosting my courage with your quick response, i hope she understand this.

[Opinion Owner]

No problem and good luck.

[trumpetplayerforlife]

Ok so that kinda happens dwoth my best friend and her ex he used to get hard all the time he had to even use the bathroom at her house once I only know this because we talked about it once and starts dlaughing because its her ex now and I don't think so but I would ignore it and keep kissing him or ask if he didn't go go clean up and if he wanted to wear some of my brothers old pants😊